An old online friend...

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I'm going to be an hour or so from an old online friend in a couple months.

We stopped chatting 2 months ago with the intention of not speaking again.

I want to message her and tell her I'll be near her and see if we can meet up.

That's stupid, right?
 
I'm going to be an hour or so from an old online friend in a couple months.

We stopped chatting 2 months ago with the intention of not speaking again.

I want to message her and tell her I'll be near her and see if we can meet up.

That's stupid, right?

Probably, but do it anyway
Life is short
If you don't, you'll always wonder what if......
But keep your expectations low.
 
I'm going to be an hour or so from an old online friend in a couple months.

We stopped chatting 2 months ago with the intention of not speaking again.

I want to message her and tell her I'll be near her and see if we can meet up.

That's stupid, right?

It is.
No pun intended.
 
You never know unless you ask. Just don't be a dick about it, and respect a no if she gives one.
 
I'm going to be an hour or so from an old online friend in a couple months.

We stopped chatting 2 months ago with the intention of not speaking again.

So...if this is an absolute, then you're no longer friends.

I want to message her and tell her I'll be near her and see if we can meet up.

That's stupid, right?

Yeah. You want, but she don't. This is a good example of a completely avoidable mistake.

Gotta let it go and move on. Plenty of other fish in the sea.

As well as delish lobsters, scallops and oysters.
 
I'm going to be an hour or so from an old online friend in a couple months.

We stopped chatting 2 months ago with the intention of not speaking again.

I want to message her and tell her I'll be near her and see if we can meet up.

That's stupid, right?


Garnate is back posting here now.

Got vodka? If so, go for it!
 
I'm going to be an hour or so from an old online friend in a couple months.

We stopped chatting 2 months ago with the intention of not speaking again.

I want to message her and tell her I'll be near her and see if we can meet up.

That's stupid, right?

Very. If I was that friend, it would be fatalistic stupid.
 
I guess it depends on who's idea it was or why you decided to not speak anymore.

But yeah, probably stupid because you asked.
 
There are these things called "letters" that you can send to people through the mail.

When you send a text message or e-mail, you are making a demand on her attention. If you send a letter, it's much easier for her to ignore it completely if she wants to.

Let her know that you'll be nearby and how best to reach you. Then stop and wait for a reply.
 
If you're already not chatting...what is there to lose?

Just don't be a dick about it (I.e. stalk her at her workplace to "surprise" her), and what's the worst that can happen? She'll NOT talk to you less?

I've gone months after breaking contact to say "hi", or I'm in town feel like a drink again? and reviving relationships.
Sometimes a break can breathe needed CPR.

Just keep your expectations low and don't be surprised if you don't hear back. And keep it to ONE message, not an inbox of whiney drivel.
 
So the guy doesn't bother to talk to her for two months then all of a sudden "Hey girl, I'm in your neighborhood. Booty call!"
What a fuckwitt..
 
So the guy doesn't bother to talk to her for two months then all of a sudden "Hey girl, I'm in your neighborhood. Booty call!"
What a fuckwitt..

~presumptuous, aren't we?
The op said nothing that you just said and certainly not in the manner in which you fabricated it.
He said it was an online friend he's thinking of meeting.
Which your twisted depraved mind turned into a horny pig looking for a fuck.
We don't even know who stopped talking to who and for what reason.
Then you called him a fuckwit.
You're a hopeless POS hashtag.
 
~presumptuous, aren't we?
The op said nothing that you just said and certainly not in the manner in which you fabricated it.
He said it was an online friend he's thinking of meeting.
Which your twisted depraved mind turned into a horny pig looking for a fuck.
We don't even know who stopped talking to who and for what reason.
Then you called him a fuckwit.
You're a hopeless POS hashtag.
Don't tell me… you've done that too
And wtf is POS? :confused:
 
~presumptuous, aren't we?
The op said nothing that you just said and certainly not in the manner in which you fabricated it.
He said it was an online friend he's thinking of meeting.
Which your twisted depraved mind turned into a horny pig looking for a fuck.
We don't even know who stopped talking to who and for what reason.
Then you called him a fuckwit.
You're a hopeless POS hashtag.
Exactly!

Don't tell me… you've done that too
And wtf is POS? :confused:

Piece of Shit
 
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