Let's Talk Lit Crushes

[Wild_Honey_66]

The topic for today's Honey Thread: Lit crushes.
**********************

How do you get them? Do you go looking, or wait for them to come to you?

How long do they usually last? Do you give them a time limit and then give them the boot? Or let them hang around indefinitely?

Do you have a standard for who you crush on, or is anyone fair game?

What do you look for in a crush? What turns you off?

Do you crush one at a time, or are you more likely to multi-task?

Are you open about who you've crushed on, or do you keep it to yourself?

And lastly, do you currently have a crush, and what is their name? (kidding.)

 

[ydahecnot]

Shouldn't that be "this hour's Honey thread"?

 

[Backdoor_Bella]

I've had quite a few Lit Crushes in the past, and told all of them about it. a couple of them are still friends, but I don't pursue anything further than that with them. I am not drawn to any guy who is openly very sexual here, ironically. I enjoy the way certain people's minds work, I love how creative they are.

my boyfriend is a Litster, though he doesn't really come around anymore. he was my most potent crush and things developed from there

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Shouldn't that be "this hour's Honey thread"?

Munky, is that you?

I've had quite a few Lit Crushes in the past, and told all of them about it. a couple of them are still friends, but I don't pursue anything further than that with them. I am not drawn to any guy who is openly very sexual here, ironically. I enjoy the way certain people's minds work, I love how creative they are.

my boyfriend is a Litster, though he doesn't really come around anymore. he was my most potent crush and things developed from there

I typically feel the same way about overtly sexual posters, with the exception of a few whose comments are clearly dipped, rolled and deep-fat-fried in sarcasm first.

 

[NorthRockJohnson]

How do you get them? Do you go looking, or wait for them to come to you?

It happens basically through conversation and common interests. I don't really look but sometimes someone will catch my eye. They always happen organically.

How long do they usually last? Do you give them a time limit and then give them the boot? Or let them hang around indefinitely?

It's indefinite. I don't really give anyone the boot but I will lose crush interest if they get weird and dramatic or if they do nothing but talk about other guys. And sometimes a crush will just evolved into a friendship. And that's cool too.

Do you have a standard for who you crush on, or is anyone fair game?

I'm an all around lover of women. I don't think I really have a set type.

What do you look for in a crush? What turns you off?

Ego, people that crave attention. Huge turn offs.

Do you crush one at a time, or are you more likely to multi-task?

Generally one at a time.

Are you open about who you've crushed on, or do you keep it to yourself?

If there's interest I'm not shy about letting them know. Unless it's clear from the get go it's not going to happen. And in that case I'll move on.

And lastly, do you currently have a crush, and what is their name? (kidding.)

Haha yes I kinda do.

 

[PeteHulbert37]

The topic for today's Honey Thread: Lit crushes.
**********************

How do you get them? Do you go looking, or wait for them to come to you?

How long do they usually last? Do you give them a time limit and then give them the boot? Or let them hang around indefinitely?

Do you have a standard for who you crush on, or is anyone fair game?

What do you look for in a crush? What turns you off?

Do you crush one at a time, or are you more likely to multi-task?

Are you open about who you've crushed on, or do you keep it to yourself?

And lastly, do you currently have a crush, and what is their name? (kidding.)

I crush on you from afar...........like a cuddly lil mouse.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I crush on you from afar...........like a cuddly lil mouse.

Hehe

Hello, mousie!

 

[IhateClowns]

I am very guarded when it comes to anything more than general chit chat and flirting on the boards. I had a "relationship" with someone on lit for a while and it ended sort of abruptly. It was tough. I never expected to come here and crush on anyone, especially how much I did her.

I've also found that no matter how much anyone tells you that it's between you and them, somehow magically shit gets out there. I don't play around a lot. Hell much at all over the past few years. It's not that I'm not open to the idea, but I have to really feel like I can trust that person.

My wife knows I'm on here. She used to be as well. So it's not like I'm hiding anything from her, it's just a comfort level thing for me. Everyone knows I have a few lit crushes, because I don't hide them. That does not mean I do anything sexual with them. It just means they are special people to me.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I am very guarded when it comes to anything more than general chit chat and flirting on the boards. I had a "relationship" with someone on lit for a while and it ended sort of abruptly. It was tough. I never expected to come here and crush on anyone, especially how much I did her.

I wonder how many have had this same experience...

 

[Lord Pmann]

Everyone knows I have a few lit crushes, because I don't hide them. That does not mean I do anything sexual with them. It just means they are special people to me.

Naaaawwwwwwww.

 

[cascadiabound]

I wonder how many have had this same experience...

Many I think

 

[IhateClowns]

I wonder how many have had this same experience...

I'm sure 90% of us.

Naaaawwwwwwww.

You crushed me from ever crushing again.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[emsway]

The topic for today's Honey Thread: Lit crushes.
**********************

How do you get them? Do you go looking, or wait for them to come to you?

How long do they usually last? Do you give them a time limit and then give them the boot? Or let them hang around indefinitely?

Do you have a standard for who you crush on, or is anyone fair game?

What do you look for in a crush? What turns you off?

Do you crush one at a time, or are you more likely to multi-task?

Are you open about who you've crushed on, or do you keep it to yourself?

And lastly, do you currently have a crush, and what is their name? (kidding.)

I've never sought out to develop a crush on someone. Like NRJ they happen organically and it isn't always an interactive thing. I've crushed on people from afar that I've never interacted with. Usually the people I've developed crushes on are intelligent, witty, and charming. People I admire and/or am intrigued by. People who conduct themselves respectfully, but aren't pushovers. Cock AVs, overtly sexual posts (I'm in good company) and attention hogs turn me off. And treating people poorly. I can crush on more than one person and my crushes vary in levels of intensity. I tend to keep my crushes to myself. Although sometimes it's pretty obvious.

 

[ponydriver]

I posted a little about this on the why I don't answer your PM thread. I agree with Bella that overtly aggressive men here are going to be ignored because they never read my profile to see I am married. Leigh81 and I laughed about some of the bottom dwellers that surround Lit that just creep a girl out.

That being said. I can crush just as much as the next person. I'm not going to do anything about it...EVER... But it is nice to talk to someone that makes your pulse quicken and puts a smile on your face and there are some really great men here that I have already recognized as being wonderful flirts and I crush on all of them but only to the extent that I enjoy their company more than others and they respect the boundaries I have but still make me feel beautiful and special.

So yes I crush, yes if I crush on you its apparent, no its not sexual, but it is special to me and I hope to them as well.

If Honey makes a page for crush worthy fellas I will put my two cents in for what its worth. I'm not ashamed to crush because its not going to lead to me buying a plane ticket.

 

[JohnGalt2009]

Okay, I think that I'm the slow one in the pack on this one.

What is a Lit crush? I Googled Lit, and got a ton of hits regarding literature apps, meeting people interested in literature; etc.

I'm curious. I'm trapped in a non-intimate marriage, and one that's not even really intellectually stimulating anymore. I'd love to be able to chat with attractive, but also intellectually stimulating woman. Not overtly sexual, that kind of behavior is dime a dozen.

This place is interesting, but over the years, since I joined in 2009; it's a sausage fest.

Education appreciated!

 

[Amalgamation]

I posted a little about this on the why I don't answer your PM thread. I agree with Bella that overtly aggressive men here are going to be ignored because they never read my profile to see I am married. Leigh81 and I laughed about some of the bottom dwellers that surround Lit that just creep a girl out.

That being said. I can crush just as much as the next person. I'm not going to do anything about it...EVER... But it is nice to talk to someone that makes your pulse quicken and puts a smile on your face and there are some really great men here that I have already recognized as being wonderful flirts and I crush on all of them but only to the extent that I enjoy their company more than others and they respect the boundaries I have but still make me feel beautiful and special.

So yes I crush, yes if I crush on you its apparent, no its not sexual, but it is special to me and I hope to them as well.

If Honey makes a page for crush worthy fellas I will put my two cents in for what its worth. I'm not ashamed to crush because its not going to lead to me buying a plane ticket.

Honey, I see your next thread idea...

 

[JohnGalt2009]

I posted a little about this on the why I don't answer your PM thread. I agree with Bella that overtly aggressive men here are going to be ignored because they never read my profile to see I am married. Leigh81 and I laughed about some of the bottom dwellers that surround Lit that just creep a girl out.

That being said. I can crush just as much as the next person. I'm not going to do anything about it...EVER... But it is nice to talk to someone that makes your pulse quicken and puts a smile on your face and there are some really great men here that I have already recognized as being wonderful flirts and I crush on all of them but only to the extent that I enjoy their company more than others and they respect the boundaries I have but still make me feel beautiful and special.

So yes I crush, yes if I crush on you its apparent, no its not sexual, but it is special to me and I hope to them as well.

If Honey makes a page for crush worthy fellas I will put my two cents in for what its worth. I'm not ashamed to crush because its not going to lead to me buying a plane ticket.

You posted at the same time I did.

I wish I could have said it as well as you have.

Boundaries are a good thing. And as fun as the physical side of sexuality is fun; a sexy mind is extremely tantalizing.

Now I'm definitely curious about "Lit".

 

[ShelbyBubbles]

The topic for today's Honey Thread: Lit crushes.
**********************

How do you get them? Do you go looking, or wait for them to come to you?
Nope...they just happen as I get to know someone more.

How long do they usually last? Do you give them a time limit and then give them the boot? Or let them hang around indefinitely?
Different crushes, different lengths of times...no time constraints, just let them flow as they do til they end.

Do you have a standard for who you crush on, or is anyone fair game?
I'm not biased or prejudice....well, except for stupid people. I'm not fond of them.

What do you look for in a crush? What turns you off?
Cock size, wit, humor, personality, strap on size lol...that all turns me on as well as the same things can be the same turn off lol Really just depends on whom I click with

Do you crush one at a time, or are you more likely to multi-task?
I like one sexual crush at a time, if they're crushing back on me then they're the only one I want. I don't want to make anyone feel like they're just a number on a list here to get me off.

Are you open about who you've crushed on, or do you keep it to yourself?
Depends on the crush and if anything came of that or what kind of crush. Sexual or just a friendly crush from afar? I admire quite a few people on Lit and have distant crushes that aren't just sexual. So...some I'd admit to and some probably not.

And lastly, do you currently have a crush, and what is their name? (kidding.)

I do. One guy crush and one girl crush

 

[makemewet69]

My crush is not a secret by any means, but he's more than a crush. In January it was a crush, it's beyond that now.

 

[john7771]

I wonder...

If anybody has had a crush on me here...

There are many lovely ladies on here in which I engage with a tad...very friendly...but nothing too intense...

 

[Paul_Chance]

The topic for today's Honey Thread: Lit crushes.
**********************

How do you get them? Do you go looking, or wait for them to come to you?

I don't go looking to crush on someone - for me, crushes tend to arise naturally, generally based on liking their personality. When they've happened, it's been pretty incidental.

How long do they usually last? Do you give them a time limit and then give them the boot? Or let them hang around indefinitely?

They tend to last as long as they last - I've organic that way. I never impose a time limit.

Do you have a standard for who you crush on, or is anyone fair game?

Anyone is fair game.

What do you look for in a crush? What turns you off?

Since the Lit is mostly a board of thoughts written down that is what draws me. A quick wit, a certain kindness, a good sense of humor and simple sensuality. I'm turned off by people who are mean, overly sarcastic, or complain too much.

Do you crush one at a time, or are you more likely to multi-task?

Generally one at a time, but sometimes more than one.

Are you open about who you've crushed on, or do you keep it to yourself?

Depends on the person on the other end of the crush. I'm usually straight forward about it, but every now and then I've "crushed from afar" because either their conduct or profile sends a clear signal not to cross any lines with them.

And lastly, do you currently have a crush, and what is their name? (kidding.)

"If said event did occur, and I have no recollection of it at this time, I believe it would be covered under the Paul Chance's Secrets Clause of the Non-Disclosure Agreement you signed."

 

[Amalgamation]

Crushes to me are special people. People that I see something beautiful in...more beautiful than what I normally observe. I enjoy the flirty banter here on lit, but if I let a crush know that I'm crushing, I don't really want anything sexual, but just to see who they are and let them see who I am. Over the years, I say less and less about my crushes, or to them.

I can't say I have a certain type. I just go with what draws me in.

 

[ShelbyBubbles]

"If said event did occur, and I have no recollection of it at this time, I believe it would be covered under the Paul Chance's Secrets Clause of the Non-Disclosure Agreement you signed."

Ohhh that night you gave me that Cosby Cocktail...?? Is THAT what I signed???

 

[Paul_Chance]

Ohhh that night you gave me that Cosby Cocktail...?? Is THAT what I signed???

Yes, it was. We're covered now!