Let's Talk Lit Crushes

That's why my lawyer hates me. She says "Paul you understand when I tell you not say anything I mean "sit down and shut the fuck up" right?"

lol I fired my lawyer cause he was just stupid...and I won my case by myself. So, I'm a better lawyer than him in my eyes lol :cathappy:
 
I have a crush on Wild Honey and Pony driver...

I wish they were RL girl friends.

(going out for wine and talking about boys... not girl on girl stuff - so guys get your minds out of the gutter)
 
I have a crush on Wild Honey and Pony driver...

I wish they were RL girl friends.

(going out for wine and talking about boys... not girl on girl stuff - so guys get your minds out of the gutter)

You're not the boss of me!!
 
I have a crush on Wild Honey and Pony driver...

I wish they were RL girl friends.

(going out for wine and talking about boys... not girl on girl stuff - so guys get your minds out of the gutter)
We could definitely have fun on a spa day. :):rose:
 
And that is another good point CB, because I definitely have close GF's here. Leigh, sogrl, SmileyGirl, (I miss her) BlackCashmere, BFG, Kentuckylady, and you just to name a few right off top of my head. You are all special and I enjoy talking with you on boards and in private messages.:rose:
 
And that is another good point CB, because I definitely have close GF's here. Leigh, sogrl, SmileyGirl, (I miss her) BlackCashmere, BFG, Kentuckylady, and you just to name a few right off top of my head. You are all special and I enjoy talking with you on boards and in private messages.:rose:

You, ShelbyBubbles, BlackCashmere, Liz...the rest are gone.
A few I admire, but to scared to initiate a pm with. :eek:
I love Honey threads.

L:rose:
 
How do you get them? Do you go looking, or wait for them to come to you?

Crushing starts through thread interaction or friendly PMing. I'm never looking for one.

How long do they usually last? Do you give them a time limit and then give them the boot? Or let them hang around indefinitely?

Hours, days, weeks, months, years... Just depends on the connection. I have been head over heels and just smouldering. If it's a strong crush, months can pass where we don't talk and the feeling is still there.

Do you have a standard for who you crush on, or is anyone fair game?

No standard. Have had crushes on a couple I never dreamed would interest me.


What do you look for in a crush? What turns you off?

A connection is what matters. I get turned off when I become just the get off girl. A crush will go away pretty fast when that's all we have to talk about anymore. Unless that's all it ever was in the first place... Then it's just understood!

Do you crush one at a time, or are you more likely to multi-task?

Yes! I am polyamorous, always have been. So I guess I am polycrushous too.

Are you open about who you've crushed on, or do you keep it to yourself?

I tell my husband and my best friend. I don't always tell the guy/gal that I am crushing on them though. In fact, one of the guys I have been friends with for years, I have had a huge crush on and he may know, but I haven't come right out and told him. I don't want it to change the way we are, so I keep it hidden.

And lastly, do you currently have a crush, and what is their name? :D (kidding.)

I am crushing. :heart:
 
I have some major, shameless, unabashed lit crushes. I think this entire forum knows who they are at this point.
 
It depends on the level. Fun, exciting, damn she is hot crushes? More than a couple of the years. Don't go looking, they just kind of happen. Maybe it's a posting style, maybe it's a sense of humour, maybe it's a specific inciting erotic idea.

Deep, crushing, damn this girl is... damn... Only a couple. Well, three. Two ended pretty poorly, another we remain great friends when we do run into each other. Those are tough and I remain rather guarded from. But it still happens.
 
I told you before — "I CRUSH YOUR HEAD!"
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There are girl crushes, who are women that I admire.
There are those that intrigue me.
There are those that make me blush.
Then there is the one that makes me hump my pillow at night.

So yeah, there are different levels of crushing for me...
 
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