It was chemical free and yes she was OK.
This took a couple of hours and was the first and only time we went that far.
The Sexuality of Women in Their 40's and 50's
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It was chemical free and yes she was OK.
This took a couple of hours and was the first and only time we went that far.
redheadedfox
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for me
For me it hit in my mid 30's but I feel like now I am really hitting my stride so to speak.
In my 20's and early 30's I was married to a "under the covers in the dark" kinda guy who only thought about his end result ...then I met DH
WOW.....all the things I thought about and fantasized about ....he jumps in with both feet....thankfully this time I am married to a man who thinks that a wife who thinks about and enjoys sex is a thing of wonder....
For me it hit in my mid 30's but I feel like now I am really hitting my stride so to speak.
In my 20's and early 30's I was married to a "under the covers in the dark" kinda guy who only thought about his end result ...then I met DH
WOW.....all the things I thought about and fantasized about ....he jumps in with both feet....thankfully this time I am married to a man who thinks that a wife who thinks about and enjoys sex is a thing of wonder....
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i feel it doesn't matter what age a lady is, if a guy does it right she can rock your world, to many guys thank of getting off only, i am old and i had a 58 year young lady rock the hell out of my world,. hey like i always say ( granny needs love to ) sorry just kidding. oh what the hell do i know been married twice once i was traded in for a 30 year old lol god my life sucks.
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So glad to hear you are validated and appreciated now!
Women who have a little bit of life wisdom will always be alluring to me.
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40's, 50's, 60's and beyond
Discovering the potential of sex is a lifetime learning experience. The twenties and thirties were their own time of learning, but the forties, fifties, and sixties are wider, broader, and more fun.
I met my present wife when I was 52 and she was 48. Now I'm 62 and she's 58. We've enjoyed the full potential of our sexuality together...it's amazing. For us it's sharing. We've had many MMF because that's the easiest way to share and explore. And she can handle two men catering to her pleasures better than I can handle two women catering to mine. That said, I've had the pleasure of two women fucking me, taking turns, and thoroughly draining me. It is a spiritual, fully physical experience. As is when her lover and I thoroughly pleasure her.
She has a male lover and I have a female lover, both friends of both of us. Often we four get together for really memorable times. I think being older allows us more experience to build on, to learn from.
One thing we find amazing is that young men will join us for threesomes and really enjoy it. I mean young, like early twenties. Several years ago we enjoyed a man who was 19 and could cum multiple times. Older men are easy to find also, but to find one who can really be a friend and lover is rare. Many men find it difficult to step up from getting off to having really profound sexual sharing.
My wife and I were explorers before we met. I was exploring from a young age. There is only one life to live so I believe in enjoying its pleasures to your full potential.
Discovering the potential of sex is a lifetime learning experience. The twenties and thirties were their own time of learning, but the forties, fifties, and sixties are wider, broader, and more fun.
I met my present wife when I was 52 and she was 48. Now I'm 62 and she's 58. We've enjoyed the full potential of our sexuality together...it's amazing. For us it's sharing. We've had many MMF because that's the easiest way to share and explore. And she can handle two men catering to her pleasures better than I can handle two women catering to mine. That said, I've had the pleasure of two women fucking me, taking turns, and thoroughly draining me. It is a spiritual, fully physical experience. As is when her lover and I thoroughly pleasure her.
She has a male lover and I have a female lover, both friends of both of us. Often we four get together for really memorable times. I think being older allows us more experience to build on, to learn from.
One thing we find amazing is that young men will join us for threesomes and really enjoy it. I mean young, like early twenties. Several years ago we enjoyed a man who was 19 and could cum multiple times. Older men are easy to find also, but to find one who can really be a friend and lover is rare. Many men find it difficult to step up from getting off to having really profound sexual sharing.
My wife and I were explorers before we met. I was exploring from a young age. There is only one life to live so I believe in enjoying its pleasures to your full potential.
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I just found this thread today and started reading from the start. I was going to wait til the end to post but I had to answer this one.
My Master/husband can easily coax more than a dozen orgasms out of me when we play. I get rather incoherent and lose count. Perhaps I can ask him to verify this statement.
I'm closing in on 53. We met online in early 1999, and first met in person that October. I've been his all through my 40s, and it's been fireworks and turning me into a babbling idiot all along. I don't think my libido has changed that much from my teens. I've been accused of having the libido of a teenage boy by multiple partners since the start.
The last 7 years have been a challenge, though. He is 21 years my senior and has some health issues. I've become a frequent flyer at our local hospital, starting with 2 life-threatening PE's a year apart, two knee replacements and recovery, and now a brand new shoulder this past December. I'm fucking falling apart! My libido has wavered during the most intense post-op and recovery periods but as I improve it always bounces back again, sometimes to my exasperation. (I'm fairly certain that it's a connection with the pain killers--no surprise there.)
We're in a rough patch right now, and quite honestly I am climbing the walls. I just hope I can do better, enough, so that it will get better.
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I'm 44 and I'm still hoping to find a guy no matter the age to rock my world I know he's out there
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I'm sure he is out there, and you'll find him. He doesn't know how lucky he's going to be...
oh man i am olddddd and i would have sex with a dead frog butt, but then again i anit been right since the 70's
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The older I get them more I find women in this age bracket to be very very sexy. Something about experience and a woman that knows what she wants that's extremely sensual.
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Sounds interesting kellieanne. How does one get that oppurtunity? Lol
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I had gone without sex for several years. I was OK without sex. I rarely thought about it. I was in a frame of mind that I was happier doing without than putting up with the massive amount of bullshit that went along with my live-in boyfriend.
Then I started dating a guy when I was 45 about three years ago, Il learned that I hadn't lost my mojo.
It got even better when I reunited with a lover of mine who I had been with 16 years earlier.
At 48, sex is better than ever. It's dynamite. Maybe it's because I'm more experienced. Maybe it's because we communicate so well about sex and everything else in our lives. I'm also no longer distracted with having kids at home.
Then I started dating a guy when I was 45 about three years ago, Il learned that I hadn't lost my mojo.
It got even better when I reunited with a lover of mine who I had been with 16 years earlier.
At 48, sex is better than ever. It's dynamite. Maybe it's because I'm more experienced. Maybe it's because we communicate so well about sex and everything else in our lives. I'm also no longer distracted with having kids at home.
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mmmm, I'm 48 and have never felt sexier........adore the thought and the experience of playing with younger and older men too.....
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Thas great married you look very sexy too
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Keep enjoying the fun!
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I'll say it again, and for my own benefit, even... When I complain it's not always because it's me whose missing out, you know. Someone... somebody else... often, it's more like somebody else... is missing out on me.
Thanks for the reminder, DarkLisa.
No doubt they are missing out! You are Sexy as hell!!
Sorry to interrupt the thread. Continue please!
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Soon, I turn 49, and for the last eight years, I've enjoyed an uptick on my sex life. I've become more honest with myself and those around me. The orgasms are more intense and more frequent. My lovers understand that, if I do cum quickly, not to worry, I can still go again and again 
(For those men believing they can charm and sweet talk me here on the internet, please don't PM me. You've been forewarned. )
(For those men believing they can charm and sweet talk me here on the internet, please don't PM me. You've been forewarned. )
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Long weekend?? Not down under, baby!!!!!
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Sex is so much better now that I'm older, I attribute it to the fact that now I really know what a really good orgasm feels like and I know how to make him a little dizzy too
And I also find that with age (I'm also 50) comes some greater confidence and awareness that couples nicely with the heightened sexuality of the graceful, mature and horny woman of my age...
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Sex is so much better now that I'm older, I attribute it to the fact that now I really know what a really good orgasm feels like and I know how to make him a little dizzy too
All those years of practice, experimenting and the willingness to pleasure your lover have paid off....now go fuck your brains out!!!! LOL
Sex is so much better now that I'm older, I attribute it to the fact that now I really know what a really good orgasm feels like and I know how to make him a little dizzy too
Soon, I turn 49, and for the last eight years, I've enjoyed an uptick on my sex life. I've become more honest with myself and those around me. The orgasms are more intense and more frequent. My lovers understand that, if I do cum quickly, not to worry, I can still go again and again
(For those men believing they can charm and sweet talk me here on the internet, please don't PM me. You've been forewarned. )
I wish that we all lived close enough to get together for a beer or a cocktail and chat about how much fun it is to be this age and this sexually aware..... Of course, all that raw mature sexual energy might cause an explosion of some type or another...lol.
Still excited that I'm NOT alone! lol
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