The Sexuality of Women in Their 40's and 50's

[LadyVer]

My wife grew sexually into her mid 50's and we have had an incredible run.
She is more open, adventurous, daring, fun....and the list goes on.
The first time she had multiple orgasms, she had 13, I counted them and we were both shocked.
We play in the car, usually she starts it by getting me going and we just take it from there.
She has become such a sexual & sensual being, I often have a very difficult time keeping up with her.
I do my best and I do so love this sex machine!
Mature women ROCK!

I'm going to climb out on a limb here and question any women having a personal best on multiple orgasms of 13, especially in her 50's. I'm not saying it's impossible, just highly unlikely. My personal best is 3 and that was in my 40's. If your wife actually achieved 13, that's great though. I'm assuming it was chemically free.

 

[carol_will1]

I'm going to climb out on a limb here and question any women having a personal best on multiple orgasms of 13, especially in her 50's. I'm not saying it's impossible, just highly unlikely. My personal best is 3 and that was in my 40's. If your wife actually achieved 13, that's great though. I'm assuming it was chemically free.

13? Was she okay?

 

[LadyVer]

13? Was she okay?

I wouldn't know. Her hub is validating her. Personally, after my 3 I couldn't move. But everyone is different.

 

[sereneone4u]

I wouldn't know. Her hub is validating her. Personally, after my 3 I couldn't move. But everyone is different.

Yes, everyone is different.

I have cum almost in the double digits.

 

[southern_gal]

Yes, everyone is different.

I have cum almost in the double digits.

Yeah me too. Except that is was over a three week period. I am beyond green with envy at everyone that can have multiples. I cramp like crazy if I even have two really intense ones back to back.

 

[LadyVer]

Yes, everyone is different.

I have cum almost in the double digits.

Interesting. One session, no breaks?

 

[sereneone4u]

Interesting. One session, no breaks?

I did not read his post as he screwed her once and she came thirteen times...

I have had sex ongoing where we did "it" and I came multiple times and we did it again without stopping and I came multiple times, with him cumming after that.

So in that context, yes.

I do not mean fuck and go do something and then fuck and go do something.

No.

 

[LadyVer]

I did not read his post as he screwed her once and she came thirteen times...

I have had sex ongoing where we did "it" and I came multiple times and we did it again without stopping and I came multiple times, with him cumming after that.

So in that context, yes.

I do not mean fuck and go do something and then fuck and go do something.

No.

My interpretation of the other post was a single session. That's why I was questioning the number. Multi-orgasm, to me, is cumming consecutively, no matter how. So you can understand where my 3 might lead me to ask you to confirm a single session.

 

[sereneone4u]

My interpretation of the other post was a single session. That's why I was questioning the number. Multi-orgasm, to me, is cumming consecutively, no matter how. So you can understand where my 3 might lead me to ask you to confirm a single session.

Don't be embarrassed, lol. I was questioning myself.

I have cum consecutively in one fuck. I would say it was enough to have been almost double digits.

I mostly like to let things build before I have sex, to prolong it until we are just seething with passion. That we have teased and flirted with each other until we are at wits end with each other sexually, that we can't even completely remove our clothes because we will certainly die if we can't join sexually in some fashion immediately. We are a seething primal raw cage match of fucking.

So when one is able to get to that point, multiple orgasms abound.

 

[LallyH]

Um......up until a year or so ago, I struggled to orgasm at all. Now.....I orgasm/ejaculate between 10-20 times in one session. Granted, some orgasms are gentler than others and by the end I feel like I'm dying. But I promise that I am telling the truth. Don't know if its coincidence but around the time that my libio increased, I started meds for under active thyroid?

 

[southern_gal]

Um......up until a year or so ago, I struggled to orgasm at all. Now.....I orgasm/ejaculate between 10-20 times in one session. Granted, some orgasms are gentler than others and by the end I feel like I'm dying. But I promise that I am telling the truth. Don't know if its coincidence but around the time that my libio increased, I started meds for under active thyroid?

Have you spoken to the Guinness Book of World Records?

 

[LallyH]

I think I deserve a medal .....or he does!

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

Yeah, maybe she had a person counting for her, with a little clicker. Or, she could've gone back and counted them while she replayed the video. Can't make assumptions. lol

(Daisy I hear you about rolling o's....amazing things, they are...I don't think I've ever done 40, but I've done a lot, and in fast succession too.....you give me a goal to shoot for.....lol)

Rolling O's when they happen are unbelieveable, at one point I came close to passing out, I was seeing colours. The 40 (or so) took a few hours to achieve, but oh my what a day!
On a solo seeion I average 5. This is relatively new to me and very welcome!
I think it takes someone who is happy to push your limits.

 

[daus42]

Anyone know the song- She Cums In Colors?

 

[southern_gal]

I think I deserve a medal .....or he does!

And a couple of 800 mg Ibuprofins. I am almost envious. Almost but not quite.

 

[LadyVer]

Um......up until a year or so ago, I struggled to orgasm at all. Now.....I orgasm/ejaculate between 10-20 times in one session. Granted, some orgasms are gentler than others and by the end I feel like I'm dying. But I promise that I am telling the truth. Don't know if its coincidence but around the time that my libio increased, I started meds for under active thyroid?

I take a thryoid med and have for years. Don't think it's thyroid. Probably other hormonal changes.

Don't be embarrassed, lol. I was questioning myself.

I have cum consecutively in one fuck. I would say it was enough to have been almost double digits.

I mostly like to let things build before I have sex, to prolong it until we are just seething with passion. That we have teased and flirted with each other until we are at wits end with each other sexually, that we can't even completely remove our clothes because we will certainly die if we can't join sexually in some fashion immediately. We are a seething primal raw cage match of fucking.

So when one is able to get to that point, multiple orgasms abound.

I thought I was doing good at 3.

Anyone know the song- She Cums In Colors?

 

[desiree_d]

OK, I'm 48 and have described to several friends that I to feel like all of a sudden, I've woken up. I had a lover in my 20's who was incredible. Since then I've been married 2x and now am divorced. Neither husband was interested in my needs.

What's changed for me is LIT. My mind wasn't open enough and reading about what I had been missing gave me the courage to find what aroused ME, what I needed in a sexual relationship. Unfortunately, I am not involved in a relationship at the moment.

However, there's a great store for me to go to where the staff is honest and fun. No judgements, just suggestions. And to be honest I didn't know that there were men who enjoyed pleasing a woman so much not having experienced that kind of attention.

I can't wait for this sexual awakening to fully blossom!

 

[carol_will1]

OK, I'm 48 and have described to several friends that I to feel like all of a sudden, I've woken up. I had a lover in my 20's who was incredible. Since then I've been married 2x and now am divorced. Neither husband was interested in my needs.

What's changed for me is LIT. My mind wasn't open enough and reading about what I had been missing gave me the courage to find what aroused ME, what I needed in a sexual relationship. Unfortunately, I am not involved in a relationship at the moment.

However, there's a great store for me to go to where the staff is honest and fun. No judgements, just suggestions. And to be honest I didn't know that there were men who enjoyed pleasing a woman so much not having experienced that kind of attention.

I can't wait for this sexual awakening to fully blossom!

Great story, I'm seeing a happy ending.

 

[NHBear]

Taking the time to unwrap and discover the woman within can be challenging....but oh so rewarding. I know I will make mistakes along the way....but if I listen....not just to her words but listen to her breathing as well.....feeling her reactions.....and a mutual trust to go where she wants, when she wants...she will let me find the gift that has been hidden....and we will enjoy this gift.....together....as one.

Thank you ladies of Lit for helping me be a better person....and a better lover.

 

[IceyBlue]

Ms. IB here, just saw this thread.

When I was first married and in my 20's I was happy to get off without heavy petting/foreplay before penetration.

Now, 20++ years, 2 divorces and few lovers/FB's and a new partner later, I find that 2 orgasms is just a beginning to foreplay. All in all, I'd say 5 orgasms would be way on the low side even for a 'quickie'.

Between flirting, the lead up, the foreplay, the oral and the dirty deed itself, 10 orgasms (not all 'the earth moved' by any means) per session is not unusual.

Just while typing this out he leaned over to see what I was doing and nibbled the back of my neck and with his right hand on my breast and his left finger in my pussy and I had a nice little cum.

God I love this man!

 

[BonnevilleFlats]

I am a 47 year old male. Since my divorce I've dated women in their sixties exclusively. My current gf is 63 and has a sex drive that matches my own. Many women do experience an increased sex drive after menopause. I don't know how common it is. All I know is that women in their 60's who are open to dating men ten or more years younger have incredible sexual appetites. Sex is something women can enjoy throughout their lives, even after retirement and grandkids.

 

[MrsCCfromRC]

OK, I'm 48 and have described to several friends that I to feel like all of a sudden, I've woken up. I had a lover in my 20's who was incredible. Since then I've been married 2x and now am divorced. Neither husband was interested in my needs.

What's changed for me is LIT. My mind wasn't open enough and reading about what I had been missing gave me the courage to find what aroused ME, what I needed in a sexual relationship. Unfortunately, I am not involved in a relationship at the moment.

However, there's a great store for me to go to where the staff is honest and fun. No judgements, just suggestions. And to be honest I didn't know that there were men who enjoyed pleasing a woman so much not having experienced that kind of attention.

I can't wait for this sexual awakening to fully blossom!

I must admit that Lit helped me open up in my late forties as well. One thing I realized was that being bi-curious in my forties was not an uncommon thing and from that I got the will to make it happen. And I did.... thank you Lit!

 

[alt_ego]

Don't worry. Part of being more confident is enjoying the guys who know what they are doing, too. I'll take an older and experienced bear any day over a guy of any age who's just a horndog but doesn't know what to do with it. The bears chew me up and devour me, but the horndogs just chew me. I'm too horny to take much time to teach a young 'un, so..... the bears are in danger when the cougars come out to play. Around me, anyhow.

I was so happy to read this post, Lisa. A lot of the women on the site write about finding younger lovers, and how their "cougar" nature is emerging. For me, and for many of us on the site I'm sure, it's nice to hear that a woman appreciates the same things I find entralling. The maturity, playfulness, and timing that comes with age.

 

[mikeRotch69]

Wow I love this thread. It's precisely why I only date women in their late 40's and 50's. Well at least the ones who don't mind a younger man who can be a tad rough in bed.

Wonderfully ladies all of you. Just getting hard reading all of these posts.

 

[DarkLisa]

Taking the time to unwrap and discover the woman within can be challenging....but oh so rewarding. I know I will make mistakes along the way....but if I listen....not just to her words but listen to her breathing as well.....feeling her reactions.....and a mutual trust to go where she wants, when she wants...she will let me find the gift that has been hidden....and we will enjoy this gift.....together....as one.

Thank you ladies of Lit for helping me be a better person....and a better lover.

That is very romantic. Your lady is a lucky one indeed. So many men don't slow down to notice the.... gift.... and they miss so much that way. Good for you for figuring it out.

I was so happy to read this post, Lisa. A lot of the women on the site write about finding younger lovers, and how their "cougar" nature is emerging. For me, and for many of us on the site I'm sure, it's nice to hear that a woman appreciates the same things I find entralling. The maturity, playfulness, and timing that comes with age.

I don't know much about finding younger lovers, but kudos to any lady who is getting "mature" for going out and getting what she needs, whatever that may be. Younger, same age, older, kinky, vanilla. The whole point is.... not holding back due to insecurity or fear or because it "isn't what a lady does". It's great to find so many men posting here, too, about their experiences with women in this age span and how much fun they are having too.

Wow I love this thread. It's precisely why I only date women in their late 40's and 50's. Well at least the ones who don't mind a younger man who can be a tad rough in bed.

Wonderfully ladies all of you. Just getting hard reading all of these posts.

The nice thing about ladies this age is that they know what they want and are less likely to be wishy washy than when they were younger. If they want a tad rougher, they know it and won't waste your time on an expensive dinner then turn around and say "oh, that wasn't what I meant by rough" after the check has been paid.