Hidden BDSM Book

[Wyatt]

I am a man in his forties. Basically I was staying the weekend with a female cousin (29) and her husband and I asked if I could borrow a book. I was told there was a bookcase in their bedroom and whilst flicking through the titles I noticed a book hidden at the back. Its exact title escapes me but it was about the joys of female submission. I had a good look but there weren't any other sexual titles. The book was slotted behind the others and sideways on.

Now I have had this playing on my mind for a couple of months and next weekend Iam staying with my female cousin again. Would LOVE to bring it up in conversation but can't for the life of me think how!

Perhaps I should never mention it? But I am VERY tempted to...

 

[shewantsmore]

You dont know if its hers or the husbands so if you want to start the conversation just bring up different books or there favourite writer,anything to start with

 

[Wyatt]

Wow...I must be stupid....never occured to me it might be his. Just because the title was about female submission. Threw me I suppose. He isn't always at their house as he is a lorry driver so I was hoping to try and think of a way of asking her myself when we were alone. The thought of her as a sub just blows me away. Just the thought of it...She is just so prim and proper !

 

[Stella_Omega]

Since the book was hidden, she probably is not comfortable with people knowing or talking about it.

Let her know you came across it. Suggest that she might want to hide it better if people knowing about it bothers her. IFFFFF she seems okay, you could let her know that it aroused your curiosity. Use words that signify a polite and sympathetic interest, without the slightest hint of prurience.

If she does not take the bait and seems to not want to talk to you, remember that it really is not of your business at all. And that stirring trouble in the family never ends well.

Make sure you have your car keys at hand in case she throws you out.

 

[a75]

Would LOVE to bring it up in conversation but can't for the life of me think how! Perhaps I should never mention it? But I am VERY tempted to...

Why would you love to tell her? I 'd do it only if I wanted to fuck her. And she would understand my intentions, no matter if I brought it up directly or indirectly. So, the best option is to do what Stella_Omega said: Have your car keys at hand in case she throws you out.

 

[Wyatt]

I am quite close to her. We have always had a good relationship and of course I am attracted to her. The fact that she is a very pretty brunette is neither here nor there I can't get these images of her out of my head. Next weekend I'll TRY to find a way of bringing the subject up. She may be embarrassed ...I'll find out next weekend. And yes...A75..she'll probably guess I want to fuck her...No risk no reward?

 

[Stella_Omega]

You can't get what images out of your head? There are no images, dude. Just your fevered imagination.

Grow the hell up. Learn the difference between reality and fiction. Go find another woman to try out your domming skills on, and leave your cousin alone.

 

[bhndblueyes88]

I am quite close to her. We have always had a good relationship and of course I am attracted to her. The fact that she is a very pretty brunette is neither here nor there I can't get these images of her out of my head. Next weekend I'll TRY to find a way of bringing the subject up. She may be embarrassed ...I'll find out next weekend. And yes...A75..she'll probably guess I want to fuck her...No risk no reward?

Seriously dude? oO she's your married cousin. I'mma bet you're looking at a fuck of a lot more risk than reward.

 

[shy slave]

Seriously dude? oO she's your married cousin. I'mma bet you're looking at a fuck of a lot more risk than reward.

Agreed.

I would ask her, what harm would it do? It could have been given to her, it could belong to someone else. It could be something they have considered and not followed through on etc etc etc

 

[Wyatt]

Thanks for that. Yes I know she is my cousin...I'm in the UK...cousins are not verboten. Yes I know she is married. However she and her husband don't seem close and live virtually seperate lives. He is on the road a lot and they even seem to be in different rooms when he IS home. Yes I know it is my fevered imagination working overtime and I am also aware that she may take umbrage. But I know her VERY well and don't expect histrionics. She may just laugh it of which I think will be the most likely scenario. And thanks shy slave for not being too judgemental. I am too inquisitive about this I know....

But I definitely have to ask.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Your sig line might give you a hint as to the widom of pursuing this further.

 

[Wyatt]

The ancients were very intuitive weren't they?

 

[DVS]

I don't think I'd bring up the book without knowing from some other way...something that is out in the open. If I had a book hidden, I think I'd consider it an invasion of my privacy if someone found it and brought it up.

Of course, you might know your cousin better, but if it were me, I'd think about it long and hard before I brought it up. As far as sex with your married cousin goes, that is also something I wouldn't bring up. Does her husband own a gun?

 

[HottieMama]

I don't think I'd bring up the book without knowing from some other way...something that is out in the open. If I had a book hidden, I think I'd consider it an invasion of my privacy if someone found it and brought it up.

Of course, you might know your cousin better, but if it were me, I'd think about it long and hard before I brought it up. As far as sex with your married cousin goes, that is also something I wouldn't bring up. Does her husband own a gun?

Yeah, I totally agree with this. I would be downright pissed if I agreed to lend a book, trusted you enough to pick it without my supervision, and then all of a sudden I was being confronted about my choice in reading materials. It might be better if you pretend you never saw it.

 

[midwestyankee]

This is a recipe for nothing good can happen here.

Have you considered the possibility that the book belongs to the husband and your cousin does not know of its existence? Are you comfortable with the possibility of upsetting her greatly if your telling her is the first time she learns about the book?

You say that you're close with your cousin so I have to assume that means that you're not interested in hurting her, right? Inadvertently revealing a secret could cause nasty damage; invasion of privacy will cause hurt no matter how you do it; and trying to fuck this married woman simply because you presume that her marriage is not strong will blow up in your face.

Your choice, of course.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Thanks for that. Yes I know she is my cousin...I'm in the UK...cousins are not verboten. Yes I know she is married. However she and her husband don't seem close and live virtually seperate lives. He is on the road a lot and they even seem to be in different rooms when he IS home. Yes I know it is my fevered imagination working overtime and I am also aware that she may take umbrage. But I know her VERY well and don't expect histrionics. She may just laugh it of which I think will be the most likely scenario. And thanks shy slave for not being too judgemental. I am too inquisitive about this I know....

But I definitely have to ask.

No, you really don't have to ask.

I am not being judgmental about your curiosity, but about your statement that you WILL invade this woman's privacy.

 

[shy slave]

Thanks for that. Yes I know she is my cousin...I'm in the UK...cousins are not verboten. Yes I know she is married. However she and her husband don't seem close and live virtually seperate lives. He is on the road a lot and they even seem to be in different rooms when he IS home. Yes I know it is my fevered imagination working overtime and I am also aware that she may take umbrage. But I know her VERY well and don't expect histrionics. She may just laugh it of which I think will be the most likely scenario. And thanks shy slave for not being too judgemental. I am too inquisitive about this I know....

But I definitely have to ask.

I thought BBE meant you were risking a great deal in terms of family if you followed through your thoughts on fucking, not whether the cousin thing was legal.

Stella is talking sense when she says about the invasion of privacy, however they did you give access to said bookcase, therefore it was a risk they took that you may find it. That said, they may have forgotten it was there.

I try not to judge and keep an open mind, sometimes things are exactly as they seem, it is the perverted mind that sees more than is there.

On a side note, I am a Brit, and whilst the Marriage Act 1949 does not prevent marriage between cousins there are genetic risks should she get pregnant. so in this fantasy of yours, please dream in the wearing of a condom.
The genetic results of an incestous relationships are easily recognised by Midwives and others.
Or you could visit Swaffham, I believe they have many examples there.

 

[bhndblueyes88]

I thought BBE meant you were risking a great deal in terms of family if you followed through your thoughts on fucking, not whether the cousin thing was legal.

This. I'd say the same thing even if it was a step second cousin or something more distant/non-genetically related.

 

[graceanne]

I'd suggest that you just say that you found a book by [fill in author name]. See what happens. If she blushes and changes the subject, take the hint. If she has NO idea what you're talking about, then chances are it's not hers. If she seems open to a conversation, then that's your in. Otherwise, write down the name of the book and find it somewhere else so you can read it separately and if you're interested in kink explore it separately from your cousin.

 

[BiBunny]

Am I the only one who finds it creepy that a guy takes accidentally running across a book that was obviously supposed to be hidden as an invitation to pry into someone else's sex life, among other things?

 

[bhndblueyes88]

Am I the only one who finds it creepy that a guy takes accidentally running across a book that was obviously supposed to be hidden as an invitation to pry into someone else's sex life, among other things?

No. I'm just trying to be polite and nonjudgemental. Probably why I have a twitch.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Am I the only one who finds it creepy that a guy takes accidentally running across a book that was obviously supposed to be hidden as an invitation to pry into someone else's sex life, among other things?

I think it's pretty creepy.

I don't judge him for being turned on by the notion, but I do judge him for thinking he has the right to do anything about it.

 

[BiBunny]

No. I'm just trying to be polite and nonjudgemental. Probably why I have a twitch.

Nothing about me is polite and non-judgmental.

I think it's pretty creepy.

I don't judge him for being turned on by the notion, but I do judge him for thinking he has the right to do anything about it.

I agree 100%.

 

[HottieMama]

Am I the only one who finds it creepy that a guy takes accidentally running across a book that was obviously supposed to be hidden as an invitation to pry into someone else's sex life, among other things?

I think it's pretty creepy.

I don't judge him for being turned on by the notion, but I do judge him for thinking he has the right to do anything about it.

I'm trying to be as nonjudgmental as I can be, but it is really creepy to me...

 

[bhndblueyes88]

Nothing about me is polite and non-judgmental.

I agree 100%.

It's a trial for me, at least on the polite stance. hence the twitch.