Punishment Help.

[slavebitch]

I was very bad yesterday and have greatly displeased my Master. Though accidental, I looked at another man, and for longer than it took for me to realize what it was and close the image. I also thought sexually about another man, and grinded on him without my Master's permission, knowing it would anger Him. I feel terrible, but my Master must punish me. Any punishments that I can self-inflict, whether related to my deeds or not would be greatly appreciated. Also, while I would not like to wait, if you have an idea He can inflict upon me, He will be home soon. Thanks.

 

[pleatedskirt]

you should be blindfolded to remind you not to look then your neck be chained and restricted

 

[slavebitch]

would a studded belt work for chaining my neck or is a chain significantly better?

I really like this idea as it suits what I have done. Do you have any suggestions, though, of something I can do until I see Him?

 

[pleatedskirt]

studded belt will be fine

well you should shower put on your sexiest underwear and then chain yourself to the door so you can be kneeling for his arrival with blindfold in place

 

[slavebitch]

We unfortuantely do not live together, otherwise I would wait like that until He gets home tuesday.

 

[pleatedskirt]

ok well you should still wear sexy underwear until then....each night you should blindfold youself and cuff yourself before shaving yourself in readiness for him on Tuesday

 

[slavebitch]

I have found the worst punishment for me. Him being so angry that He wants nothing to do with me and I must sit alone and hope He will say anything to me, even if He is instructing me to punish myself.

But do y'all have any punishment ideas for smoking cigarettes? I suggested soap in my mouth to Him, and He liked it, but I am afraid to do it and I feel guilty for disobeying an order He gave me, but I know most soaps have toxins in them.

 

[bhndblueyes88]

I have no idea who told you that most soaps have toxins in them, but that's bollocks. You might be thinking of "disinfectants", but that's entirely different to soap. Non-antibacterial soap just washes things away; it doesn't kill much if anything.

If it really concerns you that greatly, though, you can just go buy organic soap. It is available for purchase at most related stores.

 

[slavebitch]

I have no idea who told you that most soaps have toxins in them, but that's bollocks. You might be thinking of "disinfectants", but that's entirely different to soap. Non-antibacterial soap just washes things away; it doesn't kill much if anything.

If it really concerns you that greatly, though, you can just go buy organic soap. It is available for purchase at most related stores.

Actually, I did some research and there have been studies on it and its been proven to be true. But I did find an organic soap--didn't have to look hard since I'm vegetarian and only buy products not tested on animals--and so I had to reason do disobey Him after trying to find something. I swear, I will never smoke again. I cannot get the taste out of my mouth and its been almost half an hour.

 

[bhndblueyes88]

I would be interested to know what toxins are in non-antibacterial soap.

 

[CutieMouse]

Basic soap is formulated from lye (derrived from ashes) and fat. So actually the soap in the mouth was a semi-elegant 'punishment', given that cigarettes create ash.

Anyway- soap in the mouth shouldn't cause permanent damage, regardless of how nasty it tastes (ivory taste worse and stings more than dove btw). Sticking a bar of soap in a childs mouth for using bad words used to be a pretty common punishment, and other than an upset tummy or two, I don't think the world stopped spinning.

Why do you need to be 'punished' for smoking? If you want to quit, there are plenty of things on the market to help you quit.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Basic soap is formulated from lye (derrived from ashes) and fat. So actually the soap in the mouth was a semi-elegant 'punishment', given that cigarettes create ash.

Anyway- soap in the mouth shouldn't cause permanent damage, regardless of how nasty it tastes (ivory taste worse and stings more than dove btw). Sticking a bar of soap in a childs mouth for using bad words used to be a pretty common punishment, and other than an upset tummy or two, I don't think the world stopped spinning.

Why do you need to be 'punished' for smoking? If you want to quit, there are plenty of things on the market to help you quit.

I'll never forget my mother washing my brother's mouth out with soap once.

In a show of solidarity, myself and the other brothers snuck a coke out of the fridge and gave it to him.

As to the rest, it's starting to sound more and more like a case of 'oh you naughty girl, you're so bad, you must be punished!'

It apparently didn't help.

 

[the captians wench]

I'll never forget my mother washing my brother's mouth out with soap once.

In a show of solidarity, myself and the other brothers snuck a coke out of the fridge and gave it to him.

As to the rest, it's starting to sound more and more like a case of 'oh you naughty girl, you're so bad, you must be punished!'

It apparently didn't help.

That's what I'm thinking, and I know I'm really cranky right now, but I'm very sick of the game.

 

[slavebitch]

Basic soap is formulated from lye (derrived from ashes) and fat. So actually the soap in the mouth was a semi-elegant 'punishment', given that cigarettes create ash.

Anyway- soap in the mouth shouldn't cause permanent damage, regardless of how nasty it tastes (ivory taste worse and stings more than dove btw). Sticking a bar of soap in a childs mouth for using bad words used to be a pretty common punishment, and other than an upset tummy or two, I don't think the world stopped spinning.

Why do you need to be 'punished' for smoking? If you want to quit, there are plenty of things on the market to help you quit.

I'm not addicted to cigarettes, I rarely ever smoke, like maybe once or twice a year so it was merely me wanting to not my body physically craving it.

 

[CutieMouse]

I'm not addicted to cigarettes, I rarely ever smoke, like maybe once or twice a year so it was merely me wanting to, not my body physically craving it.

Okay... so here's a boring as hell idea - if you aren't addicted to cigarettes and your use is that infrequent, be a grown up and don't smoke. If it's that light of a habit and you don't respect yourself/your own health enough to stop, why do you respect someone else [your lover/Master] enough to stop?

 

[slavebitch]

Okay... so here's a boring as hell idea - if you aren't addicted to cigarettes and your use is that infrequent, be a grown up and don't smoke. If it's that light of a habit and you don't respect yourself/your own health enough to stop, why do you respect someone else [your lover/Master] enough to stop?

I'm not sure how to answer that, actually. I've always had a very low self esteem and little to no respect for myself, and I know that and I know my Master often thinks better than I do, so I know He will tell me the right thing to do.

 

[CutieMouse]

I'm not sure how to answer that, actually. I've always had a very low self esteem and little to no respect for myself, and I know that and I know my Master often thinks better than I do, so I know He will tell me the right thing to do.

I suspected that would be the answer...

(Warning - I tend to be a pushy little thing with regards to expecting people to think about their lives and life choices. )

Identifying as a submissive is not a "get out of jail free" card for self-esteem issues, personal responsibility, or decision making. If your self-esteem and self-respect are so non-existent that you feel you can't make wise decisions for yourself, then how do you know you made a wise decision with regards to your choice of Master?

In another thread you mentioned wanting to wear his name as a brand and intend to marry the man you've only known a year, yet here you acknowledge your sense of self-worth is so low that you need to be soaped [in the mouth] to no longer do something that you admit isn't even an addiction. If you don't trust yourself and feel a sense of strength re: small decisions, how are you able to trust yourself and feel strong re: big decisions?

Just a nagging little food for thought on a Monday morning.

 

[slavebitch]

I suspected that would be the answer...

(Warning - I tend to be a pushy little thing with regards to expecting people to think about their lives and life choices. )

Identifying as a submissive is not a "get out of jail free" card for self-esteem issues, personal responsibility, or decision making. If your self-esteem and self-respect are so non-existent that you feel you can't make wise decisions for yourself, then how do you know you made a wise decision with regards to your choice of Master?

In another thread you mentioned wanting to wear his name as a brand and intend to marry the man you've only known a year, yet here you acknowledge your sense of self-worth is so low that you need to be soaped [in the mouth] to no longer do something that you admit isn't even an addiction. If you don't trust yourself and feel a sense of strength re: small decisions, how are you able to trust yourself and feel strong re: big decisions?

Just a nagging little food for thought on a Monday morning.

I love things that make me think. Like, I really do. So thank you. I do have an answer to one of those, though.

He is the reason I started to love myself and be comfortable with my body. Before I was with Him, I could not even sleep without a bra, nor change in front of my sister or best friend. Now, I can and I have started to accept myself and become more responsible with myself. I am in no way even close to being completely comfortable or respectful to myself, though, otherwise i wouldn't have smoked, but because of everything He has done to help me, that is why I know He is a good and right decision.

 

[Cattypuss]

I've always had a very low self esteem and little to no respect for myself, and I know that and I know my Master often thinks better than I do, so I know He will tell me the right thing to do.

Scariest thing I've read all month.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Scariest thing I've read all month.

It's another ownedsubgirl in the making... Hope she is as lucky as osg, who has a trustworthy master by all accounts.

 

[BiBunny]

It's another ownedsubgirl in the making... Hope she is as lucky as osg, who has a trustworthy master by all accounts.

I dunno. I'm calling "fuck with the people on the BDSM forum" on this one.

 

[slavebitch]

I dunno. I'm calling "fuck with the people on the BDSM forum" on this one.

...wow.

 

[puptabathaBiF]

puppies punishment was a posture collar, she had to wear it all the time at home till her trainer got home from a weeks trip, she was not allowed to orgasm either, and a blindfold was also in play,

sitting in the corner was good. as puppy was ignored, which to me is one of the worst punishments puppy had to deal with,

its not really the punishment that made it bad. it was the realization that puppy had DIS-PLEASED her trainer and was ignored for it, the rest seemed easy in light of that.

 

[Braschi]

While I tend to be more accepting of the more extreme practitioners around here (re: osg), I'm going to have to side with BiBunny on this one.

From personal experience, I do know someone who had -has, really- serious self-esteem issues, and yes, she sounds a bit like slavebitch. But she had a real problem that needed medication to fix. So, punishment for looking at another guy and soaping for smoking cigaretts (sp?) seems too random and, frankly, unthoughtful, to be real.

I mean, if the guy was so wonderful, wouldn't he have enough personal security to not get jealous about his pyl looking at other guys? Unless it was part of some kind of game, but you rather need our consent before you start roping us into it...

 

[slavebitch]

While I tend to be more accepting of the more extreme practitioners around here (re: osg), I'm going to have to side with BiBunny on this one.

From personal experience, I do know someone who had -has, really- serious self-esteem issues, and yes, she sounds a bit like slavebitch. But she had a real problem that needed medication to fix. So, punishment for looking at another guy and soaping for smoking cigaretts (sp?) seems too random and, frankly, unthoughtful, to be real.

I mean, if the guy was so wonderful, wouldn't he have enough personal security to not get jealous about his pyl looking at other guys? Unless it was part of some kind of game, but you rather need our consent before you start roping us into it...

I am on medication for severe major depression and anxiety, thanks. I just don't tend to discuss my history of depression and suicide attempts and being baker acted.