Very Curious, but almost embarrassed to try?

[jussforfun]

Ok, so I've been fantasizing a lot lately about sucking cock or even being fucked (as long as the guy wasn't too big) but one of my biggest fears or reasons for not following through apart from threat of STD's is that once I cum I'd be guilt ridden and embarrassed about what just happened.
How do you get past those thoughts?

 

[blueblaze8503]

I know what u mean... I haven't tried anal with a guy yet but I'm wanting to (both giving and receiving) so I can't give much advice.. Mostly just find someone your comfortable with who might be having the same feelings. Lately its all I think about and have been having some of the best orgasms I've ever experienced while masturbating and thinking about it.

 

[brightondream]

Ok, so I've been fantasizing a lot lately about sucking cock or even being fucked (as long as the guy wasn't too big) but one of my biggest fears or reasons for not following through apart from threat of STD's is that once I cum I'd be guilt ridden and embarrassed about what just happened.
How do you get past those thoughts?

I know how the GUILT can be a real let down. Here's a solution: I'll stage my clothes and belongings next to the door. Immediatly after you have your orgasm, I will leap into my jeans and shirt and I'll be out the door before any secretions even have a hint at leaving your body!
Just wanna help.

 

[jussforfun]

I know how the GUILT can be a real let down. Here's a solution: I'll stage my clothes and belongings next to the door. Immediatly after you have your orgasm, I will leap into my jeans and shirt and I'll be out the door before any secretions even have a hint at leaving your body!
Just wanna help.

thats a very neat offer, not sure it will be necessary, dont think I'll be that bad, or at least I would hope not, after all its just sex right

 

[jussforfun]

Lots of views but not many comments???? love to know your feelings on the subject

 

[frogocite]

Ok, so I've been fantasizing a lot lately about sucking cock or even being fucked (as long as the guy wasn't too big) but one of my biggest fears or reasons for not following through apart from threat of STD's is that once I cum I'd be guilt ridden and embarrassed about what just happened.
How do you get past those thoughts?

well i found the best way is is if you let yourself cum last. That way if u get the lack of nerves after (speaking from experience) they will have enjoyed themselves and u, and can pretty much guaranty they'll call u again!

 

[Mikijl Dragon]

The question I think is where your guilt stems from? Would you be cheating on someone? Do you feel it is immoral in some way? You are here so I am guessing you are at least partially ok with the thought .

I would say don't make it all about the climax. Take your time explore and make a day of it. That way you are in a constant state of arousal. I know that's a hard thing to do sometimes but well worth it. On the other hand you could revel in the "naughtiness" of the act, when you come have the guy immediately start to give you head not giving your mind time to think about what your doing. Just some early morning thoughts on it.

In the end you need to find out why you feel guilty. Heck for some people that is part of the turn on ,