What are your experiences with testicle tapping? My wife spanked my balls for the first time while giving me an otherwise tender handjob and I have to say I loved the sinister flash in her eyes. Her staccato slapping was jolting and I loved the feeling of vulnerability. Now I wonder how far this can go? What are the variations? Should I be worried about permanent damage? Should I dare ask for her to go harder and faster? to grab? to scratch? to stretch? I'm new to this, help me out! Share your stories please...
Testicle Spanking
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VelvetDarkness
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Testicles are fairly resilient but you do still have to treat them with some respect. The scrotum can be pulled, stretched, clamped or weighted but I would advise against being too rough with the testes themselves. Scratching is also a bit risky as you're inviting infection and the last place you want an infection is down there.
Having said that, I'm a sub and an ex-nurse so I'm bound to advise caution. I'm sure a dommely type will be along soon to endorse your kinky ideas.
*looks over at the horizon for Netz*
Having said that, I'm a sub and an ex-nurse so I'm bound to advise caution. I'm sure a dommely type will be along soon to endorse your kinky ideas.
*looks over at the horizon for Netz*
VelvetDarkness
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I'm not sure that's the most welcoming way to greet a newbie.
He does at least have a legitimate query.
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I'm not sure that's the most welcoming way to greet a newbie.
He does at least have a legitimate query.
I know, but the whole "kick my balls hard" thing is just a little hard to stomach. To each his own I guess.
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I know. I enjoy it when Master spanks my pussy or gets a bit violent when giving me oral though so I really can't judge.
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*winces at monitor*
Man... you are hardcore.
I got hit in the nuts with a baseball. I don't see how anyone enjoys that feeling. I played for nine years and they never gave us cups. I guess at the high school level they did. By then I switched to golf so I could smoke in the school van. Also I was lead off hitter and played every inning then we got this coach who said everyone got to play my last year. Since I was left handed and centerfield I got benched every game but one. Fucker.
Sorry about the highjack. Carry on nut busters.
The_Good_Sub
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cbt is great stuff. a good smacking and squeezing of the ol' family jewels makes for some fun play. my favorite is being squeezed hard. hitting hurts me more, and a hard flick from a finger seems to be excruciating for some reason. i haven't tried being kicked but i have been kneed a few times. Seems to me the best cbt is when i am wearing my jeans because they keep everything from moving and hold it in place so she can just beat the hell out of them. Anyway, I guess if one of your testes falls off that's the limit. I just use a code word, funny thing is one time she made me use it and she thought i was saying something else and it took about 4 tries to get her to hear me. lol
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Some guys balls are more sensitive than others, mine ache sometimes without doing anything to them. My doctor says some guys just have achey balls, and they don't really know why. I also have a hydra-cell, or hyper-cele or whatever it's called, which doesn't hurt but makes one of your nuts about 50% bigger than the other one, it's basically just trapped fluid. I like the idea of ball torture, but I don't think I could take much of it, if any at all really. Shame.
I enjoy this. Risk of injury is low, and it's pretty easy to dish out lots of pain this way without too much effort. The vulnerability and fear is a big part of it for sure. I also like spanking the pussy... I imagine the sensations are quite different, but the response is pretty similar. Fun stuff.
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That's like saying, "They kill people with the electric chair, so I don't see how anyone enjoys playing with Violet Wands." There's a place between "all" and "nothing," you know; that place is where most BDSM happens, after all!
To the original poster: Treating male genitals roughly is popular enough that it has its own acronym: CBT, for "cock and ball torture," though "torture" tends to be more fear-inducing hyperbole than actuality.
Some things are quite safe, some things are fairly safe, and some things are never-never-do. I don't think this is something that you and your partner should learn about from the net -- the quality of the advice varies WIDELY. There are several books about how to do CBT in a hot but reasonably safe manner, and I suggest that you and your partner acquire and read one of those."CBT" can also mean "Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy," so make sure you get books about the right CBT.
There's CBT, but there's also ballbusting. Whether they're really separate I guess is up for debate... but most guys into ballbusting don't like having their cock hurt, and CBT seems to generally be more about the pain, whereas ballbusting pays more attention to the symbolism. So, for instance, in CBT you might use clothespins, whereas in ballbusting you might do a roleplay scene of like a self defense course or something. I think the two are separate, if related.
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I gotta tell you..... I'm with the Dom on this all the way
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I'll creep out of lurk mode for a moment.
Wifey and I are just getting into the lifestyle, more her than me.
One night, during one of her incredibly awesome blowjobs, while rubbing my sack, she got one of my testicles in between her thumb and finger and squeezed. She alternated back and forth between the two. The pain felt good. She never took me too far. Upon asking about it, I told her she could go a little further. So when she does it now, she can goes a little further.
The other thing she started doing was spanking them. This is a different pain.
With both, she gets me just to the edge of actual "ow" or lose an erection pain and pulls back.
We recently just got a ball splitter, leather ring set. That really pushes them out. This made them more sensitive to her squeezing, she didn't have to do as much and got more of a reaction.
I will say, as long as you don't go to the "I've just been bagged" feeling where you usually roll up in the fetel position, it can be really good.
In fact, on nights she does this, the orgasm is WAY more explosive than on nights she doesn't do that stuff, and I don't mean volume or distance of ejaculate; I mean the actually feeling. Some of the most intense orgasms I've ever had.
It is all very interesting for sure.
Wifey and I are just getting into the lifestyle, more her than me.
One night, during one of her incredibly awesome blowjobs, while rubbing my sack, she got one of my testicles in between her thumb and finger and squeezed. She alternated back and forth between the two. The pain felt good. She never took me too far. Upon asking about it, I told her she could go a little further. So when she does it now, she can goes a little further.
The other thing she started doing was spanking them. This is a different pain.
With both, she gets me just to the edge of actual "ow" or lose an erection pain and pulls back.
We recently just got a ball splitter, leather ring set. That really pushes them out. This made them more sensitive to her squeezing, she didn't have to do as much and got more of a reaction.
I will say, as long as you don't go to the "I've just been bagged" feeling where you usually roll up in the fetel position, it can be really good.
In fact, on nights she does this, the orgasm is WAY more explosive than on nights she doesn't do that stuff, and I don't mean volume or distance of ejaculate; I mean the actually feeling. Some of the most intense orgasms I've ever had.
It is all very interesting for sure.
@Curious Red
I've heard some people into ballbusting talk about something ironically called a "ruined orgasm," which is where you get hit hard in the balls right as you're cumming or about to cum. I've never done this myself but they say that it makes the orgasm unbelievably intense, way stronger than usual.
For the skeptical, it's worth pointing out that ball pain tolerance seems to be way higher when you're really turned on... the same guys who enjoy hard repeated kicks in the heat of the moment often can't stand even a soft one after they've cum.
I've heard some people into ballbusting talk about something ironically called a "ruined orgasm," which is where you get hit hard in the balls right as you're cumming or about to cum. I've never done this myself but they say that it makes the orgasm unbelievably intense, way stronger than usual.
For the skeptical, it's worth pointing out that ball pain tolerance seems to be way higher when you're really turned on... the same guys who enjoy hard repeated kicks in the heat of the moment often can't stand even a soft one after they've cum.
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Ruined orgasms is more than just smacking balls at ejaculation. There are numerous ways. For instance; Stopping stimuli right before climax, "thumbing", Introducing an offensive smell and of course pain at of right before climax. Thats the short list. But that would require another thread, which does exist if you search for it. Hope that helps
What I'm talking about is very different than those other things. Stopping stimuli right before climax can definitely ruin an orgasm... I mean there's orgasm denial on the one hand, and if you get the timing right (or wrong?) then he can ejaculate without orgasm, which is profoundly frustrating because he might not be able to get hard again for a while. That stuff is about orgasm control, and plenty of people are into it... what I'm talking about, on the other hand, isn't orgasm control at all, but extreme amplification of orgasm by the combination of powerful complimentary stimula. According to the guys that swear by this, when you punch the balls right as they cum it doesn't prevent or lessen the orgasm, it just catapults them into an extremely intense headspace in which the orgasm will be enjoyed far more.
Denial and enhancement aren't exactly the same thing... even though there are people who swear by both of them, and the terminology can be confusing.
Denial and enhancement aren't exactly the same thing... even though there are people who swear by both of them, and the terminology can be confusing.
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I enjoy a quick cuff with a hand or a sharp tap with a pencil. That involuntary intake of breath is pure aprodesi-crack to me.
One of my subjects is a "don't fucking touch my nuts" ex-athlete, which I find is more the story there than "Dom or sub?" Get socked in the jewels enough and I see how the romance might be diminished a lot.
Abrasion is fun anywhere. So are irritants, but both have risks attached, obviously. I've made people masturbate with abrasive materials.
Another intimate can't get enough of the squeezing, weighting, pulling, tugging, tying of balls stuff. I've very gingerly stood and applied barefoot pressure to them, with the soles of my feet, my weight mostly on my heels.
The last will do whatever I want. I've done ballkicking with him, which isn't as vicious as drama lamas like to make it sound. I mean I don't want to hospitalize him, so ballkicking is really a deliberate, neat strike, very controlled, with my instep.
It's the attitude more than the physical severity.
One of my subjects is a "don't fucking touch my nuts" ex-athlete, which I find is more the story there than "Dom or sub?" Get socked in the jewels enough and I see how the romance might be diminished a lot.
Abrasion is fun anywhere. So are irritants, but both have risks attached, obviously. I've made people masturbate with abrasive materials.
Another intimate can't get enough of the squeezing, weighting, pulling, tugging, tying of balls stuff. I've very gingerly stood and applied barefoot pressure to them, with the soles of my feet, my weight mostly on my heels.
The last will do whatever I want. I've done ballkicking with him, which isn't as vicious as drama lamas like to make it sound. I mean I don't want to hospitalize him, so ballkicking is really a deliberate, neat strike, very controlled, with my instep.
It's the attitude more than the physical severity.
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Oh Bunny...
BiBunny,
I look forward to your posts.
Many times you are instructive.
Most times you amuse.
But you always manage to scare the shit out of me
just enough to make it fun.
cheers,
linds
BiBunny,
I look forward to your posts.
Many times you are instructive.
Most times you amuse.
But you always manage to scare the shit out of me
just enough to make it fun.
cheers,
linds
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Personally, the spanking can be fun, and there's sites dedicated to it.
I refer not to ball busting, not my cup of tea, but rather light CBT. Building up anticipation for ball play properly and you wont have to strike nearly as hard. It's as much a mind fuck as it is a physical thing, as most guys guard their balls very cautiously.
Also, a friend of mine told me the most intense he had it wasn't from much force at all. Just a light tapping with a paddle, kept at the same pace, for around 10 minutes. Your threshold might be higher/lower, but he claims he was begging and she never increased the power.
Again, feel free to disregard, just thought I'd offer some help.
-Rider
I refer not to ball busting, not my cup of tea, but rather light CBT. Building up anticipation for ball play properly and you wont have to strike nearly as hard. It's as much a mind fuck as it is a physical thing, as most guys guard their balls very cautiously.
Also, a friend of mine told me the most intense he had it wasn't from much force at all. Just a light tapping with a paddle, kept at the same pace, for around 10 minutes. Your threshold might be higher/lower, but he claims he was begging and she never increased the power.
Again, feel free to disregard, just thought I'd offer some help.
-Rider
