Big 5 of pyls

[Marquis]

Male
Dominant


Extroversion |||||||||||||||||||| 84%
Orderliness |||||||||||||||| 67%
Emotional Stability |||||| 24%
Accommodation |||| 18%
Inquisitiveness |||||||||||||||| 70%

Extroversion results were very high which suggests you are overly talkative, outgoing, sociable and interacting at the expense too often of developing your own individual interests and internally based identity.

Orderliness results were moderately high which suggests you are, at times, overly organized, neat, structured and restrained at the expense too often of flexibility, variety, spontaneity, and fun.

Emotional Stability results were low which suggests you are very worrying, insecure, emotional, and anxious.

Accommodation results were low which suggests you are overly selfish, uncooperative, and difficult at the expense too often of the well being of others.

Inquisitiveness results were high which suggests you are very intellectual, curious, imaginative but possibly not very practical.

 

[Keroin]

Female
No real label, just "pyl"

Extroversion 84%
Orderliness 81%
Emotional Stability 87%
Accommodation 50%
Inquisitiveness 58%

Extroversion results were very high which suggests you are overly talkative, outgoing, sociable and interacting at the expense too often of developing your own individual interests and internally based identity.

Agree with the first part, disagree with the second.

Orderliness results were high which suggests you are overly organized, neat, structured and restrained at the expense too often of flexibility, variety, spontaneity, and fun.

Same as above.

Emotional Stability results were very high which suggests you are extremely relaxed, calm, secure, and optimistic.

Yep.

Accommodation results were medium which suggests you are moderately kind natured, trusting, and helpful while still maintaining your own interests.

True.

Inquisitiveness results were moderately high which suggests you are intellectual, curious, imaginative but possibly not very practical.

This fluctuates but I consider myself fairly practical.

 

[BiBunny]

Every day I live, I see more of my mother in myself, and I hate it. I always swore I'd never be like her.

Her life revolves around her own mother, a tyrannical, self-centered, evil old bitch. I know I talk about my mother's own marked lack of sanity, but since she had to put up with that old bat her entire life, there's not much mystery about why she's nuts. She's spent pretty much all of her 56 years catering to that mean old woman without even a thank you most of the time.

Mother has a martyr complex, for sure, and it's not just about my grandma. She will go to the ends of the earth for just about anyone. I can't decide if it's from a genuine desire to help, or if it's from the fear of what people will think about her if she doesn't. And even though she never gives anyone a hard time about it, Daddy and I NEVER HEAR THE END OF IT. How tired she is from doing things for other people, how no one appreciates her, and how everyone takes advantage of her.

Unfortunately, I appear to be going down the same road. Most people don't appreciate me, either, but they sure do like taking advantage of me. I try to be more tolerant, but it's hard. Then I feel guilty when I can't or don't do things for other people, even if I know it'd be a wasted effort. Part of the reason my financial situation is the suck at the moment is that I've spent years taking care of "friends" who sponge off of me.

Master has actually said to me that it's lucky I got into the kind of life I found for myself. He said that normally people like me either end up happy as a slave or in abusive relationships. I like to think I'd shoot the first motherfucker who laid a hand on me in a non-consensual kind of way, though.

I'm emotionally masochistic, too, so if I'm not getting what I need safely, I'll get self-destructive and seek it out in not-safe ways. So who knows?

 

[Netzach]

Master has actually said to me that it's lucky I got into the kind of life I found for myself. He said that normally people like me either end up happy as a slave or in abusive relationships. I like to think I'd shoot the first motherfucker who laid a hand on me in a non-consensual kind of way, though.

Abuse can be coercive, passive aggressive, and not violent, not to make light of violent abuse. Sponging repeatedly is an abusive action.

 

[BiBunny]

Abuse can be coercive, passive aggressive, and not violent, not to make light of violent abuse. Sponging repeatedly is an abusive action.

Yes indeed. I almost went there myself, but I thought I'd written too much already. I fall prey to emotional blackmail pretty often , so maybe the man does know what he's talking about.

 

[satindesire]

This is terrible of me to say about such a serious subject, but when Netz said "Sponging repeatedly is abusive" I thought about washing someone over and over and over and over.

 

[BiBunny]

This is terrible of me to say about such a serious subject, but when Netz said "Sponging repeatedly is abusive" I thought about washing someone over and over and over and over.

*Scrub, scrub, scrub* I'm doing this for your own good, dammit!!!!!!!!!

*Snicker*

 

[satindesire]

*Scrub, scrub, scrub* I'm doing this for your own good, dammit!!!!!!!!!

*Snicker*

My brain works in the weirdest ways sometimes.

 

[neci]

1. female
2. submissive
3. Extroversion |||||||||||| 44%
Orderliness |||||||||||||| 52%
Emotional Stability |||||||||||||||||| 72%
Accommodation |||||||||||||| 52%
Inquisitiveness |||||||||||| 50%

Extroversion results were moderately low which suggests you are reclusive, quiet, unassertive, and secretive. i do not consider myself unassertive, but the rest holds true most of the time

Orderliness results were medium which suggests you are moderately organized, structured, and self controlled while still remaining flexible, varied, and fun. pretty accurate

Emotional Stability results were high which suggests you are very relaxed, calm, secure, and optimistic. yes...

Accommodation results were medium which suggests you are moderately kind natured, trusting, and helpful while still maintaining your own interests. yes...

Inquisitiveness results were medium which suggests you are moderately intellectual, curious, and imaginative.
hmmm... maybe.

RCOAI
(2.5% of women; 4.5% of men)
not relationship obsessed, withdrawn, risk averse, not wild and crazy, toned down, thinks before acting, fearless, peaceful, does not like to be the center of attention, quiet, relaxed, level emotions, averse to crowds, unadventurous, punctual, non-aggressive, interested in science, patient, not easily deterred, loner, good at saving money, private, values solitude, avoids unnecessary interaction, not spontaneous, avoids small talk, positive, not overly expressive of emotions, lower energy level, calm in crisis, always knows why they do things, theistic tendencies, non-antagonistic, predictable, analytical, optimistic, not prone to jealousy, not prone to addiction, not preoccupied with appearance, unswayed by emotions, deeply moved by the misfortunes of others, usually happy, influenced more by self than others, true to themself in all circumstances, modest, finishes most things they start, always prepared, competent, focused, more responsible than pleasure seeking, socially unskilled, realistic, planner, not physically affectionate with most people, self confident

Calm
not easily hurt, rarely if ever loses temper, keeps emotions under control, positive, not prone to envy, rarely sick, self reliant, trusting, stable, sturdy, optimistic, fits in most places, not defensive, likes change, if they were to live life over again they would not change much, content (possibly over content), believes in choice more than fate, good at building things, good at taking advice, does not make enemies, good at fixing things, admits it when they make a mistake, gets along with others, has more desire than fear, motivated, self confident, believes the benefits of freedom outweigh then benefits of attachment

4. most of it is pretty accurate, although i do have to disagree with the following characterizations: withdrawn, risk averse, not wild and crazy, unadventurous, lower energy level (this one made me laugh), always prepared (i hate the word always), socially unskilled (really fucker?!), not physically affectionate with most people....

 

[nh23]

Nah, no sweat, I'm sorry if I put you on the spot. Considering the shit you had to navigate, the fact that you're not a homicidal maniac is more than a lot of people would manage.



This is hard work for anyone, for someone starting out with the messages you did, herculean.
And this all makes good sense, in a way.

Thank you. That really makes me feel good.

 

[nh23]

I routinely feel guilty for things I shouldn't feel guilty for. Sometimes I feel guilty and I'm not even sure why I feel guilty. I, also, trace that back to my own childhood issues, and it INFURIATES me. Trying to push my guilt button pisses me off, because it's pretty easy to do.

At the same time, I wouldn't do what I do if it didn't make me at least content. Fury and I have discussed this before - contentment is way better than happiness. I do not, in any way, consider myself a martyr.

Every day I live, I see more of my mother in myself, and I hate it. I always swore I'd never be like her.

Her life revolves around her own mother, a tyrannical, self-centered, evil old bitch. I know I talk about my mother's own marked lack of sanity, but since she had to put up with that old bat her entire life, there's not much mystery about why she's nuts. She's spent pretty much all of her 56 years catering to that mean old woman without even a thank you most of the time.

Mother has a martyr complex, for sure, and it's not just about my grandma. She will go to the ends of the earth for just about anyone. I can't decide if it's from a genuine desire to help, or if it's from the fear of what people will think about her if she doesn't. And even though she never gives anyone a hard time about it, Daddy and I NEVER HEAR THE END OF IT. How tired she is from doing things for other people, how no one appreciates her, and how everyone takes advantage of her.

Unfortunately, I appear to be going down the same road. Most people don't appreciate me, either, but they sure do like taking advantage of me. I try to be more tolerant, but it's hard. Then I feel guilty when I can't or don't do things for other people, even if I know it'd be a wasted effort. Part of the reason my financial situation is the suck at the moment is that I've spent years taking care of "friends" who sponge off of me.

Master has actually said to me that it's lucky I got into the kind of life I found for myself. He said that normally people like me either end up happy as a slave or in abusive relationships. I like to think I'd shoot the first motherfucker who laid a hand on me in a non-consensual kind of way, though.

I'm emotionally masochistic, too, so if I'm not getting what I need safely, I'll get self-destructive and seek it out in not-safe ways. So who knows?

If bunny's description of her mother is a true martyr complex and yours gracie, then no I'm not like that. I don't bitch about the things that I do for people. I just do them. I was going more by the wiki definition. To suffer for one that you love. I think that's pretty commonplace in a lot of M/s, D/s relationships. And for the most part it makes us happy, but not always. But not always doesn't mean in the end we're not happy for having done it. If that makes any fucking sense.

 

[HisSexyPet]

Female
Slave/pet
Extroversion |||||||||| 38%
Orderliness |||||||||| 35%
Emotional Stability |||||||||||||| 52%
Accommodation |||||||||||||||||||| 84%
Inquisitiveness |||||||||||||| 55%

Extroversion results were moderately low which suggests you are reclusive, quiet, unassertive, and secretive. Pretty much true. Not really reclusive and I do assert myself when needed. Hmmm since I have been reading all y'all have been saying for a month and this is my first post...ok, this is probably all true.

Orderliness results were moderately low which suggests you are, at times, overly flexible, random, improvised, and fun seeking at the expense of structure, reliability, work ethic, and long term accomplishment. This is sooo true.

Emotional Stability results were medium which suggests you are moderately relaxed, calm, secure, and optimistic. Eh, ok

Accommodation results were very high which suggests you are overly kind natured, trusting, and helpful at the expense too often of your own individual development (martyr complex). Highly true as in the wiki definition of martyr complex. I constantly do for others because that is how I am and I rarely complain.

Inquisitiveness results were medium which suggests you are moderately intellectual, curious, and imaginative. moderately intellectual, curious and imaginitive...hmm not sure I think it is very true. I believe I am highly imaginitive and so does Master


Accommodating
happiest when giving to others, not self absorbed, wants to carry on traditions of family, not materialistic, modest, serves others, not domineering, overly loyal, not competitive, does not need instant gratification, not controlling, compassionate, sympathetic, sensitive to the needs of others, not manipulative, gets along with others, does not make enemies, not vain, dislikes conflict, constructive, prone to spirituality, can be a doormat, good at taking advice, can be submissive

This is dead on.

 

[graceanne]

This is terrible of me to say about such a serious subject, but when Netz said "Sponging repeatedly is abusive" I thought about washing someone over and over and over and over.

I'm still not sure what it means if it doesn't have anything to do with sponges.

To suffer for one that you love.

That I can go for.

 

[RawHumor]

I'm a guy... kinda dominant and stuff.

Extroversion 41%
Orderliness 67%
Emotional Stability 67%
Accommodation 47%
Inquisitiveness 50%

Extroversion results were moderately low which suggests you are reclusive, quiet, unassertive, and secretive.
Not at all. I'm not the most outgoing guy in the world, but I'm hardly a recluse


Emotional Stability results were moderately high which suggests you are relaxed, calm, secure, and optimistic. That part is true

Accommodation results were medium which suggests you are moderately kind natured, trusting, and helpful while still maintaining your own interests. That fits

Inquisitiveness results were medium which suggests you are moderately intellectual, curious, and imaginative. I'm more than moderately intellectual, but some of those questions were rather bizarre, IMO. Invent or build? Huh?

 

[RawHumor]

i feel like i should feel guilty. as to why, i couldn't tell ya. i was raised by my mother to feel a sense of entitlement, to feel that i deserved no less than the best of the best (mostly materially of course), and that when it came to men they should feel privileged for the very honor of licking my boots. a similar message came from my high school and college peers...selfishness and self-indulgence were practically virtues.

but somehow, i just never believed it. couldn't buy it. other people deserved good things, other people were entitled to good things, but not me.

How fucked up is it that reading this from you drew me to you?

I think I'm developing a bit of a crush here.

(don't worry, I know you're taken and stuff, but just sayin')

 

[unregistered]

 

[satindesire]

I'm still not sure what it means if it doesn't have anything to do with sponges.

*chuckle!*

 

[graceanne]

*chuckle!*

Stop giggling and tell me!

I know where you post!

 

[satindesire]

Stop giggling and tell me!

I know where you post!

Well, from where -I- come from, 'sponging' means the same as 'mooching'. So I took it that way.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

I thought about washing someone over and over and over and over.

I hope you were thinking about washing me, over and over...

 

[graceanne]

Well, from where -I- come from, 'sponging' means the same as 'mooching'. So I took it that way.

Oooooh. Ok.

 

[BiBunny]

Well, from where -I- come from, 'sponging' means the same as 'mooching'. So I took it that way.

Yep, that's how I meant it.

 

[satindesire]

I hope you were thinking about washing me, over and over...

You dirty, dirty boy....

....................

Go to my room!

Oooooh. Ok.

Okay, so we're cool now, right? I don't have to worry about all my threads being grace-jacked?

Yep, that's how I meant it.

Thought so! *nod!*

 

[ownedsubgal]

How fucked up is it that reading this from you drew me to you?

I think I'm developing a bit of a crush here.

(don't worry, I know you're taken and stuff, but just sayin')

you sado-pervs are all the same.


how come every time i read your user title i get a tingle in my panties? we all gotz issues. *shrug*

 

[subish2009]

1. Female
2. submissive tendencies (a somewhat bossy sub if you can imagine that one!)
3. Extroversion |||||||||||||| 52%
Orderliness |||||||||| 38%
Emotional Stability |||||| 30%
Accommodation |||||||||||||||| 67%
Inquisitiveness |||||||||||| 50%
Extroversion results were medium which suggests you are moderately talkative, outgoing, sociable and interacting.

Orderliness results were moderately low which suggests you are, at times, overly flexible, random, improvised, and fun seeking at the expense of structure, reliability, work ethic, and long term accomplishment.

Emotional Stability results were low which suggests you are very worrying, insecure, emotional, and anxious.

Accommodation results were moderately high which suggests you are, at times, overly kind natured, trusting, and helpful at the expense of your own individual development (martyr complex).

Inquisitiveness results were medium which suggests you are moderately intellectual, curious, and imaginative.
Global 5: sloan SLUAI; sloan+ Slo|A|I; primary Accommodating; S(52%)L(70%)O(38%)A(67%)I(50%)

4. Hmmm. Somewhat accurate. I'm not as accommodating as implied, though definitely tend toward that end of the spectrum. Emotional stability is pretty true. I am more than moderately intellectual. Extroversion/introversion varies with me a lot over time. Orderliness is pretty off since I am very good at goal-setting and reaching those goals.