Instant subspace! Just add...

[notalwaysweak]

I was getting a shoulder massage from a friend the other day and he commented (as he frequently does) about my poor posture. He then slid one hand across the base of my throat and ran the other hand up my back to get me to straighten up, and then wasn't sure why I was starting to melt into a little puddle of person instead of sitting up straight like I was meant to. I used to really not be good with hands on/around my throat, but it's been something that's really, really working for me of late.

Anyone else have something that will put you straight into that deep mindset (if you don't already spend all your time in it anyway)?

 

[EmpressFi]

If done correctly.. instant subspace for me.. pulling my hair... dont yank it.. dont tug.. bury your fingers in there.. make a fist and then slowly pull back.. hard...

 

[BiBunny]

Two words: face slapping.

Seriously, if you know how to do this properly, that's all it takes.

 

[malinborn]

Sadly i do not think i have ever achieved subspace though i have come really really close to it.... i am just way too aware of my surroundings to phase it all out

 

[Millificent]

The gentle grasp of a hand in my hair, forcing my head back, and the feel of cold steel on my throat. Instant. Puddle.

 

[graceanne]

Anything that involves hands and my throat. I don't know if I'd call it subspace, but it definitely creates the puddle effect.

 

[EmpressFi]

The gentle grasp of a hand in my hair, forcing my head back, and the feel of cold steel on my throat. Instant. Puddle.

*raises her hand*

I've witnessed this....

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

I have never experienced subspace..per se, even way back when I was being trained as a submissive/slave. *shrugs* However, the quiet place happens automatically (I call it maso space...) if my Sadistic type of the moment slaps my face. It has to be forceful, quick, sting~y. Add in a word or two of my completely debased state and I am gone. *thinks about this...egads I haven't had that in years*

 

[CheekyBoots]

Two words: face slapping.

Seriously, if you know how to do this properly, that's all it takes.

Mmmm, the slap! I LOVE the unexpected ones, accompanied with an explosive "shut up!" (Or something along those lines)

I just stand there, heart racing, getting all hot and wet, going weak at the knees, unable to speak (a miracle, for me! ^^ ) Ooohoohooo, I need one right now...

 

[notalwaysweak]

I like the 'shut up' as well, but spoken in a low, firm tone that tells me that if I don't shut up, he's going to make me shut up.

 

[CheekyBoots]

I like the 'shut up' as well, but spoken in a low, firm tone that tells me that if I don't shut up, he's going to make me shut up.

Yeah.... yeah that would definitely work for me too. This thread is hot

 

[VelvetDarkness]

I can tick all those boxes, face slapping, pulling my head back by the hair, his hands around my throat - all of those things just liquefy me on the spot.

Sometimes he'll push me against the nearest wall and just hold me there, staring me down.

A lot of the time, it's just his voice. Master has a deep, gravelly voice that gets me so turned on. Sometimes all it takes is a terse command. He's also fond of walking up behind me and whispering 'cunt' or 'whore' or very rarely, 'pet' in my ear.

Quite often, all it takes is a look. He just gets that glint in his eye that warns me when I'm getting sammy and less than perfectly obedient. He has yet to learn that occasionally it just makes me want to provoke him into getting pissed off with me.

 

[sexycaz22]

Gosh... I can't really pinpoint on a thing which makes me go weak at the knees.......

Let me think on this a little longer and I will get back to you!

By the way, a good thread, S_I

 

[notalwaysweak]

Gosh... I can't really pinpoint on a thing which makes me go weak at the knees.......

Let me think on this a little longer and I will get back to you!

By the way, a good thread, S_I

Thank you! And hey, even if you can't think of anything, other people's posts are rather inspiring... *fans self*

 

[SweetGigi]

Anything that involves hands and my throat. I don't know if I'd call it subspace, but it definitely creates the puddle effect.

For me it is instant subspace. Although my subspace isn't exactly what I think other people consider subspace. However, anything involving hands on my throat does it for me. I even catch myself putting my own hands on my throat when I am uncomfortable or nervous. It has a calming effect like nothing else.

 

[SubKekiLee]

For me, it is when he speaks to me, his voice is intoxicating in itself..... and even more so when he leans over and wherever we are whispers in my ear my trigger words or the words I love even more.. What a good pet you are... you make Sir so happy... *** instant puddle of goo****

 

[Stegral]

I have only entered subspace once.
Unfortunately neither myself or the Top realized it & I wasn't brought down properly.
(grounded VERY hard at work about 36 hrs after play)

A puddle of goo??? Tender bites to the neck up by my ears, like "hickeys".
make my neck nice shades of purples & blues & I am your temporary SLAVE...

THOSE instantly turn my knees weak & send sensations STRAIGHT south

I can block alot, but well placed tender bites I can't...

 

[myinnerslut]

i have limited experience with subsace but ive found a sombination of rope, his voice, pressure on my neck, and something sharp runnning over my skin does it

oh, and when i got pierced i went flying but that a) was fucking terrifiying and b) isnt likely to happen again

 

[00Syd]

I don't know about subspace really, but a hand around my throat sure as hell does something for me!

And like SweetGigi, I've also found that when I'm uncomfortable or nervous I'll put a hand up to my neck

 

[madetotakeit]

I'm not sure if I have entered sub-space. I have had the feeling of being in that moment where I haven't been aware of anything else. My mind working more on reaction than having any conscious thought. What put me there was the voice and the look. The right combination that just took all thought away with the sharp exhale it caused.

I'm with the general consensus that a hand around my throat certainly does something for me. It's either going to make me feel very submissive or fight like hell. From the submissive angle it's a very intoxicating and addictive feeling.

 

[TenJed69]

This thread is awesome

 

[Millificent]

I almost forgot...how could I? Needle play...

I've only had needles used on my twice, but both times it was so euphoric, I almost lost consciousness.

Sooooooooo nice....

 

[Homburg]

I'm really hoping that those with little or no experience in subspace are that way because they have little or no experience bottoming. I would hate to think that this many Tops have no ability/desire to produce that state.

(And, no, I don't aim to induce it each time, nor even often, but there are just times when you really want to send your girl for a ride.)

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I almost forgot...how could I? Needle play...

I've only had needles used on my twice, but both times it was so euphoric, I almost lost consciousness.

Sooooooooo nice....

It's true. Needles just seem to slam some people in headspace immediately.

(And I need to buy some more.)

 

[VelvetDarkness]

something sharp runnning over my skin does it

Ooh yes. Cold, sharp steel especially. Master once had me on the verge of freaking out, threatening to cut his initials into me.


Motherfucker was holding his front door key against my back. I was never in the slightest danger of being hurt.

 

[malinborn]

Nik was very good at what she did, as were other Dommes i have been with in the past, i am simply too... "in the now"... and "in the where" to really allow myself to slip off to a sense of weightlessness... i can only think of two times i ever felt close.. once was when i was just starting out and one was with Nik... i simply stopped reacting to her hits.. to her attention.. i didn't really feel anything.. but mentally i was still very aware of where i was and what was going on

I'm really hoping that those with little or no experience in subspace are that way because they have little or no experience bottoming. I would hate to think that this many Tops have no ability/desire to produce that state.