Honesty on the Lit boards

[koalabear]

Gotta love these GB rejects.......

 

[Spenser41]

OK he is on ignore. So tired of his crap. We know the truth and he is just a whinner and a pain in the ass..

 

[SimpleGifts]

Alright that’s plain dishonesty in someway, but what about these men
1.who keeps sending pm or posts to ladies “hi you’re really beautiful, I loved your pictures, I read your story is was very interesting, your avatar is very cool, I completely agree with you about what you posted on xyz’s thread.” In short most time the hidden message is [I’m too loney, I need some company so I’m sending such sweet talk things all over, sometimes 5 ladies at once, and I don’t care how you look, write, all I need is something with boobs and pussy] I’m sure most of you “honesty conscious” ladies responded back saying “thank you very much”

So when you say ‘honesty’ You need to see all these things too. other wise its just one sided talk.

1.[red] I'm not saying you ladies are bad [/red]
2. if someone is to blame for the dishonesty, then its the real life lonelyness or something that lacks in the real life, that's why people do dishonesty to find some company and buffer stock online on lit board.

Wow, if you're life is that empty and you're that desperate for company, it's no wonder that women don't reply to your PMs very much. Desperation is rarely attractive; neither is insecurity.

You make some interesting points, but they would be a lot stronger if you weren't projecting your own complaints about your past experiences on someone else's situation. It's one thing to dispute someone else's interpretation of their own situation...it's another thing to make up 'facts' and attach them to that situation to justify your own interpretation.

Good luck to you, CW...sounds like you've got a tough row to hoe.

SG

 

[Guest]

So here we’ve one sided sympathy and one sided blame game.
But I'm trying to figure out what could be the possible circumstances that forced the man to act like that.[as I told before I’m not that man]

Day-1 . man meets p/g lady NO.1 that’ve fun time together

Day-2. Lady 1 is too busy with her other buddies so man thinks he should better find someone else, after all he comes online only for company –he is lonely divorced in his real life.

Day-3 man doesn’t find anything, but he keeps posting around in game thread hoping somewhere it’ll come out good result. In the process he ends up having more than 1000 posts. he matures slowly on how to do sweet talk to impress ladies.

Day-4. Man finds lady no.2. She thinks “oh my, this guy is sooooooo active in game thread, means he’s really trustworthy!, [may be she orgasmed looking his post count as ‘1000+’]
So man & lady2 have fun together.

Day-5.lady2 again busy with some other guy [lit is too competitive place] so man is again loney, in the mean time lady1 shows up cause her best buddies haven’t showed up tonight, so she is free. So man & lady1 have fun time together.

Day-6.lady1 again busy, lady2 shows up, again they’ve fun time.
[size=+1]
Sooner or later, man figures out if he wants to stay in company he needs to do all that sweet talk, after all lit. is a pretty competitive place for men to find women. so he ends up telling lies cause he doesn’t want to loose any of the 3, after all he’s never sure whether he will get some company every time he comes online. He wasn’t cheating – he was only creating a buffer stock of online lady friends, so every time he comes online he can be sure he’ll have some company. [/size]

Alright that’s plain dishonesty in someway, but what about these men
1.who keeps sending pm or posts to ladies “hi you’re really beautiful, I loved your pictures, I read your story is was very interesting, your avatar is very cool, I completely agree with you about what you posted on xyz’s thread.” In short most time the hidden message is [I’m too loney, I need some company so I’m sending such sweet talk things all over, sometimes 5 ladies at once, and I don’t care how you look, write, all I need is something with boobs and pussy] I’m sure most of you “honesty conscious” ladies responded back saying “thank you very much”

So when you say ‘honesty’ You need to see all these things too. other wise its just one sided talk.

1.[red] I'm not saying you ladies are bad [/red]
2. if someone is to blame for the dishonesty, then its the real life lonelyness or something that lacks in the real life, that's why people do dishonesty to find some company and buffer stock online on lit board.

Mate... let ME give YOU some advice.

I've seen you whine a lot about being lonely. Stop and think on it. Work out why. People don't like arrogant people who blame everybody else for absolutely everything. They don't like bitter jerks who post stuff that belittles everyone and is just to cause hassle. They don't like people who think everyone is so stupid they have to title EVERY post they make, (and then put it again as the first line of his post for good measure in case the poor retards don't get it) and put stuff in red and underline it.

As SG says... in amongst your arrogance and nastiness and bitterness there are grains of good points. But they are lost amongst your blaming everyone else for everything that goes wrong for you. Women don't reply to you or give you an excuse. It's their fault...... No way it could be because you come over like a complete and utter bigot who just can't be wrong on oanything and is so unhappy in his own life that he has to bring everyone else down too. Nope... can't be that.

Out of interest..... How old are you? To me you come over like an 18yo who is living at home and thinks he knows all about life, but hasn't a clue.

 

[Morrigu]

Now I get it. Your own threads failed to take off, so you highjack another to buffer your own self-importance. Or did I just attach my own interpretation to your actions?

 

[agent2407]

Well said DB and Morri

 

[lovemonster]

Yep... I could start a game thread... who is this alt?

And not allow any plebs with less than 100 posts to enter.

I have a feeling I know who this is.....he's very familiar to someone I've run across before using a previous name....

 

[lovemonster]

Hey....I have boobs....if I put a pic of them in my profile, does that make me the same person as Lorilei and Pink too??

I can't possibly be Pink or Lorilei. I have an arse and they don't.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

First, I apologize for not reading the entire thread, therefore I can only truly comment on the original post.

Men and women lie. It's human nature and I really feel that is the truth. I remember when my son lied for the first time, it wasn't anything serious. I don't even recall what he lied about, but I do know he was lying to me. He was four years old. I was struck by the fact that he did lie to me. It was then that a light bulb clicked and I realized... it truly is HUMAN nature. I even put the event in his baby book... right beside the speeding ticket my spouse got the day our son was being born.

With that said... I have always done my best to be honest here on the boards. If I have to keep my mouth shut about something then it is usually to protect either my families identity or the secrets of others.

I openly have admitted to being married and openly have admitted to cybering as well as phone, and I have openly told folks which of the two forms of "sexual" communication I enjoy most.

If I "play" longterm with someone, I tell them... I am not exclusive. I will be if they wish it, but they must be as well. It's not one-sided in my cyber world.

*I had more to say but I deleted because it went off on a tangent*

 

[lovemonster]

Mate... let ME give YOU some advice.

I've seen you whine a lot about being lonely. Stop and think on it. Work out why. People don't like arrogant people who blame everybody else for absolutely everything. They don't like bitter jerks who post stuff that belittles everyone and is just to cause hassle. They don't like people who think everyone is so stupid they have to title EVERY post they make, (and then put it again as the first line of his post for good measure in case the poor retards don't get it) and put stuff in red and underline it.

As SG says... in amongst your arrogance and nastiness and bitterness there are grains of good points. But they are lost amongst your blaming everyone else for everything that goes wrong for you. Women don't reply to you or give you an excuse. It's their fault...... No way it could be because you come over like a complete and utter bigot who just can't be wrong on oanything and is so unhappy in his own life that he has to bring everyone else down too. Nope... can't be that.

Out of interest..... How old are you? To me you come over like an 18yo who is living at home and thinks he knows all about life, but hasn't a clue.

Now I get it. Your own threads failed to take off, so you highjack another to buffer your own self-importance. Or did I just attach my own interpretation to your actions?

He was here ages ago whining about how women wouldn't talk to him, I'm absolutely positive it's the same guy. When he wouldn't listen to my advice, I gave up banging my head against a brick wall. I'm sure me and Sase are the two ladies he mentioned in an earlier post.

He also spent a lot of time whinging about how 'pointless' the game threads were.

He obviously hasn't learnt anything from his last experience here.....

 

[Tawny_Temptress]

He was here ages ago whining about how women wouldn't talk to him, I'm absolutely positive it's the same guy. When he wouldn't listen to my advice, I gave up banging my head against a brick wall. I'm sure me and Sase are the two ladies he mentioned in an earlier post.

He also spent a lot of time whinging about how 'pointless' the game threads were.

He obviously hasn't learnt anything from his last experience here.....

I tried to calm him down the first night he went spastic. He was bitching about how PPL were not responding to him or were not who they claimed to be. Now you say you think he used another user name?

He told me he was on a quest to "warn others". Then later, every time he felt in a certain mood he would "take it to the playground". Why? Who knows? Well, I kind of do, but am not willing to post about information I got in PM. and there is not much validity in it. It is simply a way to garner attention, since he can get it another way.

He is an unhappy little shit and trys to pretend he can help others by being an unhappy little shit and assures me that it works for him. I am done trying to help drama queens.

 

[lovemonster]

I tried to calm him down the first night he went spastic. He was bitching about how PPL were not responding to him or were not who they claimed to be. Now you say you think he used another user name?

He told me he was on a quest to "warn others". Then later, every time he felt in a certain mood he would "take it to the playground". Why? Who knows? Well, I kind of do, but am not willing to post about information I got in PM. and there is not much validity in it. It is simply a way to garner attention, since he can get it another way.

He is an unhappy little shit and trys to pretend he can help others by being an unhappy little shit and assures me that it works for him. I am done trying to help drama queens.

LOL, if it's the same one I think it is....this is his THIRD reincarnation (that I know about anyway)....I'll PM ya his last one...Sasebrats managed to find it, bless her!

 

[Morrigu]

I tried to calm him down the first night he went spastic. He was bitching about how PPL were not responding to him or were not who they claimed to be. Now you say you think he used another user name?

He told me he was on a quest to "warn others". Then later, every time he felt in a certain mood he would "take it to the playground". Why? Who knows? Well, I kind of do, but am not willing to post about information I got in PM. and there is not much validity in it. It is simply a way to garner attention, since he can get it another way.

He is an unhappy little shit and trys to pretend he can help others by being an unhappy little shit and assures me that it works for him. I am done trying to help drama queens.

LOL, if it's the same one I think it is....this is his THIRD reincarnation (that I know about anyway)....I'll PM ya his last one...Sasebrats managed to find it, bless her!

I think he was incredibly lucky to have two such amazing women trying to help.

 

[Tawny_Temptress]

I think he was incredibly lucky to have two such amazing women trying to help.

Thanks

 

[lovemonster]

I think he was incredibly lucky to have two such amazing women trying to help.

Thank you, sweetie

 

[omahaman2]

We just learn to be more cautious about who we open up to. I've made plenty of others here too that will be my friends forever. Some of them I turn to before my closest r/l friends.

You know you and Jenny are lucky to have found each other here, which gives me that glimmer of hope!

The name of this thread is honesty on the boards. In regards to this subject,
pleaz-.I would like to say a few things I honestly cant imagine why someone would want to hurt such wonderful people. I honestly know that each and everyone I know would make anyone a great love or at least a fantastic friend! I honestly know pleaz any man would be lucky to have you in his life in any capacity. Finally,I honestly know how lucky I am to have found jenny here at lit, a woman who not only changed my life,but has become my life. We connected by being honestly ourselves. Well,other than the time I was the student and she the teacher,or the time I was the patient and she was the nurse. Then,there was the time she was the bos and I was the employee and the time I was' Whoops,I think I got off the subject matter. Honestly,I wish everyone here would just be themselves, wonderful things can happen when you connect with someone on all levels!

 

[Lorilei]

I can't possibly be Pink or Lorilei. I have an arse and they don't.

LMAO.......I can only speak for myself, but you're right.....my lack of an arse is a constant lament of mine.

 

[ClassInAtl]

Hey....I have boobs....if I put a pic of them in my profile, does that make me the same person as Lorilei and Pink too??

Hmmmm. I don't know...let's find out

 

[ClassInAtl]

I think he was incredibly lucky to have two such amazing women trying to help.

I'm betting you are right...and that I'm in dire need of help

 

[Sleazy19]

Since I have boobs in my AV, I wonder who am I, Pink or Lorilei????

 

[Sleazy19]

So here we’ve one sided sympathy and one sided blame game.
But I'm trying to figure out what could be the possible circumstances that forced the man to act like that.[as I told before I’m not that man]

Day-1 . man meets p/g lady NO.1 that’ve fun time together

Day-2. Lady 1 is too busy with her other buddies so man thinks he should better find someone else, after all he comes online only for company –he is lonely divorced in his real life.

Day-3 man doesn’t find anything, but he keeps posting around in game thread hoping somewhere it’ll come out good result. In the process he ends up having more than 1000 posts. he matures slowly on how to do sweet talk to impress ladies.

Day-4. Man finds lady no.2. She thinks “oh my, this guy is sooooooo active in game thread, means he’s really trustworthy!, [may be she orgasmed looking his post count as ‘1000+’]
So man & lady2 have fun together.

Day-5.lady2 again busy with some other guy [lit is too competitive place] so man is again loney, in the mean time lady1 shows up cause her best buddies haven’t showed up tonight, so she is free. So man & lady1 have fun time together.

Day-6.lady1 again busy, lady2 shows up, again they’ve fun time.
[size=+1]
Sooner or later, man figures out if he wants to stay in company he needs to do all that sweet talk, after all lit. is a pretty competitive place for men to find women. so he ends up telling lies cause he doesn’t want to loose any of the 3, after all he’s never sure whether he will get some company every time he comes online. He wasn’t cheating – he was only creating a buffer stock of online lady friends, so every time he comes online he can be sure he’ll have some company. [/size]

Alright that’s plain dishonesty in someway, but what about these men
1.who keeps sending pm or posts to ladies “hi you’re really beautiful, I loved your pictures, I read your story is was very interesting, your avatar is very cool, I completely agree with you about what you posted on xyz’s thread.” In short most time the hidden message is [I’m too loney, I need some company so I’m sending such sweet talk things all over, sometimes 5 ladies at once, and I don’t care how you look, write, all I need is something with boobs and pussy] I’m sure most of you “honesty conscious” ladies responded back saying “thank you very much”

So when you say ‘honesty’ You need to see all these things too. other wise its just one sided talk.

1.[red] I'm not saying you ladies are bad [/red]
2. if someone is to blame for the dishonesty, then its the real life lonelyness or something that lacks in the real life, that's why people do dishonesty to find some company and buffer stock online on lit board.

wow, I thought I was crazy...LMAO

 

[pink]

WTH Happened to my thread? Holy sheet.


i'd say we all need to just put him on iggy but he is a bit entertaining and yes, makes very small grains of good points but damn.

 

[chunu]

WTH Happened to my thread? Holy sheet.


i'd say we all need to just put him on iggy but he is a bit entertaining and yes, makes very small grains of good points but damn.

Lit happened to your thread, dear pink. The sum of all our parts expressing itself in how this conversation has diverted from the original point. We need to be spanked to get back on the straight and narrow

 

[pink]

Lit happened to your thread, dear pink. The sum of all our parts expressing itself in how this conversation has diverted from the original point. We need to be spanked to get back on the straight and narrow

i thought this only happened on the General Board?

 

[chunu]

i thought this only happened on the General Board?

I think a fleck of the General Board may have made its way over here, what with a certain somebody in the thread bringing up the fact that most of us are solely PlayGrounders.

It is an important topic to cover, the original thread starter, so let's just see how it progresses from here perhaps?