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Welllll I never claimed to have a fat ass through healthy, diligent diet and workout efforts, it’s like 100% McDonald’s and ego at this point. It is safe to assume all other aspects of me physically or internally are equally lousy 😋

This brings up a great question - what do you do when dick sucking becomes inadequate? When it becomes less of a thrill and more of a take it or leave it sorta situation.

What’s the pivot?

Is it rimming?
Inadequate for you or for him?
My wife and I are celebrating our 20th anniversary in a few weeks. And in those 20 years I can probably count the number of blowjobs I've gotten on one hand. When I was younger, blowjobs were kind of like an appetizer I didn't really want, like stuffed mushrooms. I just wanted to get to the main course. Now, all I want are some fucking stuffed mushrooms and they're nowhere to be found.
 
How Much RAM Is In Your Rod?

And by that I mean, how’s your memory?

Have you ever been in that situation with your wife, girlfriend or just female friend, where you said or did something to piss her off and she goes back three years to that time you were at the beach and you said something that hurt her feelings and she’s been harboring this rage all that time, even though she didn’t say anything at that moment, she remembers every single detail of what a monster you were, the weather, the setting, who wore what and now it’s finally time to address it and your only response is “We were at the beach?” 🤔
No; luckily, I have a group of friends that discuss their issues like adults LOL
We don't hold petty grudges.

I have a memory like that one elephant in the news that stomped the lady out, then travelled to her funeral/house to run it back one more time. I can remember details with startling clarity (sometimes I'm amazed at the small things I remember from, like, 20 years ago).

Do you think men and women have a different capacity for memory? How?
It's not a gendered thing. Some people have memories like a vault; some have memories like a sieve.

Why do you think guys can have a fight with another guy and a week later not remember why, but women carry that shit to the grave? Or do you not think this is incorrect?
Again, it's not a gendered thing. There are plenty of men that harbor grudges.

Do you remember the intimate details of past relationships, or do you delete those files once the emotion passes?
Memorable moments, absolutely. The specific emotion tied to that memory may have subdued, but I still remember what happened.

Have you ever been confronted by a pic, video or group memory of something sexual you did that you totally forgot about? If not, are you afraid it’s out there?
Nope.

Is your memory based more on the basic elements, or do you remember every detail (generally)?
Depends on the prompt/question being asked about said memory. If someone asks a specific question, I can generally give very specific details.

What technique have you developed to remember things that you know your partner cares about that you know you’re going to forget?
Not partnered, so not currently a concern of mine. When I was partnered, I never had trouble remembering the things they liked, because I liked/loved them, and what they liked was important to me.

What was the biggest thing in a relationship that you forgot about and had to be reminded of?
Nothing; remembering the big (and small) things my previous partners liked wasn't a huge undertaking for me. Those facts were always kinda tucked in the back of my head, and when an opportunity presented itself to surprise them with something they mentioned they enjoyed, I generally did it for them.
 
For men... they usually have two things on their mind at all times. Sex and food. It might sound cliché, but if you want a man to remember something feed him or fuck him while telling him.
This. Is. Hysterical. 🤣

No. I think people remember what’s important to them and since that varies from person to person the memories are different and or absent. There was some interesting research a while ago about crime witnesses. The general idea is that human memory is shitty and highly malleable.
I would love to read this article.

I would ask for it if I thought you remembered where to find it. :p
 
To answer the question:

My memory kicks about two. I remember entirely scenarios in detail: timelines, conversations, and people, in depth. As a child, I would reference some previous conversation and when others wouldn't remember I would think they were lying.

I was an adult before I realized, they really did not remember. 🤣

Conversations, particularly. Anything that catches my attention. I don't necessarily recall verbatim, but it's not uncommon for me to remember particularly important sentences, and I absolutely remember the back and forth in its entirety.

Now numbers or dates? Forget about it. I do remember birthdays I learned as a child, but that power turned off by late adolescence.

I'm also quite scatterbrained with it comes to short term multi-tasking.

Lists. I learned that from my mother. She lived by steno note pad and pen.

Unfortunately that doesn't help with my keys. I mislay those things a dozen times a day. :p
 
Yep, feet with reading glasses and a lanyard.
Wow, that sounds . . . remarkably unsexy.

Lanyard reminds me of keyed cards required for lab entry. Also not sexy, unless you happen to be a fan of white coats, tissue culture, and molecularly biology.

How about . . . lorgnette chain?

That sounds a little less utilitarian, at least. 🤣


I prefer not to think of myself as utilitarian sexy. :p


Hmmm. I wonder if they make pretty ones and where they can be found, if so. 🤔
 
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