Lots of reasons, some are in sexless relationships, some are realizing truths about themselves, some want to explore the boundaries of their sexuality...or maybe a combination...but all are equally valid.
I totally agree with you, I also think it puts a little excitement back into having sex, I also wonder how many guys are open with their partners on their feelings and what they want to try.
Realizing the truth about myself covers it for me. I always had masturbation fantasies about cock sucking or being a bottom, however, as I had no attraction to men at all i assumed it was just a weird submissive kink. When I got on Lit and SilverDaddies I learned there were many like me and I was a limited bisexual. My bi desires have been confirmed with real life experiences. Married to a woman and we still have sex twice a week. If my marriage were to end I suspect my future would have a lot more cock in it
Can I ask does your wife know? Is she open and happy with it? I love my wife and would hate something to happen.
My wife does not know and must never know. I feel a ton of guilt about that. She is plain vanilla sexually. We only have sex missionary with me on top No oral of any kind, no toys, no restraints. I got tired of hearing no from her so I gave up. However, she likes to fuck and initiates sex twice a week with me. She climaxes easily too. I must not hurt her but I also have this one life to live and I hate leaving desires and experiences unfulfilled.
I totally understand that. You sound like a good person you should hold onto that. I believe you when you say you have one life you need to also look after yourself and what you need. Lucky you still get sex with her twice a week. Good man
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