Curious.....

[lovelyivy]

Where do you think kinks/fetishes come from? Do you think it's experience related, possibly trauma related, or something else? I find the older I get, the more I uncover about myself in those areas which can be exciting.

What are everyone's thoughts?

 

[EctoJohn]

Possibly subconscious triggers that you might not even be aware of yourself where your brain is making an association between an event or thing with sexual pleasure.

 

[CaptCharles]

I believe its a combination of traumas and experiences but, also what may not be satisfying in your current life. We all have a natural need for exploration. Realizing that exploration and rewarding ourselves for discoveries that give pleasure are what drives us for more.

 

[1DarkNightOwl]

I think mine are derived from biological need and history, combined with my [our] urge to explore the unknown and seek new things.

 

[chrisatb5]

Way Early exposure to porn

 

[1DarkNightOwl]

Way Early exposure to porn

Would you be willing to disclose what is meant by too early?

 

[oneoffAkind]

For me I found my fetish in my early 20s and they've stuck for about 25 years now.