submission forced or coaxed

[Michael_Keaton]

Hmmm, maybe combined with public groping. A hand on your breast, another in your panties, feeling your wetness. Tasting it on their fingers. Then lifting your skirt and fucking you right there, in an alley, with a few onlookers….

It seems that the difference between groping and a consensual touch is in the eyes of the beholder. Take my two experiences for example.

A. I was involved in a heavy making-out session with a lady. She was under my left armpit with my hand draped over her shoulder and my right hand resting in her lap, palm up. As our tongues were playing back and forth I slid my left hand down and cupped her breast. She leaned forward (to get away from my hand?) and when she did she dropped her right breast in my other hand! Now I don't know what she wants!! LOL I removed my hands and we continued to make out for a couple of more minutes, then she left. The next day she called me and told me that she felt she'd been groped. We didn't see one another again.

B. I was involved in a years long relationship with a woman who liked and encouraged me to subtly rub her ass or brush/rub against her breasts in public, even to the point of grabbing an occasional 'side feel'.

What's a guy supposed to do??

 

[EoghanDubhara]

Oh, little one, the real question isn’t if submission can be coaxed or taken, it’s how deeply you crave both. Picture this: My hands in your hair, pulling just enough to make you whimper as I growl, ‘You were made to obey.’ Or perhaps you’d rather melt into me, pliant and eager, as I praise every tremble of surrender? Either way, your submission, stolen or gifted, belongs to me. And I promise… you’ll love every second of the struggle.

I was 100% ready for you to say, "Your pussy was made to take my cock."

 

[lil_jenni]

It seems that the difference between groping and a consensual touch is in the eyes of the beholder. Take my two experiences for example.

A. I was involved in a heavy making-out session with a lady. She was under my left armpit with my hand draped over her shoulder and my right hand resting in her lap, palm up. As our tongues were playing back and forth I slid my left hand down and cupped her breast. She leaned forward (to get away from my hand?) and when she did she dropped her right breast in my other hand! Now I don't know what she wants!! LOL I removed my hands and we continued to make out for a couple of more minutes, then she left. The next day she called me and told me that she felt she'd been groped. We didn't see one another again.

B. I was involved in a years long relationship with a woman who liked and encouraged me to subtly rub her ass or brush/rub against her breasts in public, even to the point of grabbing an occasional 'side feel'.

What's a guy supposed to do??

Your scenario A. seems odd, but then again, I was never a girl for makeout sessions for their own sake. They were awkward as fuck. If I was kissing a guy like that, it was because I wanted more. But my own oddities aside (don't expect many women to be like me in that), I can't imagine calling a guy just to tell him I felt like he was inappropriate. I just wouldn't contact him at all, especially if intended to never see him again.

What was the context? Had you been dating? Would it have been weird for her not to call you? Was she expecting an apology?

Sorry, I don't mean to be intrusive. I'm just curious.

 

[Michael_Keaton]

Your scenario A. seems odd, but then again, I was never a girl for makeout sessions for their own sake. They were awkward as fuck. If I was kissing a guy like that, it was because I wanted more. But my own oddities aside (don't expect many women to be like me in that), I can't imagine calling a guy just to tell him I felt like he was inappropriate. I just wouldn't contact him at all, especially if intended to never see him again.

What was the context? Had you been dating? Would it have been weird for her not to call you? Was she expecting an apology?

Sorry, I don't mean to be intrusive. I'm just curious.

Don't be concerned about being curious. I posted this because I was curious as to whether I was the crazy one in that situation!
Long story short, we'd seen each other 3-4 times with only an occasional kiss or hug when one day she suggested, "we go to your place and have a make out session". Never being a guy to pass up an opportunity for whatever life brings my way, I agreed.

I was actually surprised when she called, not because she called but because of the tone of what she said. I didn't get the idea that she was expecting an apology, more that I had disappointed and offended her. IMO it was an overreaction to something she wasn't expecting. Again IMO a more appropriate response would have been to say, "I'm not ready for that yet. Now, where were we? "

 

[Michael_Keaton]

I feel like me personally, if im making out with a guy, i'm going to welcome it if he touches my boobs. When a guy i am not close to touches me between the legs, i freeze. But boobs? Here ya go lol.

That makes sense to me. Things happen in a normal progression. To use a baseball metaphor, 1b. 2b.3b.HP. I got to 1b and was thrown out trying to go to second, but IMO it didn't have to be the end of the inning!

Thanks for the input.

 

[Mike130]

Fuck...they want a turn. And if it were my pussy, I’m ready to see how many I can take

I see that you’re part of the audience watching me fuck Eoghan. That’s ok, you’ll be next. I see that you’re already bent over, taking a stranger’s big cock deep in your pussy. Moaning loudly. I pull my hard thick cock out of Eoghan’s dripping pussy walk over to you and put it close to your mouth. The scent of sex permeates the air. Specifically Eoghan’s pussy and my cock. You lick her juices off of me. Slowly. Gently. I was close to cumming before, now I’m on the edge. I plunge deeply into your mouth, my throbbing cock releases rope after rope of thick cum, as the stranger does the same in your pussy.

 

[Mike130]

Exactly what I was thinking. The stranger and I walk you back to your place. Your short dress is now back down over your pretty ass but you’re a bit disheveled. Your hair is a mess and there’s traces of cum on your cheek and some cum dripping down your inner thighs.

We get to your place and your first instinct is to wash up, but both of us are still horny. The sight of your half naked body being spit roasted is still fresh in our memories. I lean in for a kiss, the taste of my cum still in your mouth. I’m more than aroused. The stranger is too. Everyone’s clothes are off. He lays on the bed, his stiff cock ready to suck. You’re on all fours, his cock in your mouth. Your ass and pussy are tempting me. I begin to lick your pussy, the stranger’s cum on my lips. My mouth wanders, I spread your cheeks, swirl my tongue in your ass a bit. You moan, slide up the stranger and impale yourself on his cock. I slide in behind you, slowly insert my throbbing meat into your ass…

 

[Mike130]

The taste of your ass and pussy is incredibly sensual. The taste of fresh cum is an aphrodisiac. As I slide into your ass, I feel his thick cock through the thin membrane of your skin. It’s very sexy to feel another cock against my own. It takes a few strokes to get our rhythm but finally we’re in sync. I can actually feel his cock throbbing. It’s almost a bisexual experience. His cock is throbbing hard now, he’s ready to cum, which triggers me also. We simultaneously shoot hot cream into your holes, while you squirm as we fill you with our hot sperm.

Yes, you will be our slave, and conversely, we will be yours. Two men adoring one woman. Doing whatever is your pleasure. Even if you want us to suck each other for your entertainment. We’re here to make you satisfied.

 

[Mike130]

Now you're giving me ideas... I like the way you think, and fuck.

We need to do this again. I came with every post. I hope I returned the pleasure. Thanks!

I may have spilled some seed myself. Any time at all. Hit me up.

 

[EoghanDubhara]

My "on switch" is my pussy. I regularly fantasize about strangers, unfamiliar men, slipping a hand between my thighs to feel it. Rub their fingers over my smooth pussy lips. Press a finger between to find my clit and openly tap it or rub it while telling me to hold still and let them feel my pussy. Telling me to spread my legs like a good girl so they can look at my pussy. Take pictures. Spread my labia and inspect my needy, tight, sensitive hole. Telling me to hold still as I feel them rub my entrance. Telling me, "This is what you need," as they dip their thick finger into my entrance and hold it there, demonstrating my need to be dominated, laughing at how wet I am, in front of their friends or in the club or in the middle of a house party or at work. And I stand there, letting them expose and see my dripping, swelling, sensitive pussy, knowing it's in heat and needs to be controlled and used.

 

[Mike130]

From your description I can almost taste that dripping pussy. Mmmm. Would love to rub it, dip my fingers in it, then lick them. Pull your panties off before dinner and dancing. The next slow dance, I will slow pull your short dress up so that others can stare at your naked ass while we dance.

Some men may stroke their cocks over their pants, others openly leering. One man, in a dark corner is jerking off….

 

[EoghanDubhara]

From your description I can almost taste that dripping pussy. Mmmm. Would love to rub it, dip my fingers in it, then lick them. Pull your panties off before dinner and dancing. The next slow dance, I will slow pull your short dress up so that others can stare at your naked ass while we dance.

Some men may stroke their cocks over their pants, others openly leering. One man, in a dark corner is jerking off….

No reason for me to wear panties if you're going to enjoy exposing me. Yes, please, rub it and finger it whenever you like. Let other guys watch.

 

[EoghanDubhara]

I feel the wetness on my fingers, taste it. The musky scent arousing, making my thick cock hard, dripping precum. Bending you over a garbage can in the alley. Your short skirt flipped up over your smooth pale, panty covered ass. I rip your panties off, put them in my pocket so that I can remember this moment. There are other men watching. Some have their dicks out. Stroking. Leering at your smooth legs and tight ass. On display for them to see.

I drop my pants, cock so hard it hurts, rub the tip on your wet cunt. Unconsciously, you spread your legs slightly in anticipation. I rub the tip more against your dripping pussy, then slide in to the hilt! You jump in surprise. But I grab your hips and begin to pound you. Hard!

Some of our audience are jerking their cocks furiously. Some are beginning to cum. You feel some wetness splash your face, they’re very close. It’s almost like they want a turn…

Everything about that is so hot! Except for the garbage (ew). But god yes, reach between my legs, slip your bare hand inside my panties, and cup my pussy. Feel how smooth and wet it is. Tell me to hold still while you see how wet I am.

Take my panties. Stuff them in your pocket and keep them like a trophy. Then bend me over. Flip my skirt up over my ass so I'm exposed for you and any other guy watching. Tell me to hold still. Tell me my pussy is soaked and needs to be used.

Unconsciously, I'll spread my legs for you, like my body instinctively responds to dominate men, and my back arches to push my pussy out and present it. The other men laugh and make comments about how I need to be used, how my pussy needs to be taken.

I gasp when I feel the thick head of your cock rub in my slick. I whimper. Hush me. Tell me my pussy needs this. Tell me you're going to use my pussy. Tell me to hold still while the other guys watch.

Then push your cock inside my tight, slick pussy. I might cry out. Grip my hips to hold me in place while you drive your cock all the way inside. Hush me and tell me to take it. Tell me that you know I need my pussy stretched like a good fuck toy. Pull me back onto your cock and pin me in place while I moan and my pussy clenches.

Then pound me hard. Tell me to take it like a good fuck doll. Tell me my pussy feels good and tight around you. Tell me I'm a good girl, that I need cock, and that this is my purpose. You'll hear how wet I am. I hope your balls slap my clit.

Fuck your cum deep inside me. Hush my moans and tell me to take it.

A couple other guys form a line behind you, stroking their hard cocks. Would you let them use my pussy, too?

 

[Mike130]

My balls are full of cream, and the hard pounding has literally made my cock explode in your wet cunt, as rope after rope of hot, thick cum flood your pussy. My throbbing cock is still squirting jizz as I take it out and put it in your mouth so you can lick our combined juices off.

The other guys are behind you, and I nod my head for them to take my place while I build up another load…

 

[zcraft5]

the being dominated controlled what to wear or do ,orgasm control and when to have sex how to have sex all the basics submissive side of things make it appealing to me i am a novice and starting out but the los of control ofmy own pussy and daily activities excites me for some reason is there such a thing as a novice submissive ?just the tip of the iceberg exciting

 

[Oliverleo]

I would fall into the gentle Dom category. Taking control but not to the point of nonconsensual. And, yes, I like cuddling.

 

[Boat1]

this is a question about bdsm style for any Doms/Sirs/Masters anybody enjoy exploring the idea with a submissive of if being submissive could be alluringly coaxed or if submission could be forced and still be enjoyed for both the Dom and submissive...
like coaxed a Sir is gentle about attaining my submission with treats like snuggling...
like forced a Sir grabs me and holds me against a wall and...

is there a difference for either the Doms/Sirs/Masters or submissives?

Edit: this is consensual

As a masochistic sub/slave to my Goddess Wife, it's neither forced nor coaxed... it flows freely, willingly and organically.... I am blissfully blessed and She feels the same way about our relationship.

 

[SubLynnM]

Consensual, or non-consensual. That is the question. IMHO, for what its worth, I feel that once consent is given, it can't be withdrawn. Even if I don't happen to feel especially submissive at that moment in time, having already given consent, he then has the right to just ignore me if I say No, or Stop. Oh, by the way, I don't believe in safe words either. I already know these are not popular opinions, but I firmly believe that men are the natural dominant leaders and women were created to submit to the authority of a man.
I am equally aware that this isn't for everyone, and I would never try to force my feelings onto anyone else.

 

[CEOescape]

with consent, I love to be forced , IT might be right then or a day, week or month . I love it. My husband in the past also included a friend to help him in is forcing me..

 

[MissMandy86]

Forced or coaxed submission..
That idea is so hot
Manipulated ...
Blackmailed
Coercion.. omg

 

[SirSparky]

I like the idea of coercing and forcing a sub into doing things she doesn't want but only as part of a dynamic where safe words and hard limits are already established.

I can be quite a sadistic Dom in relation to punishments. Pushing a sub to hèr soft limits and through them. I like the fight back but in the end she relents and gives in. But the result usually ends in a harsher punishment for pushing back. These situations are all discussed before the dynamic starts.

 

[OlderBtm4U]

I need to find a bi or gay guy like you.

 

[Daddydude55]

I like the idea of coercing and forcing a sub into doing things she doesn't want but only as part of a dynamic where safe words and hard limits are already established.

I can be quite a sadistic Dom in relation to punishments. Pushing a sub to hèr soft limits and through them. I like the fight back but in the end she relents and gives in. But the result usually ends in a harsher punishment for pushing back. These situations are all discussed before the dynamic starts.

Fun n hot

 

[Daddydude55]

Consensual, or non-consensual. That is the question. IMHO, for what its worth, I feel that once consent is given, it can't be withdrawn. Even if I don't happen to feel especially submissive at that moment in time, having already given consent, he then has the right to just ignore me if I say No, or Stop. Oh, by the way, I don't believe in safe words either. I already know these are not popular opinions, but I firmly believe that men are the natural dominant leaders and women were created to submit to the authority of a man.
I am equally aware that this isn't for everyone, and I would never try to force my feelings onto anyone else.

Beautiful and elegant and couldn't agree more

 

[zcraft5]

Beautiful and elegant and couldn't agree more

agreed well said