To be seen

I don't believe exhibitionism is a requirement for BDSM or submissiveness, but it is an element some people enjoy, crave or need.

I think it's important that if you get a thrill out of exposure /exhibitionism, that you consider the consent of the person to whom you are exposed.

For me, the idea that I *might* be exposed is as hot as actually being exposed. So... nakedness in the full length windows of a high rise building where it feels like the whole world can see you, but they'd actually need a telescope to see much at all. Or, being exposed in a place that is theoretically risky, but no one is actually around - outdoors situations, etc.

I don't generally think of myself as having an exhibitionist fetish, but I do get off on him taking control of that away from me and creating risk of exposure scenarios. Easy fantasy fodder is having him expose my beasts for a long car ride or having my skirt ride high enough that someone trying to look would see I'm not wearing panties as he tells me what a naughty girl I am...
 
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I don't believe exhibitionism is a requirement for BDSM or submissiveness, but it is an element some people enjoy, crave or need.

I think it's important that if you get a thrill out of exposure /exhibitionism, that you consider the consent of the person to whom you are exposed.

For me, the idea that I *might* be exposed is as hot as actually being exposed. So... nakedness in the full length windows of a high rise building where it feels like the whole world can see you, but they'd actually need a telescope to see much at all. Or, being exposed in a place that is theoretically risky, but no one is actually around - outdoors situations, etc.

I don't generally think of myself as having an exhibitionist fetish, but I do get off him taking control of that away from me and creating risk of exposure scenarios. Easy fantasy fodder is having him expose my beasts for a long car ride or having my skirt ride high enough that someone trying to look would see I'm not wearing panties as he tells me what a naughty girl I am...
Not naughty but able to share your assets
 
I never would've imagined that it was, until I saw the thrill and mischievous satisfaction on my Lovely Wife Domme's face as She was whipping my slave cock, while caught up in a thick traffic jam.... Now I crave it to the point that I gladly let Her whip me on the town square or run me up a flagpole, naked and spread-eagle...
IOW, anything that is pleasing to Her, is absolutely intoxicating and thrilling to me!
I am so much like you! "IOW, anything that is pleasing to Her, is absolutely intoxicating and thrilling to me!" I've told my lady, many times, that she could drag my naked ass out in public and have her way with me and I would not even attempt to stop her.
 
I went to SF with my Dom and wore nothing but a leashed collar and jockstrap at Folsom. I’m closeted but the thrill of being seen had me hard most of the time
 
I am so much like you! "IOW, anything that is pleasing to Her, is absolutely intoxicating and thrilling to me!" I've told my lady, many times, that she could drag my naked ass out in public and have her way with me and I would not even attempt to stop her.
Lol... I've seen the commonalities between us in many, many posts!
 
I'm an exhibitionist at heart but I can't say it is a critical component for me.

We have a rule that we do not impose our lifestyle on others so no collars or the like in general outings. And these days we don't have any close friends that are comfortable with the life and that we'd feel okay engaging. But, if we did, it absolutely would be a thing for me.

Like others, for me, it is about the humiliation. I'm not well endowed and that just adds to it all. Like many others, CFNM is a common fantasy for me.

One of my strongest fantasies is for Mistress (wife) to invite some friends over and make me strip to my frilliest panties and cook for them and then when it is time for service, to strip to a cock ring and serve them dinner and be at their service, in whatever way that would mean, the rest of the evening. Even to the point of being teased about my dick and patted and spanked on my ass. Yummy!

And did I mention I'm an outwardly very alpha male so this goes really deep for me.
 
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Being pegged by my wife as one of her girl friends watched was exciting. So were the next 3 pegging shows in front of other girl friends. The subsequent pegging party where my wife and four of her girl friends took turns pegging me while the others cheered us on was exceptional!
 
My owner is a prostitute, boo, and she put me out to work for her too. Streetwalking. So, dressed in slutty shit and waiting to fuck punters in our local red-light district is all part of it.

Is it a thrill knowing that everyone knows why I'm there looking like that? Absolutely. All part of it, boo.

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