Is exhibitionism a critical part of the bdsm thrill for submissives?
i love to be on display/seen/ revealed while being engaged in lite SPH
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Is exhibitionism a critical part of the bdsm thrill for submissives?
For me it's about exposure, vulnerability and people seeing the dirty little slut that I am.
Mmmm. I love that. Does your husband know that you show off???This is my kink exactly.
Tell me more….for me it is not critical but it is a special bonus
Not naughty but able to share your assetsI don't believe exhibitionism is a requirement for BDSM or submissiveness, but it is an element some people enjoy, crave or need.
I think it's important that if you get a thrill out of exposure /exhibitionism, that you consider the consent of the person to whom you are exposed.
For me, the idea that I *might* be exposed is as hot as actually being exposed. So... nakedness in the full length windows of a high rise building where it feels like the whole world can see you, but they'd actually need a telescope to see much at all. Or, being exposed in a place that is theoretically risky, but no one is actually around - outdoors situations, etc.
I don't generally think of myself as having an exhibitionist fetish, but I do get off him taking control of that away from me and creating risk of exposure scenarios. Easy fantasy fodder is having him expose my beasts for a long car ride or having my skirt ride high enough that someone trying to look would see I'm not wearing panties as he tells me what a naughty girl I am...
Critical? No. Enjoyable? Yes! But the trick here is consent, which applies to the audience as well.Is exhibitionism a critical part of the bdsm thrill for submissives?
I am so much like you! "IOW, anything that is pleasing to Her, is absolutely intoxicating and thrilling to me!" I've told my lady, many times, that she could drag my naked ass out in public and have her way with me and I would not even attempt to stop her.I never would've imagined that it was, until I saw the thrill and mischievous satisfaction on my Lovely Wife Domme's face as She was whipping my slave cock, while caught up in a thick traffic jam.... Now I crave it to the point that I gladly let Her whip me on the town square or run me up a flagpole, naked and spread-eagle...
IOW, anything that is pleasing to Her, is absolutely intoxicating and thrilling to me!
Lol... I've seen the commonalities between us in many, many posts!I am so much like you! "IOW, anything that is pleasing to Her, is absolutely intoxicating and thrilling to me!" I've told my lady, many times, that she could drag my naked ass out in public and have her way with me and I would not even attempt to stop her.
what do you enjoyLol... I've seen the commonalities between us in many, many posts!
I enjoy my Lovely Wife Domme and everything we share... I'm a masochist and well cared for by Her!what do you enjoy
Me tooIt is for me!
Absolutely. I would think that when a humiliation or degradation kink is tied into the submission, the frequency of exhibitionist thrills increases significantly.I should have said "can.....be part of the thrill for some submissives?"
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I would love that. Or better yet, no strap. A cock cage, and the leash attached to my balls.I went to SF with my Dom and wore nothing but a leashed collar and jockstrap at Folsom.
Amen!That would be awesome being led by the balls