To be seen

[delphi604]

Is exhibitionism a critical part of the bdsm thrill for submissives?

 

[Submissivepat]

It is for me!

 

[Britva415]

Is exhibitionism a critical part of the bdsm thrill for submissives?

All of them?

 

[delphi604]

I should have said "can.....be part of the thrill for some submissives?"
..

 

[Ash999]

Is exhibitionism a critical part of the bdsm thrill for submissives?

Different Strokes for Different Folks: but generally to be publicly humiliated is on the bucket list of many Subs!!?

 

[shesubmits]

no not always, but knowing my partner wants me to be seen and makes that decision for me and i submit to it, that's what makes it exciting for me. hiding it away can also be sexy.

 

[9to5]

I do think sometimes it can be exciting, if its with other subs in a group or being shown off to other doms. I did see a Mistress once and after she got my cock on a leash she told me she would like to take me around to some of her friends like this. I thought that would be great. I wish she had done it that day

 

[NateGrey]

I don't think it's for all submissives, but it can certainly be thrilling.

I do think sometimes it can be exciting, if its with other subs in a group or being shown off to other doms. I did see a Mistress once and after she got my cock on a leash she told me she would like to take me around to some of her friends like this. I thought that would be great. I wish she had done it that day

I was actually paraded like that recently. She had some of the other girls spank me as well. Hot AF.

 

[9to5]

I don't think it's for all submissives, but it can certainly be thrilling.


I was actually paraded like that recently. She had some of the other girls spank me as well. Hot AF.

yes that would be hot, to be paraded around like that, I would so love for that

 

[Dirtyoldbob]

The idea really appeals to me, but I would think its not critical for a lot of people. I had a couple of CFNM experiences as a young man that has led it to become one of my favourite fetish genres.
To be made to strip naked in front of a clothed group forms the basis of many of my fantasies.

 

[switchersm]

Yes, exposed to others, me nude with cock cage, is definitely a big thril for me.

 

[MaturemanAJ]

A friend was definitely into the thrill at least of a chance of being seen but she was also the type to sit at a bar with me and lay her tits on the bar rail.
We would talk on the phone and I would tell her to suction cup her dildo to the sliding door glass and ride it.
Another one wanted it to be totally private.
Everyone has their own fantasies

 

[AG31]

The idea really appeals to me, but I would think its not critical for a lot of people. I had a couple of CFNM experiences as a young man that has led it to become one of my favourite fetish genres.
To be made to strip naked in front of a clothed group forms the basis of many of my fantasies.

So I went right off to read some of your fantasies and found that you hadn't written anything. Ever thought about writing them down?

 

[Dirtyoldbob]

Thank you for your comment, I don't actually, but I love reading others. There is something about written erotica that reaches parts that other mediums don't.
I fear that my grammar and punctuation is not up to the standard that you read on here.

 

[apom]

For me it's about exposure, vulnerability and people seeing the dirty little slut that I am.

 

[9to5]

For me it's about exposure, vulnerability and people seeing the dirty little slut that I am.

thats the fun part. depends on what people will see and who

 

[apom]

depends on what people will see

I'll never tell...

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Yes, for some. Not for all. BDSM is an extensive continuum of kinks and desires and soft limits and hard limits. Consent is key - including the consent of the general public. Don’t force people to witness sex play if they didn’t consent to witness it.

 

[9to5]

I'll never tell...

you dont have to tell just show

 

[NateGrey]

Off-topic, but the disadvantages of having a very associative mind: whenever I get an alert about this thread, I'm now thinking of the Monty Python sketch "How not to be seen"...

 

[AG31]

Thank you for your comment, I don't actually, but I love reading others. There is something about written erotica that reaches parts that other mediums don't.
I fear that my grammar and punctuation is not up to the standard that you read on here.

If that's truly all that's holding you back, DM me your story and I'll copy edit it.

 

[Boat1]

Thank you for your comment, I don't actually, but I love reading others. There is something about written erotica that reaches parts that other mediums don't.
I fear that my grammar and punctuation is not up to the standard that you read on here.

Don't let that stop you... I don't think there's too many grammar nazis here, but if there are, F'k 'em!

 

[Boat1]

Is exhibitionism a critical part of the bdsm thrill for submissives?

I never would've imagined that it was, until I saw the thrill and mischievous satisfaction on my Lovely Wife Domme's face as She was whipping my slave cock, while caught up in a thick traffic jam.... Now I crave it to the point that I gladly let Her whip me on the town square or run me up a flagpole, naked and spread-eagle...
IOW, anything that is pleasing to Her, is absolutely intoxicating and thrilling to me!

 

[Erosfan]

Is exhibitionism a critical part of the bdsm thrill for submissives?

It is for me! I love CFNM scenarios.

 

[Erosfan]

The idea really appeals to me, but I would think its not critical for a lot of people. I had a couple of CFNM experiences as a young man that has led it to become one of my favourite fetish genres.
To be made to strip naked in front of a clothed group forms the basis of many of my fantasies.

I'm right there with you. This is a common thought of mine when I have CFNM fantasies, to be stripped or made to strip for a select group of my lady's friends.