How many dirty fantasies have you revealed in your relationship(s)?

[Justtina]

I definitely don't tell my husband all mine lol

 

[MasterDarcy]

I always reveal everything.

Active honesty is a big thing for me. I don't believe in keeping anything secret.

I'd ideally want to delve into my fantasies in a relationship, so why hide them.

 

[Subs2men]

With my first dom, I told him everything that I was willing to do and he was happy to provide all of it and more. I got lucky with him. The few years that I was seeing him were amazing. Definitely a few times that I "bit off more than I could chew", so to speak, but it was worth it.

 

[Easypeter]

I definitely don't tell my husband all mine lol

You’d love it if you started hinting around to the things you’d like to do to your husband and he might fall deeper in love knowing he’s married to a hottie !

 

[amx99]

I had the pleasure of dating a mistress. so I confessed everything

 

[Oralexplorer]

I definitely don't tell my husband all mine lol

But surely you can tell us

 

[devakama469]

I always reveal everything.

Active honesty is a big thing for me. I don't believe in keeping anything secret.

I'd ideally want to delve into my fantasies in a relationship, so why hide them.

100% my position! Nothing better than feeling free to share and openly express your most cherished fantasies with someone who's supposed to be there to support you and help you achieve your dreams and goals!

Why should our sexual pursuits be exempt from that? And yes, of course, I firmly believe that river should flow both ways!

 

[MasterDarcy]

100% my position! Nothing better than feeling free to share and openly express your most cherished fantasies with someone who's supposed to be there to support you and help you achieve your dreams and goals!

Why should our sexual pursuits be exempt from that? And yes, of course, I firmly believe that river should flow both ways!

Exactly. Sharing absolutely everything and leaving now secrets is a fundamental part of a strong, healthy and a happy relationship

Plus, ideally your partner will share your kinks.

 

[amx99]

well only my foot fetish . and not all of it

 

[zcraft5]

And how much is exactly left that you keep hidden away? Do you think D/s leads to more openness and honesty, or is that just delusional hubris? Do submissives or dominants worry less about scaring their partner away compared to vanilla couples?

not many

 

[slavejason]

I’ve revealed a few(the tamer, less judging ones) to my wife, the ones we actually tried were very much in the minority, we’ve been sexless for just over a year so no point telling her anymore.

 

[OralAllOver]

All my attention and sexual energy MUST be focused on her
And none of my fantasies are
So ....

 

[NinaSloane]

well only my foot fetish . and not all of it

As a bit of very relevant self-promotion.

I wrote a short erotic book with explicit scenes and a focus on feet.
Besides expressing my own foot kink, my goal was to normalize foot worship - to show it as something intimate and beautiful, not weird.
I’ve read a lot of Reddit threads on this topic, and it seems many men have a foot fetish, but their partners just tolerate it rather than genuinely enjoy it.
So here’s my sincere hope: maybe a woman will read my book, see foot fetish from a different (my) point of view - and actually enjoy it.
Which, of course, would make her man very happy

 

[slavejason]

As a bit of very relevant self-promotion.

I wrote a short erotic book with explicit scenes and a focus on feet.
Besides expressing my own foot kink, my goal was to normalize foot worship - to show it as something intimate and beautiful, not weird.
I’ve read a lot of Reddit threads on this topic, and it seems many men have a foot fetish, but their partners just tolerate it rather than genuinely enjoy it.
So here’s my sincere hope: maybe a woman will read my book, see foot fetish from a different (my) point of view - and actually enjoy it.
Which, of course, would make her man very happy

Hi Genuine question, is your foot kink performing or receiving foot worship?

 

[discjockey74]

Some dirty fantasies are just so dirty that you have to keep them to yourself.

 

[NinaSloane]

Hi Genuine question, is your foot kink performing or receiving foot worship?

Receiving. Though I don't feel obsessed like some men are, still, I enjoy it a lot. Moreover, in different ways: it may make me feel powerful or wanted and loved, depends on the mood - mine and partner's.

 

[slavejason]

Receiving. Though I don't feel obsessed like some men are, still, I enjoy it a lot. Moreover, in different ways: it may make me feel powerful or wanted and loved, depends on the mood - mine and partner's.

I see, for some reason it always struck me that the kink was in performing foot worship, so personally it is interesting to hear from someone who enjoys receiving as well.

 

[NinaSloane]

I see, for some reason it always struck me that the kink was in performing foot worship, so personally it is interesting to hear from someone who enjoys receiving as well.

Well yeah, performing it definitely much more kinky than receiving. But technically receiving is a kink too

 

[Crownvic]

My foot obsession for her has created many kinks,

 

[NinaSloane]

My foot obsession for her has created many kinks,

Does she accept your foot kink?

 

[newhere2learn]

Varies for me, based upon how the relationship....

Ex GF at university, knew how much foreplay and edging her turned me on.

Ex wife, knew ass toys did it for me.

Partner after divorce, over time we built up to extended oral, footjobs, toys.

Fling last year, dominance

 

[Samantha47]

Do you think that, if you meet someone through Lit, it is easier to share your fantasies and desires?

Yes

 

[Crownvic]

Yes

Sometimes it happens..

 

[Samantha47]

Sometimes it happens..

True honey

 

[ChuckWolf]

Recently had some fun and sexy but casual talk with two women in the hot tub of my gym, exchanging kinks and fantasies.

In the back of my mind, I worry that they'll teasingly bring up my submissiveness kinks up in mixed company, but that'd also be kind of a turn on too, so...