Cheating wife?

[jimmyturtleman]

So I know a lot of guys on here fantasize about their gf or wife cheating on them.
But a lot of these guys are straight.
What’s the thrill of your girl cheating on you? Is it the humiliation? The sexy personal porn? Or something else entirely?
Hotwifing, cuckolding, and other words are also thrown around

I would say, that in most cases, it is not a conscious choice that we make, as to what excites us, and what doesn't. Why do we like cherries better than strawberries? Why is green our favorite color, not orange? Some things just fit better than others.

Things like having your spouse cheat on you are probably much more complex than we can verbalize here, but some of us get really excited about it. Can I sit here and write a list of reasons why? I really can't. All I can say for certain is that there are numerous things about my wife going on a date with her ex H.S. boyfriend, that excite me, I just couldn't list them all.

There is a little bit of the humiliation factor, that my wife has been with another man having sex, and then there is a whole lot of happiness that she has been pleasured, the way she needs, and deserves to be.

 

[TonyF862]

I would say, that in most cases, it is not a conscious choice that we make, as to what excites us, and what doesn't. Why do we like cherries better than strawberries? Why is green our favorite color, not orange? Some things just fit better than others.

Things like having your spouse cheat on you are probably much more complex than we can verbalize here, but some of us get really excited about it. Can I sit here and write a list of reasons why? I really can't. All I can say for certain is that there are numerous things about my wife going on a date with her ex H.S. boyfriend, that excite me, I just couldn't list them all.

There is a little bit of the humiliation factor, that my wife has been with another man having sex, and then there is a whole lot of happiness that she has been pleasured, the way she needs, and deserves to be.

Well said…

 

[MTM1964X]

So I know a lot of guys on here fantasize about their gf or wife cheating on them.
But a lot of these guys are straight.
What’s the thrill of your girl cheating on you? Is it the humiliation? The sexy personal porn? Or something else entirely?
Hotwifing, cuckolding, and other words are also thrown around

The humiliation finding out about it and masturbating to it.

 

[SexyAruna]

Who wants a cheating wife role play? Dm me

 

[tericloth]

would love it if your cheating with me!

xoxo Teri

 

[Ed_Sumner]

I would say, that in most cases, it is not a conscious choice that we make, as to what excites us, and what doesn't. Why do we like cherries better than strawberries? Why is green our favorite color, not orange? Some things just fit better than others.

Things like having your spouse cheat on you are probably much more complex than we can verbalize here, but some of us get really excited about it. Can I sit here and write a list of reasons why? I really can't. All I can say for certain is that there are numerous things about my wife going on a date with her ex H.S. boyfriend, that excite me, I just couldn't list them all.

There is a little bit of the humiliation factor, that my wife has been with another man having sex, and then there is a whole lot of happiness that she has been pleasured, the way she needs, and deserves to be.

I actually *can* write a list of reasons why I get off so hard to my wife's past rampant cheating with her hung single coworker.

 

[LisaMayTurner]

Lots of guys just copy what they see in porn movies. Few would enjoy it in real life, but a few would I think. My ex used to enjoy it simply because it was an extension of his love for porn. When we talked about it afterwards his thoughts were incredibly shallow and sometimes really basic and crude. It was lovely that he got off on it, but it wasn't anything complex to his mind. Indeed, about it was about as complex as burping after too much beer and food. Now, why I used to enjoy it was completely and utterly different. I still have wonderful memories and terrific fantasies about the whole wicked and naughty thing.

 

[Ed_Sumner]

Did you have one affair while married, or multiple flings?

 

[liqueur]

Lots of guys just copy what they see in porn movies. Few would enjoy it in real life, but a few would I think.

This is so, so true. We live in s culture where real life follows fiction, and the sexual lives of so many seem to be dictated by porn.

My ex used to enjoy it simply because it was an extension of his love for porn. .. it was about as complex as burping after too much beer

Perfect analogy.

 

[LeeKee]

Lots of guys just copy what they see in porn movies. Few would enjoy it in real life, but a few would I think. My ex used to enjoy it simply because it was an extension of his love for porn. When we talked about it afterwards his thoughts were incredibly shallow and sometimes really basic and crude. It was lovely that he got off on it, but it wasn't anything complex to his mind. Indeed, about it was about as complex as burping after too much beer and food. Now, why I used to enjoy it was completely and utterly different. I still have wonderful memories and terrific fantasies about the whole wicked and naughty thing.

For people who get aroused by their wofe cheating, well, not all of those people, It actually hurts alot more than stated here. Believe me, the sleepless nights, the gaslighting, the lies, the pain of watching her become someone else to you ,and the best of herself for someone else is painful. The greystone persona around you, but dressing up and smiling for someone else.
When a woman sees her man do this, she is considered a victim.
When a woman does it the husband is called jealous. Im not jealous. Ive been robbed. Robbed of our happy home, our sanctity, our trust of each other, robbed of her time, her attention, her affection. Making her lie to me for your sake destroys trust. The thief of what was part of my life was jealous and chose to steal.
And for her, she gave away what I earned. This clown gets away with none of the work, none of the commitments, none of the responsibilities. And tried to claim being more of a man when she is saving your life by hiding you from me.

I see and think of it that way.

Its weak, cowardly shit on his part and selfish shit behavior on hers.

If she was more open about it shed be surprised how open minded id be if its just sex. But when you factor in the lying and breech of trust, its not as simple as that anymore. Its much more evil.

But my two cents.

 

[Mike130]

Lots of guys just copy what they see in porn movies. Few would enjoy it in real life, but a few would I think. My ex used to enjoy it simply because it was an extension of his love for porn. When we talked about it afterwards his thoughts were incredibly shallow and sometimes really basic and crude. It was lovely that he got off on it, but it wasn't anything complex to his mind. Indeed, about it was about as complex as burping after too much beer and food. Now, why I used to enjoy it was completely and utterly different. I still have wonderful memories and terrific fantasies about the whole wicked and naughty thing.

I would agree, it’s a complex issue with conflicting emotions involved. At first jealousy and a feeling of inadequacy. But maybe as the initial feelings subside, or the guy begins to think more maturely, the validation that his woman is sexy. Watching her with another guy to see what excites her. A glimpse of what she was like with other lovers before she met you. Or maybe you want to see the woman you love be completely satisfied and happy, sexually. Almost as a gift to her.

Perhaps these are rationalizations, but it doesn’t explain the joy a husband gets from licking her lover’s cream out of her pussy, or the fact that the husband may be stroking his very hard cock while watching his wife with another lover.

To me it comes down to the fact that if it’s purely physical, it’s sexy. If there is emotional attachment to her lover, that’s a different story. As long as you understand the difference between love and lust and are honest with each other (not hiding an affair), I think it can be an exciting kink.

 

[Ed_Sumner]

Yes, super complex for me. My wife has had an intense, years-long sexual relationship with one specimen alpha male coworker that began with some emotional attachment, but that soon faded once she realized he was an incorrigible player. The sex was epic so she kept going back for more, over and over. She also had a true affair with another colleague, with strong feelings, that lasted about 18 months and ended years ago. For me the most important factor is that her emotional entanglements are well in the past and she's fully re-committed to me and our relationship while still enjoying occasional fantastic sex with her hung colleague.

 

[lc69hunter]

For people who get aroused by their wofe cheating, well, not all of those people, It actually hurts alot more than stated here. Believe me, the sleepless nights, the gaslighting, the lies, the pain of watching her become someone else to you ,and the best of herself for someone else is painful. The greystone persona around you, but dressing up and smiling for someone else.
When a woman sees her man do this, she is considered a victim.
When a woman does it the husband is called jealous. Im not jealous. Ive been robbed. Robbed of our happy home, our sanctity, our trust of each other, robbed of her time, her attention, her affection. Making her lie to me for your sake destroys trust. The thief of what was part of my life was jealous and chose to steal.
And for her, she gave away what I earned. This clown gets away with none of the work, none of the commitments, none of the responsibilities. And tried to claim being more of a man when she is saving your life by hiding you from me.

I see and think of it that way.

Its weak, cowardly shit on his part and selfish shit behavior on hers.

If she was more open about it shed be surprised how open minded id be if its just sex. But when you factor in the lying and breech of trust, its not as simple as that anymore. Its much more evil.

But my two cents.

I understand what you are saying. However, that is not what this thread is actually about. What you are describing is not really cuckolding or even cheating. It is about losing your wife to anther man, and that can rip your heart out. Most cheating just involves getting some strange on the side. No harm, no foul. Women have opportunity, and generally higher libidos than their spouses. I have been with many married women over the years, and unless it is a consensual event, women never even consider the word or the deed as cuckolding. It is just getting some on the side

 

[MerWilh]

Lots of guys just copy what they see in porn movies. Few would enjoy it in real life, but a few would I think. My ex used to enjoy it simply because it was an extension of his love for porn. When we talked about it afterwards his thoughts were incredibly shallow and sometimes really basic and crude. It was lovely that he got off on it, but it wasn't anything complex to his mind. Indeed, about it was about as complex as burping after too much beer and food. Now, why I used to enjoy it was completely and utterly different. I still have wonderful memories and terrific fantasies about the whole wicked and naughty thing.

I agree to what you wrote. On a depth scale, most men I know are very shallow when it comes to this subject. Their knowledge is based on what they saw in porn.
I consider myself fortunate because I had 4 women in my life that were great teachers.
That said, if the woman I'm with are honest and open about wanting to have other lovers on the side, it's a great turn on. If she is cheating without my knowledge behind my back, it's a rule breaker.

 

[LisaMayTurner]

I would agree, it’s a complex issue with conflicting emotions involved. At first jealousy and a feeling of inadequacy. But maybe as the initial feelings subside, or the guy begins to think more maturely, the validation that his woman is sexy. Watching her with another guy to see what excites her. A glimpse of what she was like with other lovers before she met you. Or maybe you want to see the woman you love be completely satisfied and happy, sexually. Almost as a gift to her.

Perhaps these are rationalizations, but it doesn’t explain the joy a husband gets from licking her lover’s cream out of her pussy, or the fact that the husband may be stroking his very hard cock while watching his wife with another lover.

To me it comes down to the fact that if it’s purely physical, it’s sexy. If there is emotional attachment to her lover, that’s a different story. As long as you understand the difference between love and lust and are honest with each other (not hiding an affair), I think it can be an exciting kink.

Some sensitive and sexy guys are around!

 

[HotwifeBrooksideKC]

We don’t play a lot and it’s always happened organically. We don’t see up dates. I get drunk, and horny, and we play certain games to get a guy to give me his number and if it goes further, it goes further. There are multiple fetishes involved. I like to look sexy and be desired and he allows it from time to time

 

[Kolejdayz]

We don’t play a lot and it’s always happened organically. We don’t see up dates. I get drunk, and horny, and we play certain games to get a guy to give me his number and if it goes further, it goes further. There are multiple fetishes involved. I like to look sexy and be desired and he allows it from time to time

What do you do to make yourself look sexy?

 

[Nellie60]

I would agree, it’s a complex issue with conflicting emotions involved. At first jealousy and a feeling of inadequacy. But maybe as the initial feelings subside, or the guy begins to think more maturely, the validation that his woman is sexy. Watching her with another guy to see what excites her. A glimpse of what she was like with other lovers before she met you. Or maybe you want to see the woman you love be completely satisfied and happy, sexually. Almost as a gift to her.

Perhaps these are rationalizations, but it doesn’t explain the joy a husband gets from licking her lover’s cream out of her pussy, or the fact that the husband may be stroking his very hard cock while watching his wife with another lover.

To me it comes down to the fact that if it’s purely physical, it’s sexy. If there is emotional attachment to her lover, that’s a different story. As long as you understand the difference between love and lust and are honest with each other (not hiding an affair), I think it can be an exciting kink.

When I allowed my ex girlfriend years ago perform an act on a stranger, it was no doubt lust on my part. It was a validation that men were very much attracted to her.

She was attractive. I didn't need to validate that.
But I desired to see a stranger get so overwhelmed by her, to enjoy her and experience what I had. I wasn't into any cuckolding, just needed see her with someone different and to get the impression of what she was like with past lovers.

And I was able to see her own lustful reactions to someone different. She did hold back. The experience was unforgettable and forged a closer bond between us at the time.

 

[Kolejdayz]

Yes I understand completely. I went for the very attractive types and then wanted to see them with other guys and hear about all the other guys before I fucked them. I was always went for a certain type in looks and clothes too

 

[HotwifeBrooksideKC]

What do you do to make yourself look sexy?

Lots of lace, body suits with skirts, sexy lingerie for confidence

 

[HotwifeBrooksideKC]

Lots of lace, body suits with skirts, sexy lingerie for confidence

Cowboy boots

 

[Happyfun1]

Lots of lace, body suits with skirts, sexy lingerie for confidence

Love it when a woman looks hot and sexy and loves to be desired, its so sexy

 

[Kolejdayz]

Lots of lace, body suits with skirts, sexy lingerie for confidence

Cowboy boots

Tell me more about those skirts if you want to excite me

 

[HotwifeBrooksideKC]

White body suit, ample breasts, fit, tall, brunette, ripped up denim short skirt, cowboy boots

 

[HotwifeBrooksideKC]

I’ve got a bunch lol