TryingTooHard
Bi-MWM
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Every good discussion thread we have here, someone tries to shut it down by flooding it with irrelevant porn links. These have nothing to do with the OP.
Well for sure, there are plenty of threads where porn links are welcome and appropriate. But too many times, a thread that's trying to have a genuine conversation about a sex- or kink-related issue suddenly gets flooded with porn links, and then the conversation is just shut down.I like the links
You know, something's bothered me about this thread ever since I joined it, and I finally figured out what it is (I'm slow sometimes). It's nothing to do with the posts, it's the thread title. “Giving your wife...” — it implies the wife has no agency, as if she's some possession to be handed off at will.
What I admire is exactly opposite: the wife who knows she's nobody's possession, and makes sure you know it too. The woman who takes what she wants, when she wants, where she wants. And tells you if you don't like it, you can go sit on it.
I never doubt my wife's devotion to me, and we are both super jazzed about our sex life, which is better than ever.
I am, technically, a cuckold. I love it and am turned on by the thought and reality of my spectacular, sexy wife fucking other men. She now loves it too, though it's not something that happens every week.
I know some guys with perfect average (or larger!) dicks enjoy SPH, but it would just be too silly in our relationship. I would not say I'm into humiliation in a big way, but over time, my wife has figured out that it does get me off sometimes to say things like, "I don't even think about you when I'm fucking him," or "He's better than you," or even, "I don't need you or your cock any more."
It works for both of us because we are so incredibly solid, and she really has no cause to complain about my endowment, performance, energy, etc.
But I sometimes think it might be a bit cathartic for her. We've been together 30 years and there have been ups and downs. Perhaps psychologically it's a turn-on to "punish" me for all my (many) unskillful behaviors over that time (which isn't to say she doesn't have her share).
I have no idea about this, and probably won't ever ask, even though I find it intriguing.
But bottom line for us is, the kind of verbal "humiliation" that gets us off is only possible because we are deeply in love and therefore do not feel threatened by it.
Every good discussion thread we have here, someone tries to shut it down by flooding it with irrelevant porn links. These have nothing to do with the OP.
Very hot ... minus the cage!
Lucky friend. And husband.