Cuckoldry and humiliation: a thread for women as well as men

later in life some women want alot more than the man can offer if they want a lot of penetration. Joys of growing old, and constantly being shown images of hot young women (see ads, movies, and TV).
 
Some food for your Sunday thoughts: I posted this in the thread “Giving or Sending Your Wife to Another Man”
You know, something's bothered me about this thread ever since I joined it, and I finally figured out what it is (I'm slow sometimes). It's nothing to do with the posts, it's the thread title. “Giving your wife...” — it implies the wife has no agency, as if she's some possession to be handed off at will.

What I admire is exactly opposite: the wife who knows she's nobody's possession, and makes sure you know it too. The woman who takes what she wants, when she wants, where she wants. And tells you if you don't like it, you can go sit on it.
 
I have a very small dick and I tried to have anal sex, but it was so small I could not get it in. I could only rub the head against the hole. My wife was laughing the whole time and he kept calling me baby dick. Very embarrassing, but I shot my load on his butt hole. My wife had me lick him clean.
 
Not been the biggest fan of cuckolding porn. Partly because I find the theme kind of misogynistic the way it’s often written. The idea that a woman would abandon or betray her happy marriage and her children for the sake of a man that treats her horribly just because he has a big dick. Not to kinky shame but it’s rather insulting to women

However, the times I’ve enjoy the theme was more when the woman wasn’t a ‘victim.’ Say, a woman is willingly having an affair to get revenge on an abuse of neglectful pattern. Not that she’s now a dom. She can still be a submissive to some other man, but at least it’s more of an active choice. Not a victim of some a-hole’s ‘corruption.’
  • One story I read about a woman getting revenge on her frequently cheating husband by tying him up and forced to watch as she gets fucked by two younger men.
  • A story of a mature woman whose husband always refuses to fulfill her fantasy to eat her out after a creampie. So, she finds herself a younger man who’s very happy to do that for her.
  • Another story where a couple, the husband having a fetish for humiliation, finds a guy on a fetish dating site to meet them at a hotel. People on the app don’t use real names and not many show faces. They’ve done this before, but all parties are shocked when the hung, younger man shows up turns out to be their 23yo son.
 
I unexpectedly was humiliated in an elevator. It’s crazy, but I was okay with it right up until I busted my nut later that evening. Then suddenly I realized I didn’t want anymore of it.
 
I never doubt my wife's devotion to me, and we are both super jazzed about our sex life, which is better than ever.

I am, technically, a cuckold. I love it and am turned on by the thought and reality of my spectacular, sexy wife fucking other men. She now loves it too, though it's not something that happens every week.

I know some guys with perfect average (or larger!) dicks enjoy SPH, but it would just be too silly in our relationship. I would not say I'm into humiliation in a big way, but over time, my wife has figured out that it does get me off sometimes to say things like, "I don't even think about you when I'm fucking him," or "He's better than you," or even, "I don't need you or your cock any more."

It works for both of us because we are so incredibly solid, and she really has no cause to complain about my endowment, performance, energy, etc.

But I sometimes think it might be a bit cathartic for her. We've been together 30 years and there have been ups and downs. Perhaps psychologically it's a turn-on to "punish" me for all my (many) unskillful behaviors over that time (which isn't to say she doesn't have her share).

I have no idea about this, and probably won't ever ask, even though I find it intriguing.

But bottom line for us is, the kind of verbal "humiliation" that gets us off is only possible because we are deeply in love and therefore do not feel threatened by it.
 
I never doubt my wife's devotion to me, and we are both super jazzed about our sex life, which is better than ever.

I am, technically, a cuckold. I love it and am turned on by the thought and reality of my spectacular, sexy wife fucking other men. She now loves it too, though it's not something that happens every week.

I know some guys with perfect average (or larger!) dicks enjoy SPH, but it would just be too silly in our relationship. I would not say I'm into humiliation in a big way, but over time, my wife has figured out that it does get me off sometimes to say things like, "I don't even think about you when I'm fucking him," or "He's better than you," or even, "I don't need you or your cock any more."

It works for both of us because we are so incredibly solid, and she really has no cause to complain about my endowment, performance, energy, etc.

But I sometimes think it might be a bit cathartic for her. We've been together 30 years and there have been ups and downs. Perhaps psychologically it's a turn-on to "punish" me for all my (many) unskillful behaviors over that time (which isn't to say she doesn't have her share).

I have no idea about this, and probably won't ever ask, even though I find it intriguing.

But bottom line for us is, the kind of verbal "humiliation" that gets us off is only possible because we are deeply in love and therefore do not feel threatened by it.
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I love being humiliated. My face pushed into a puddle of her urine.
On my hands and knees with my hands holding my ass cheeks apart begging to be pegged.
Being written on in lipstick.
Being called names.
Having her fart and laugh while I rim her.
Being called a useless hole while she throat fucks me with her strapon.
Licking my cum off the floor.
Being locked out of the house while dressed in pink panty hose.
Being dragged around the house with a leash on my balls.
Having her choose how I crossdress.
Begging while she whips me.
When she spits in my face and I have to wear it for hours.
When my balls are spanked until I am forced to relent from the pain.
When I have to admit, while watching porn that I would suck a cock only for her.
When I have to clean the bathroom while wearing a cock cage and pink panty hose.
 
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How do cucks view levels of humiliation compared to the arousal that occurs in a stag/vixen relationship?

I'd imagine the humiliation has two sides - physical and verbal. Seeing your woman holding, kissing another man versus being called microdick. Which is more common? Does having another man pump his seed in your wife humiliate you more than being told you're not good enough to fuck her for example? Clearly the ultimate humiliation is your wife being pregnant with another man's baby which, when born, will obviously not be yours, whereas in stag/vixen a pregnancy is clearly a risk of the "hobby" than an ultimate aim. How would you feel if she had intimate tattoos signifying your cuck relationship?
 
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