Women -- why do they cheat?
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lifeis2short2b
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NEWS FLASH ! Men "cheat" also.
You think you can narrow it down to one reason ? Everyone has a different story.
Why is straying demonized in society ? Can't you love someone as a partner in life and someone else as a sexual counterpart ? Sometimes you get both.
You think you can narrow it down to one reason ? Everyone has a different story.
Why is straying demonized in society ? Can't you love someone as a partner in life and someone else as a sexual counterpart ? Sometimes you get both.
Yes men cheat
Yes you can love someone as a partner for life and sleep with others
lifeis2short2b
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Sounds like your partner ( woman) strayed. Why else would you single women out then ?
She did, so did I.
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Monogamous relationships work for some and not others. Highly sexual people will never be satisfied with one partner in a long relationship.
I know people will disagree because there are people that think they are highly sexual and then there are hyper sexual people.
Just in the neighborhoods we have lived in through the years the one now is the first one that people were not straying with the neighbors and even here maybe they are as we are just older than most of our neighbors.
I know people will disagree because there are people that think they are highly sexual and then there are hyper sexual people.
Just in the neighborhoods we have lived in through the years the one now is the first one that people were not straying with the neighbors and even here maybe they are as we are just older than most of our neighbors.
It's natural and normal to stray from time to time
lots of reasons...
It could be because she's fallen out of love with her partner. Or, maybe she's insecure and needs sexual validation from someone other than a primary partner. ..Or, perhaps she's sexually bored with a partner she otherwise loves.. Or, maybe her relationship with her primary is terrific - including the sex - but she simply needs more than one sex partner to be truly sexually satisfied.
These reasons are the same for why cheat, really....
We are at an inflection point I believe when it comes to monogamy. ..We understand and support a man's right to love another man and we are beginning to believe and support those who say they were born with the wrong genitalia (ie., gender dysphoria), but we still demonize a person who says they need more than one sex partner to be happy. We tell those people that they're immoral and lack impulse control, even when there is no evidence of that in any other aspect of their life.
That will change, too. One day in the not so distant future, non-monogamy will be the norm and not an outlier behavior.
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lifeis2short2b
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I have no Idea why you posted this thread. Your answering your own questions.
Is there a reason why I need to explain why I posted this thread. I could just as easily ask you why you answered it. LOLI have no Idea why you posted this thread. Your answering your own questions.
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Oh I get it..... Your an ass !
That explains why she cheated.
Oh that must be why. I always wondered. Thanks for telling me.
My wife cheated for a combination of reasons: sexual boredom (with me), a strong libido, the rush of being wanted and pursued by other men, the many easy opportunities presented by frequent business travel, and one particular tall, good looking, fit, confident, charming single stud with a big cock and incredible skills with whom she experienced transcendent sex.
Yeah can happen easily with the right circumstances
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My wife did all of her cheating when we were dating in college and went to different universities. She was free to date others, but not have sex. She never intended to have sex, but on a date with an upperclassman, she was introduced to rum and Coke. Before she knew it, he was having sex with her. She liked it. She accepted drinks on the next date, and she had more sex. Before long, drinks weren't needed; she was going to fuck. After two and a half years, we decided that she would stop dating others. She stopped, and she never cheated again..
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I suspected it happened. I found hickeys on her boobs, but she said she was just making out with them. After we married, she confessed that she had sex at least once a week before she stopped. Once she accepted my fraternity pin and agreed to stop dating, she never had another date with another man. At least, not until we agreed she could do it in our 30's.
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I had transcendent sex once. But I stopped when I seen her dick.
lifeis2short2b
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Why thank you Ed !
I believe most women cheat because their sexual needs are not being met by their significant other. They and they seem realize it will be easy because most husbands are clueless.
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Silly question...ask what would make you cheat. Genitalia makes no difference.
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Because they do. I went on a date with a mom…of course whom told me she was engaged 3x’s and cheated on all 3. Lost interest. What is to say she wouldn’t do that to me?
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She could be your ideal partner, should you decide you want to have an open relationship. You just have to be willing to let her enjoy the things you want...then it's not cheating. It's just the rules for your relationship.
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Don’t need that shit. One woman is enough for me. I had my fun.
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It's good you know what you want from a partner. Nevertheless, honesty, openess and willingness to engage her without condemnation is key towards heading off cheating...you know this I'm sure but it never hurts to hear it.