Do women lie about their number of sexual partners?

[Pavlovsdog6862]

Over and over lol and I was like you know I was on an aircraft carrier? 6000plus guys

 

[Pavlovsdog6862]

lol that sounds good to you?? No wonder all the women greeting us at port of calls

 

[ericalauren]

I’m not a woman but considering how much female sexuality is still shamed, it’s not surprising that a girl or a woman would lie about how many sexual partners they have had.

 

[Beth_Anne90]

lol that sounds good to you?? No wonder all the women greeting us at port of calls

Get in line sailors!!

 

[pinkparkhorse]

I never lie about it but I’ve sort of lost count somewhere along the way.

 

[Kolejdayz]

Perhaps there is an opportunity missed for guys here -- Tell him the truth or exaggerate and it may turn him on

 

[magicalmoments]

I’ve had a few female friends tell me they lied about the number of partners to their significant others. I think the reasoning was fear of judgement (and why would you be with that guy?) and also because I believe the vast majority of men are sexually insecure. I think men that are insistent on a low number of partners for any prospective woman they would date are insecure about their own sexual performance and ability to sexually please a woman. The fewer partners she has had the less likely that guy is to suffer by comparison. Weak.

This... Exactly.

I reckon you can multiply whatever number they give by 5. If she says there were 3 before you then you can bet the true number was more likely 15.

 

[LexiVegas]

Do women lie about their number of sexual partners because they don't want to admit just how many or because they think their boyfriends will be turned on when they find out the truth?

Yes of course.

 

[Britva415]

I would never ask.

 

[EmmAgain]

I think most women do, unfortunately. There’s still this annoying double standard where women’s sexuality is frowned on while promiscuous men are gallivanting studs sowing their wild oats etc etc.

There’s a lot of gray, too. Like, does a BJ add to your digits? Does it count as a half? A third? I was making out with boys well before I popped my cherry - but I still consider the boy who finally got his dick into me, however ineptly, to be my ‘first’.

Hubby and I have avoided the numbers game. (Though I do know I was his #4!) He knows that I was promiscuous in my earlier years. He knows that I did a year making content for Privacy in Argentina. And he knows about my OnlyFans - particularly seeing that he helped me create and promote content!

But he absolutely doesn’t want a concrete number, and that’s how it is.

 

[hiker283]

My wife's number is around 12. I do not know if that is the actual number, but it is pretty close. I am fairly positive it is not less than that.

 

[Pavlovsdog6862]

If I’m a guy and I am lol the more she had the better if she picks me to marry

 

[Kolejdayz]

I think most women do, unfortunately. There’s still this annoying double standard where women’s sexuality is frowned on while promiscuous men are gallivanting studs sowing their wild oats etc etc.

There’s a lot of gray, too. Like, does a BJ add to your digits? Does it count as a half? A third? I was making out with boys well before I popped my cherry - but I still consider the boy who finally got his dick into me, however ineptly, to be my ‘first’.

Hubby and I have avoided the numbers game. (Though I do know I was his #4!) He knows that I was promiscuous in my earlier years. He knows that I did a year making content for Privacy in Argentina. And he knows about my OnlyFans - particularly seeing that he helped me create and promote content!

But he absolutely doesn’t want a concrete number, and that’s how it is.

I love a concrete number -- it's a real turn on for me no matter whether high or low. But then I have a degree in math. I would add "LOL" but I really do

 

[Kolejdayz]

Yes of course.

Which bit are you saying yes to

 

[gk6h]

I never lie about it but I’ve sort of lost count somewhere along the way.

At what point do you loose count

 

[paulboulder]

Again, what matters is they are there with you now. Whatever their past, they have chosen you now. I would never dream of asking...just tacky

 

[ALovelyNudist]

Of course they do. 100%

 

[kreemi_pi]

Do women lie about their number of sexual partners because they don't want to admit just how many or because they think their boyfriends will be turned on when they find out the truth?

Lie? No. But I might selectively miscount.

 

[jassybb]

Yes we do haha

 

[YourSecretDesires]

IME yes but I don't really care and never ask. Sometimes they try to volunteer the information but it doesn't matter to me because it will never be precise anyway.

 

[Kolejdayz]

Lie? No. But I might selectively miscount.

LOL. With some guys overcounting (me for instance) works too

 

[paulboulder]

I think most women do, unfortunately. There’s still this annoying double standard where women’s sexuality is frowned on while promiscuous men are gallivanting studs sowing their wild oats etc etc.

There’s a lot of gray, too. Like, does a BJ add to your digits? Does it count as a half? A third? I was making out with boys well before I popped my cherry - but I still consider the boy who finally got his dick into me, however ineptly, to be my ‘first’.

Hubby and I have avoided the numbers game. (Though I do know I was his #4!) He knows that I was promiscuous in my earlier years. He knows that I did a year making content for Privacy in Argentina. And he knows about my OnlyFans - particularly seeing that he helped me create and promote content!

But he absolutely doesn’t want a concrete number, and that’s how it is.

I suppose one could make an app that could do all the math for you. "OK, let's see, blow job, felt my tits, fingered me...equals 55% of another person on the body count."

 

[PierceDe]

In my mid-20's living in Asia I was paramour for 10 months to a married mom ten years my senior. She was sooooo popular with men. I asked her how many once, she told me she lost count. I asked her to tell me about just the last few before me, and she straight up named a couple dudes I knew through work. Another guy I knew once saw me in public with her, and then seeing me again without her came up and chatted, "That's your girl?" "Yeah." "So how's that?" "What'd'ya mean?" "She been around."

Yes, it's intimidating. At least then when I was like 25 and not nearly so prolific.

My wife on the other hand initially told me she had 3 boyfriends before me. I later asked to clarify, how many she had sex with. She said only 1 and he dumped her, the other 2 were just dates that went no where. I kind of believe her, the first time we had sex she had a very virginesque quality about her and said something VERY pure & romantic I can't imagine a more experienced woman ever saying, I'll never forget.

Yes I know that I can't know. But she's from a small orchard town where everyone knows what you eat for breakfast, and her repution was just that.. a prude shy girl who thought such-n-such would marry her but then he ditched and she was a solo nerd library girl until I came along.

 

[Wanderg]

I have been the fifth guy (so I’ve been told) for a lot of women I’ve been with, that is too much of a coincidence!

My wife and I shared a lot about our past before we dated. She told me about high school boyfriends, and she met her first husband at the end of her first year of college, but she was very coy about those months between high school and meeting her husband. She stopped short of saying she was a slut but I do think she slept with at least couple of guys which makes me more than #5, not that I care.

 

[Kolejdayz]

Oh yes, the mystical number 5. My first wife told me she had been with five guys -- but it grew a lot over the years