What is it with younger women liking older men?

I’m turning 37 this year. Feel better than ever and if I get the added perk of younger women hitting on me, I’m happy to get older
 
ok so i think its just more like primal and that makes it hotter for us..
like if we know him then we watch him be like "in charge" on a regular basis or whatever.
and because its kinda like "not the norm" yet you like WANT IT then it makes it insanely hot.
I like the way that you think, young lady…
 
In the last year, I’ve had at least 5 or 6 women in their late twenties to early thirties hit on me. It happened again today. Like, they openly hit on me. They didn’t hide it. Has it always been this way? I never remember younger women hitting on older men when I was younger. It just wasn’t a thing…that I know of.

I mean, I have gray stubble so I don’t look young at all. I always thought when I got this age, NO younger women would ever even look at me. I find it flattering but my mind is perplexed. It seems like something has shifted in the universe, lol. Are older men in style these days? What’s happening?
Do you look like you could be sugar-daddy material? What do you drive, how do you dress, how do you carry yourself?
 
They aren't necessarily hitting on you.

I hate to say it, but It may be that you are now so old that they are that they no longer see you as someone who is apt to hit on them just because they talk to you. So, they are nice to you in the way they are nice to their friends' parents.

But If you were closer to them in age, they'd likely be more guarded so their friendliness wouldn't be misconstrued. ..Which it seems to have been, anyway.
Maybe they’re ‘practicing’ their game on what they think are safe objects? (which is really stupidly risky and dangerous, have they never seen Criminal Minds??)

If we are misconstruing, as long as we don’t act on it or embarrass ourselves, where’s the harm in playing along?
 
Older men have always been more interesting to me, easier to talk to. Mainly due to maturity (although not always the case) and I’ve found usually more empathetic than younger men close to my own age. I’ve always had deeper connections with older men, felt a sense of security as well and tend to find them more attractive sexually as well.
Curious, when you say that your finding it easier to talk to older dudes is due to maturity but not always the case, do you mean that
1) you find out that they’re not as mature as you think in terms of emotional and social intelligence, or
2) the perception of maturity is not as influential on your decision to continue conversation,
3) or something else altogether?
 
where’s the harm in playing along?
The OP wasn't posing this as a premise for fictional erotic story. ..He seemed to be actually asking people their opinion. And my opinion is: When a twenty-something girl is nice to a sixty-something man, she's just being nice; it's NOT because she wants to fuck him. Sorry. ..But I can promise you that if she knew that's the assumption being made... well, she'd probably stop being nice to 60-somethings, which would be a shame.
 
ok so i think its just more like primal and that makes it hotter for us..
like if we know him then we watch him be like "in charge" on a regular basis or whatever.
and because its kinda like "not the norm" yet you like WANT IT then it makes it insanely hot.
love this
 
The OP wasn't posing this as a premise for fictional erotic story. ..He seemed to be actually asking people their opinion. And my opinion is: When a twenty-something girl is nice to a sixty-something man, she's just being nice; it's NOT because she wants to fuck him. Sorry. ..But I can promise you that if she knew that's the assumption being made... well, she'd probably stop being nice to 60-somethings, which would be a shame.
I don’t disagree in the least.
 
When a twenty-something girl is nice to a sixty-something man, she's just being nice; it's NOT because she wants to fuck him.
Well, that's why one has to be able to tell the difference between "just being nice" and "actual flirting/interest."

One also has to understand that they don't just show up wanting to fuck without having ever even talked to him. It always starts with them just being nice. But that doesn't mean they stay there. If they find that the old guy they're being nice to happens to be attractive and is interesting to flirt with, she can grow to want to fuck him.
 
Well, that's why one has to be able to tell the difference between "just being nice" and "actual flirting/interest."

One also has to understand that they don't just show up wanting to fuck without having ever even talked to him. It always starts with them just being nice. But that doesn't mean they stay there. If they find that the old guy they're being nice to happens to be attractive and is interesting to flirt with, she can grow to want to fuck him.
Sorry…But I remember when I was a 20-something - I remember it like it was yesterday. And I knew lots of girls back then. And none of them wanted to fuck sixty-year-olds. Sorry, just keeping it real.

Let’s stay in our lane fellas. 🤣
 
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I think it’s quite hilarious how many of you are naive enough to think your 60 year-old looks won’t matter to a 20 something. Meanwhile, it’s ONLY her looks that matter to you.
 
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Do you look like you could be sugar-daddy material? What do you drive, how do you dress, how do you carry yourself?
I’d say I have a unique style. I wear shorts to work and a t shirt. I wear hey dudes that are colorful, lol. I wear a trucker hat and white sun glasses. I don’t have a style that matches the norm. Maybe that’s what they like? I’m not sure
 
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Sorry…But I remember when I was a 20-something - I remember it like it was yesterday. And I knew lots of girls back then. And none of them wanted to fuck sixty-year-olds. Sorry, just keeping it real.

Let’s stay in our lane fellas. 🤣
It's different now. If you're hot, they don't care how much older you are. That is the reality.
 
It's different now. If you're hot, loaded, they don't care how much older you are. That is the reality.
Fixed it for you :D:sneaky:.

(Actually, not different now. Same old story. You remember Anna Nicole Smith and J. Howard Marshall, right?)
 
I’d say I have a unique style. I wear shorts to work and a t shirt. I wear hey dudes that are colorful, lol. I wear a trucker hat and white sun glasses. I don’t have a style that matches the norm. Maybe that’s what they like? I’m not sure
I love HeyDudes. I have two pairs.
 
i never came onto a man, but when he shows interest, i was a filthy flirt, letting it be known what i want. but... not having kids myself or interacting much on social, i have no idea what young women want these days. be careful... but enjoy them...
Being almost 60 I haven't been with a younger woman than 15 years and that's about my limit heading your "be careful"
 
Curious, when you say that your finding it easier to talk to older dudes is due to maturity but not always the case, do you mean that
1) you find out that they’re not as mature as you think in terms of emotional and social intelligence, or
2) the perception of maturity is not as influential on your decision to continue conversation,
3) or something else altogether?
I mean that it’s not always the case that older men are more mature! 8/10 times yes.

I also think that emotional intelligence is something that is hard to come by in social interactions in general, but especially harder with younger men more often than with older men and other women.

As an aside, I’ve heard recently from men I have met that they didn’t understand empathy until they were in their mid 20s. which is absolutely wild to me.
 
Like with most things, there are many reasons:

One reason is that older men are usually wiser, more worldly, smarter and more respectful than their younger male counterparts. Because of this, the elder male is viewed as a teacher and a guide to the younger female.

Girls do mature earlier than boys, so it's perfectly reasonable to assume that they are seeking a more mature and a more sophisticated companion.

Generally, younger men lack emotional maturity and intelligence.

Maturity and intelligence are prized virtues.

Of course, when talk like this comes up, minds immediately leap towards the "Daddy issues" route. Whilst that is definitely sometimes the case, that the younger woman is trying to fill in a hole (as it were), it's not always the case.
 
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