What is it with younger women liking older men?

I don’t like superficial people and mindless smalltalk. And it so happens that most guys I meet who are beyond that stage are older. Not all of them, though. So it’s not really about age but maturity for me. Chances are if you think you can “pull” me or “chat me up” you’re probably too immature for me.
 
When I was young, I thought Sheryl Crow was hot. She was probably 40 when I was 20, or something like that.

I think there’s a sweet spot of sexuality for everyone… but there’s something special about a person who still has sex appeal and a particular level of maturity - the 40-something smoke show. If you’re one of those “older” men or women who have that going on, you’re going to be practically fighting off advances. Legitimately sexy older-somethings are so much more interesting than their younger counterparts.
 
Not to be crass but if that’s you in your profile pic: that’s why they’re hitting one you.
I’m in the dating world right now at 37 years old and the dating pool of men who take care of themselves is limited. I recently had a fling with a 51 year old, smoke show of a man because he was smart, witty, fit, and smelled so good that I wanted to eat him up.
Older men who are well put together just do something to me. Every other guy in my age range dresses like Adam Sandler in the early 2000s. It’s not sexy.
I have to agree. Adidas00 is really buff and turns heads wherever he goes, especially if he is shirtless and in board shorts!
 
that sounds so nice. An older man is something I've thought about, if I get the nerve to talk to one lol.
Rather than summon up the courage to talk to one, get them to talk to you. I find a soft smile, a flick of hair, a flash of my undies, and a helpless look on my face because of an obstacle of some sort, usually does the trick.

They can’t help themselves, the protective instincts kick in, and before they know where they are, they are exercising their manliness, and you have them. It’s really worth it once they take up what I’m offering, particularly seeing the look in their eyes when they realise what’s about to happen.


Lucy.
 
Rather than summon up the courage to talk to one, get them to talk to you. I find a soft smile, a flick of hair, a flash of my undies, and a helpless look on my face because of an obstacle of some sort, usually does the trick.

They can’t help themselves, the protective instincts kick in, and before they know where they are, they are exercising their manliness, and you have them. It’s really worth it once they take up what I’m offering, particularly seeing the look in their eyes when they realise what’s about to happen.


Lucy.
a flash of your panties would make me want to take you over my knee and spank you
 
Rather than summon up the courage to talk to one, get them to talk to you. I find a soft smile, a flick of hair, a flash of my undies, and a helpless look on my face because of an obstacle of some sort, usually does the trick.

They can’t help themselves, the protective instincts kick in, and before they know where they are, they are exercising their manliness, and you have them. It’s really worth it once they take up what I’m offering, particularly seeing the look in their eyes when they realise what’s about to happen.


Lucy.
Well aren't you good at fishing
 
Rather than summon up the courage to talk to one, get them to talk to you. I find a soft smile, a flick of hair, a flash of my undies, and a helpless look on my face because of an obstacle of some sort, usually does the trick.

They can’t help themselves, the protective instincts kick in, and before they know where they are, they are exercising their manliness, and you have them. It’s really worth it once they take up what I’m offering, particularly seeing the look in their eyes when they realise what’s about to happen.


Lucy.

does that work on females too? :catroar:
 
Older men really know how to please a woman. I learned that early on. I was 20 and had the good fortune of having been with two men who were very much older than me. After that when I had sex with men my age, I found that they needed much more work on their technique and fumbled around quite a bit.
@lillybelle2000 I find the same about mature women! The mature ladies really know how to let loose and have fun.

And hence you see more and more age gap couples
 
Rather than summon up the courage to talk to one, get them to talk to you. I find a soft smile, a flick of hair, a flash of my undies, and a helpless look on my face because of an obstacle of some sort, usually does the trick.

They can’t help themselves, the protective instincts kick in, and before they know where they are, they are exercising their manliness, and you have them. It’s really worth it once they take up what I’m offering, particularly seeing the look in their eyes when they realise what’s about to happen.


Lucy.
We are twins! Exactly my experience with my old guy. The game changer for me was sitting on his lap to drink tea and watch tv. Soon his hands were exploring 😊
 
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In the last year, I’ve had at least 5 or 6 women in their late twenties to early thirties hit on me. It happened again today. Like, they openly hit on me. They didn’t hide it. Has it always been this way? I never remember younger women hitting on older men when I was younger. It just wasn’t a thing…that I know of.

I mean, I have gray stubble so I don’t look young at all. I always thought when I got this age, NO younger women would ever even look at me. I find it flattering but my mind is perplexed. It seems like something has shifted in the universe, lol. Are older men in style these days? What’s happening?
I've always had better luck and better connections with older men. Especially when it came to anything long-term or more serious in nature.
 
Rather than summon up the courage to talk to one, get them to talk to you. I find a soft smile, a flick of hair, a flash of my undies, and a helpless look on my face because of an obstacle of some sort, usually does the trick.

They can’t help themselves, the protective instincts kick in, and before they know where they are, they are exercising their manliness, and you have them. It’s really worth it once they take up what I’m offering, particularly seeing the look in their eyes when they realise what’s about to happen.


Lucy.
Well that’s melted me into a puddle… 😎
 
Rather than summon up the courage to talk to one, get them to talk to you. I find a soft smile, a flick of hair, a flash of my undies, and a helpless look on my face because of an obstacle of some sort, usually does the trick.

They can’t help themselves, the protective instincts kick in, and before they know where they are, they are exercising their manliness, and you have them. It’s really worth it once they take up what I’m offering, particularly seeing the look in their eyes when they realise what’s about to happen.


Lucy.
"They can't help themselves":ROFLMAO:..........we are easy for sure
 
i never came onto a man, but when he shows interest, i was a filthy flirt, letting it be known what i want. but... not having kids myself or interacting much on social, i have no idea what young women want these days. be careful... but enjoy them...
You seem to be fun at parties
 
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