Cock Talk

Lately, I find myself curious. Is that unusual? Do most people show their faces to their partner's when they play?

This question is tough for me.

The few people l've been vulnerable enough to share who I am with rarely want me in the ways I want them. And the ones who want me most, I hold at arm's length.

It was easier to justify why I used to be hesitant. I used to say it was because of the taboo nature of my posts, how explicit they were. And maybe that was true at the time. But that's not really the case anymore.

It's not about privacy or safety, as reckless or naive as that may be. It's insecurity. A resistance to being seen in ways that are harder to control.

A body is just a body. You can pose it, filter it, reshape it, smooth it. But a face, your real face, gives everything away. The eyes, of course, but more than that. Tiny flickers in the brow, the quiver of a cheek, the tension of a jaw. The kinds of tells you can't rehearse or perform.

After playing a role for so long, that kind of vulnerability feels far more dangerous than showing a little skin ever did.

My vajayjay is what I hold more sacred.

I’ve always called myself a bit of a vagina prude. It’s not that it’s special or anything… but it’s mine, y’know? And honestly, I think it could probably give more away than my face ever would 🤭
 
I don’t believe this. I think most people are good, just apathetic.
When push comes to shove, people show up. Sometimes the ones you least expect. 👍
It’s been weird the past couple years seeing who has shown up and put up and who has disappeared. Neither group had the people I would have expected. It has been educational.
 
It’s been weird the past couple years seeing who has shown up and put up and who has disappeared. Neither group had the people I would have expected. It has been educational.
Word. Knowing your situation and having gone through a few of my own in the same timeframe- my friend group has completely rearranged based on how people showed up for me when life punched me in the face.

A lot of this is relationship skills, and some people SUCK whilst others are pretty incredible
 
A body is just a body. You can pose it, filter it, reshape it, smooth it. But a face, your real face, gives everything away. The eyes, of course, but more than that. Tiny flickers in the brow, the quiver of a cheek, the tension of a jaw. The kinds of tells you can't rehearse or perform.
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I’ve always called myself a bit of a vagina prude. It’s not that it’s special or anything… but it’s mine, y’know? And honestly, I think it could probably give more away than my face ever would 🤭
Just saying, I’m in no way adverse to getting a secret lady garden in my inbox, but 99/100, if I’m really getting to know someone? I’d choose to see a face picture. Because of all the things you wrote above.

And don’t sell yourself short, your vagina is special. 👍🏻

(just for everyone’s clarification, I’ve not been privy to that locked chest of treasures, I’m just being supportive in general - everyone’s jiggly bits are special. Except for that guy that posted his shit on here, fuck him and his weird little dick)
 
Now see, a brother or two might have been beneficial. 🤣
Sometimes toxic masculinity gets a bad rap.
It's great now, but for a time as a teen I thought I'd need to be open to batting for the other team. Guys were terrified of approaching the big scary bully's little sister. It got better once I moved school districts, thank God social media wasn't a thing and that reputation couldn't follow me.
I wonder how many people put out false info in their profile.
For instance, and I usually don’t like being this open, but I don't really live in Bonertown, USA. 😉
You mean, there's not a city full of joyous erections for my viewing pleasure????
I’ve always called myself a bit of a vagina prude. It’s not that it’s special or anything… but it’s mine, y’know? And honestly, I think it could probably give more away than my face ever would 🤭
Your body is your own. No one here or anywhere is entitled to seeing it. I post pics, but neither my nipples, nor vajoozle, has graced this site. If others are comfy with it, more power to them, but don't let anyone make you feel less than just for maintaining your own standards.
Nosferatu
Best. Safe-word. Ever.
 
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