Cock Talk

[Endless_Night]

Oh, it can be worse than that. Someone used similar methods against an ex of mine and was able to find out where she worked. He then turned up there unannounced one day. She no longer has any social media presence at all as a result, and partly as a result of that incident and partly another incident that was even more serious, she had to change her address and phone number. She's basically a hermit.

I think most women either have experience of this or know someone that does. I certainly do. Multiples. It is a scary world.

And all the while, Hollywood pushes the trope to men that if she says "no", if the man pursues her hard enough she will eventually "see sense" and realise that he is her one twue wuv and she'll give in and marry the entitled, mentally deranged, twat.

This affects how women look at things, too. At some point, when everyone keeps making excuses for the guy, you start to wonder, if it is not, in fact, a problem with you.

 

[Endless_Night]

One of the few times my scary big brothers would come in handy, that's for sure. One brother has said he's "not afraid to go back to jail, if someone is trying fuck with you or the kids". It's a good feeling, having a now respectable, yet easily unhinged, scary person in my corner.

Now see, a brother or two might have been beneficial.

 

[hotwords229_A]

It's a good feeling, having a now respectable, yet easily unhinged, scary person in my corner.

Sometimes toxic masculinity gets a bad rap.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I also wonder, on a more serious note, how many have shared their face with someone they trusted, then the relationship went bad, and that person did a reverse image lookup only to discover Facebook, Instagram, etc. pics of you with your personal info?

This would be a good reason not to share.
On the other hand, everyone’s info is everywhere, so why hide it!

It’s a conundrum.

If I'm sharing my face/name, I'm aware that I could be found out. That doesn't freak me out. People in my real life who know me aren't going to be shocked to learn that I'm here.

 

[hotwords229_A]

If I'm sharing my face/name, I'm aware that I could be found out. That doesn't freak me out. People in my real life who know me aren't going to be shocked to learn that I'm here.

Also, everyone thinks you live in Australia!

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Also, everyone thinks you live in Australia!

True. Especially since I locked my profile down and the general public can't see my snarky notes

 

[Endless_Night]

True. Especially since I locked my profile down and the general public can't see my snarky notes

I am now wondering if I should lock mine down.

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

Back to utterly horrified.

My love of horror movies has distorted my way of thinking to always wonder the worst possible scenario.
Hopefully, this has kept me safe, but probably not.

It is horrifying to think what a crazy person might do, but I suppose the same could be said for someone just seeing you in the grocery store and following you home.

Sorry to make everyone terrified, but like a girlfriend of mine used to say “You’re only paranoid if someone isn’t following you.”

Imagine what happens when computers have dick, boobs and ass recognition!
Then we’re all screwed!

Yeah, by and large, people suck.

 

[Peter_Out]

I am now wondering if I should lock mine down.

Or you could just put shoes on.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Yeah, by and large, people suck.

I don’t believe this. I think most people are good, just apathetic.
When push comes to shove, people show up. Sometimes the ones you least expect.

 

[hotwords229_A]

True. Especially since I locked my profile down and the general public can't see my snarky notes

I wonder how many people put out false info in their profile.
For instance, and I usually don’t like being this open, but I don't really live in Bonertown, USA.

 

[Wand3rlust]

I wonder how many people put out false info in their profile.
For instance, and I usually don’t like being this open, but I don't really live in Bonertown, USA.

Now I can't believe anything is real.

Next you'll be telling me that you and @deefalttwunnyfor are different people...

 

[hotwords229_A]

Now I can't believe anything is real.

Next you'll be telling me that you and @deefalttwunnyfor are different people...

Different, yes. Similar carnal desires, yes.

 

[Apisto42]

I am now wondering if I should lock mine down.

It’s funny to think about you and @hotwords229_A locking everything down. What if you forget how to get in? Do you give each other a key? Like a friend fail safe email?

 

[Apisto42]

I wonder how many people put out false info in their profile.
For instance, and I usually don’t like being this open, but I don't really live in Bonertown, USA.

I wasn’t born in 1900 either.

 

[Endless_Night]

It’s funny to think about you and @hotwords229_A locking everything down. What if you forget how to get in? Do you give each other a key? Like a friend fail safe email?

Are you kidding? Like we would remember where we put each other's keys.

I wasn’t born in 1900 either.

Wait. What?!?!?!

 

[Wand3rlust]

Different, yes. Similar carnal desires, yes.

*makes notes*

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

I don’t believe this. I think most people are good, just apathetic.
When push comes to shove, people show up. Sometimes the ones you least expect.

I wish I shared your experience. But, I'm genuinely happy for you that you believe what you do.

 

[EvaLane]

Lately, I find myself curious. Is that unusual? Do most people show their faces to their partner's when they play?

This question is tough for me.

The few people l've been vulnerable enough to share who I am with rarely want me in the ways I want them. And the ones who want me most, I hold at arm's length.

It was easier to justify why I used to be hesitant. I used to say it was because of the taboo nature of my posts, how explicit they were. And maybe that was true at the time. But that's not really the case anymore.

It's not about privacy or safety, as reckless or naive as that may be. It's insecurity. A resistance to being seen in ways that are harder to control.

A body is just a body. You can pose it, filter it, reshape it, smooth it. But a face, your real face, gives everything away. The eyes, of course, but more than that. Tiny flickers in the brow, the quiver of a cheek, the tension of a jaw. The kinds of tells you can't rehearse or perform.

After playing a role for so long, that kind of vulnerability feels far more dangerous than showing a little skin ever did.

My vajayjay is what I hold more sacred.

I’ve always called myself a bit of a vagina prude. It’s not that it’s special or anything… but it’s mine, y’know? And honestly, I think it could probably give more away than my face ever would

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I don’t believe this. I think most people are good, just apathetic.
When push comes to shove, people show up. Sometimes the ones you least expect.

I concur.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

It’s funny to think about you and @hotwords229_A locking everything down. What if you forget how to get in? Do you give each other a key? Like a friend fail safe email?

Dibs on picking a safe word

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I wasn’t born in 1900 either.

Withdraws my attraction.
I was only chasing you for your perceived wisdom

 

[aussiegeekygal]

And honestly, I think it could probably give more away than my face ever would

Colour me intrigued

 

[Lord Pmann]

Colour me intrigued

Agreed. I’m gonna need to see Ms. @EvaLane and her vagina. My PM box is open to your box.

 

[Mei5ter]

I wonder how many people put out false info in their profile.

How very dare you. Every single thing in my profile is true!