Cock Talk

The dog (Duchess) was happy to be there. It wasn’t my dog, but a friend’s dog. I hadn’t been around the dog too much, so it wasn’t used to me. But my loving aura made it easy for animals to be in my presence.
Well! This explains so much. I was wondering how meticulous P, who showers twice a day and is punctilious when it comes to the question of dress, managed having one of those little dogs who are relentlessly insistent about sleeping in the bed with their people.

#mysterysolved

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So, random question. Sparked by the visual talk.

I do not show my face on Lit. Even when I play. Admittedly, play for me is something of a rarity, but . . . no.

There's a handful of people that have seen a few body shots. Nothing too risqué, but enough to get a general idea of my form, but no face.

Lately, I find myself curious. Is that unusual? Do most people show their faces to their partner's when they play?

(Define play how you like.)

I was going to say balls slathered with peanut butter, but you're probably right
Also, ewwwwwww. 🤢
 
So, random question. Sparked by the visual talk.

I do not show my face on Lit. Even when I play. Admittedly, play for me is something of a rarity, but . . . no.

There's a handful of people that have seen a few body shots. Nothing too risqué, but enough to get a general idea of my form, but no face.

Lately, I find myself curious. Is that unusual? Do most people show their faces to their partner's when they play?

(Define play how you like.)


Also, ewwwwwww. 🤢
I don't think it's unusual. I don't have a history of playing with any randos, so I only have a history of playing with people I've built trust with. I'm not the kind of guy that shows off to begin with, so I only share what is asked for. That said, so long as there is a little history and a lot of trust, yes, I show my face.
 
I like to know what someone looks like before I play. I don't know why, but it's a thing with me. But I don't play like others. I'm not one to do a video chat (with although there are a few people in my life that I would do that with if the circumstances were right) so I'm not looking at people in real time.

I fling nudes around and have some flirty texts, but that's about it.

Almost all my nudes obscure my face. Not all, though.
 
So, random question. Sparked by the visual talk.

I do not show my face on Lit. Even when I play. Admittedly, play for me is something of a rarity, but . . . no.

There's a handful of people that have seen a few body shots. Nothing too risqué, but enough to get a general idea of my form, but no face.

Lately, I find myself curious. Is that unusual? Do most people show their faces to their partner's when they play?

(Define play how you like.)


Also, ewwwwwww. 🤢
I’ve never posted my face on Lit, nor do I plan to.
I have posted Harrison Ford circa 1981 as Indiana Jones and said it was me.
Sorry if I misled anyone.
 
So, random question. Sparked by the visual talk.

I do not show my face on Lit. Even when I play. Admittedly, play for me is something of a rarity, but . . . no.

There's a handful of people that have seen a few body shots. Nothing too risqué, but enough to get a general idea of my form, but no face.

Lately, I find myself curious. Is that unusual? Do most people show their faces to their partner's when they play?

(Define play how you like.)


Also, ewwwwwww. 🤢
I was like that when I first started being active in the forums, but a lot has changed in two years.

I post pics fairly frequently in the chaos thread, and people I'm friendly on outside chat apps have definitely seen my face, if they missed me posting in the faces threads once in awhile. I'm not shy, and I don't want my playmate to be either.

My amigovio sees all of me, and vice versa. I'm so visual that I wouldnt enjoy it nearly as much if it were always only voice or chat. If that's all I wanted, they've got audio porn & Ai boyfriend apps for that. I want to see you from head to toe, enjoying yourself, which exponentially maximizes my own pleasure.
 
So, random question. Sparked by the visual talk.

I do not show my face on Lit. Even when I play. Admittedly, play for me is something of a rarity, but . . . no.

There's a handful of people that have seen a few body shots. Nothing too risqué, but enough to get a general idea of my form, but no face.

Lately, I find myself curious. Is that unusual? Do most people show their faces to their partners when they play?

(Define play how you like.)
I don't play casually on Lit, so I don't have a sense of what's considered usual here. My Lit person knows what I look like, but we've been together a fair while and known each other for years.

From my limited experience, having messed around on other sites in the past, I can say that none of my play partners before Lit saw my face. And they were fine with that, including people who became good friends and long term play partners.

For some people, seeing a play partner's face is what gives them the comfort level to play without inhibitions. For others, that comfort level comes from anonymity. While I'm Team Anonymity here, I'm not saying either is right or wrong - just that some people clearly expect one, while others clearly expect the other, and I'm not sure where they'd then find common ground.
 
So, random question. Sparked by the visual talk.

I do not show my face on Lit. Even when I play. Admittedly, play for me is something of a rarity, but . . . no.

There's a handful of people that have seen a few body shots. Nothing too risqué, but enough to get a general idea of my form, but no face.

Lately, I find myself curious. Is that unusual? Do most people show their faces to their partner's when they play?

(Define play how you like.)


Also, ewwwwwww. 🤢
If I’m not comfortable enough with someone to share face pics, I’m not opening my mind to them intimately either. I need some kind of connection that’s deeper than sharing boob and dick pics to write messages back and forth that are a turn on. If we don’t trust each other enough to share faces with, do I really know you well enough to turn you on with just words?

Otherwise it might as well be cut and paste from other sexting.

@aussiegeekygal - totes adorbs shot, no matter what that pony fucker might say.
 
So, random question. Sparked by the visual talk.

I do not show my face on Lit. Even when I play. Admittedly, play for me is something of a rarity, but . . . no.

There's a handful of people that have seen a few body shots. Nothing too risqué, but enough to get a general idea of my form, but no face.

Lately, I find myself curious. Is that unusual? Do most people show their faces to their partner's when they play?

(Define play how you like.)
I'm very selective about who gets to see my face here. It's probably rooted in insecurity if I'm honest.
I've had play partners here I've known next to nothing about - I liked how they wrote or how their voice sounded - and seeing each others faces didn't seem to be important for something casual.

But if I am close to someone here and want to - I guess level up the relationship whether friendship or more - then I do like to see faces and learn names. It becomes a small sign that I trust them and want to be trusted in return.

I've shared a few pics on here, cleavage mostly (I play to my strengths!), enough to give an idea of me, but I'm pretty open about sharing more in private to people I've built some kind of connection with.
I posted my face once in the Show Your Face thread and panicked the whole entire time it was there so that's not something I'm going to do again.

I don't think there's a right or wrong way to do things. As I said on my last post here I'm not that fussed about the visual. Turn my brain on instead
 
So, random question. Sparked by the visual talk.

I do not show my face on Lit. Even when I play. Admittedly, play for me is something of a rarity, but . . . no.

There's a handful of people that have seen a few body shots. Nothing too risqué, but enough to get a general idea of my form, but no face.

Lately, I find myself curious. Is that unusual? Do most people show their faces to their partner's when they play?

(Define play how you like.)


Also, ewwwwwww. 🤢
I've shown my face multiple times. I'm not fussed about that. It's a relatively nice, if unremarkable face. I'm not fussed about that either.

I would expect someone to share to the same level as I do with them. But I wouldn't play (i mean I have very rarely been tempted on here anyway) If I didn't think they were who they said they were.

For me, it works the same as other relationships, except you get to talk to me first.

If I met you irl, you'd have already seen my face. More intimate sharing comes a lot later. If at all. And only if I'm connected with you. I can get myself off rather than have a meaningless sext session. (I've done that. Its empty and soulless for me).
 
Well! This explains so much. I was wondering how meticulous P, who showers twice a day and is punctilious when it comes to the question of dress, managed having one of those little dogs who are relentlessly insistent about sleeping in the bed with their people.

#mysterysolved

🐩🐕‍🦺🦮🐕

No animals sleeping with me in my bed. I’be never been one to have an animal sleeping in my bed (I realize the obvious jokes that will flow from this line of discussion).


So, random question. Sparked by the visual talk.

I do not show my face on Lit. Even when I play. Admittedly, play for me is something of a rarity, but . . . no.

There's a handful of people that have seen a few body shots. Nothing too risqué, but enough to get a general idea of my form, but no face.

Lately, I find myself curious. Is that unusual? Do most people show their faces to their partner's when they play?

(Define play how you like.)


Also, ewwwwwww. 🤢

I’ve seen faces of all my friends. Except you. 😂

There are a couple of others that I’ve actually not seen. If someone isn’t comfortable sharing, that’s their prerogative. I wouldn’t push for it. People have different levels of comfort. I find that if you aren’t pushy, someone will share.



Yeah, I'm cool with y'all knowing what I look like

https://reshoevn8r.com/?srsltid=AfmBOopRnMuaTyIbuumN-xs_6wIAcCxPQj4iL2r2ZJhZbU6AFHNYopNC
 
So, random question. Sparked by the visual talk.

I do not show my face on Lit. Even when I play. Admittedly, play for me is something of a rarity, but . . . no.

There's a handful of people that have seen a few body shots. Nothing too risqué, but enough to get a general idea of my form, but no face.

Lately, I find myself curious. Is that unusual? Do most people show their faces to their partner's when they play?

(Define play how you like.)


Also, ewwwwwww. 🤢
I'll share my face in the Show Us Your Face thread once or twice a year. I never show my face in sexy photos (lingerie or nudes). If I have a connection with someone, platonic or sexy, I will show my face via photos +/- video chat. I don't immediately expect the same in return, but, if that trust isn't eventually reciprocated, it's unlikely that the connection will deepen or progress. I guess it's specific to the individual/situation for me.
 
So, random question. Sparked by the visual talk.

I do not show my face on Lit. Even when I play. Admittedly, play for me is something of a rarity, but . . . no.

There's a handful of people that have seen a few body shots. Nothing too risqué, but enough to get a general idea of my form, but no face.

Lately, I find myself curious. Is that unusual? Do most people show their faces to their partner's when they play?

(Define play how you like.)


Also, ewwwwwww. 🤢
Yeah, I show my face to all of those that I'm close to. Whether a naughty relationship or a friendly one. It is just a vulnerability and trust thing for me. I do understand why some don't share or won't share though. I get it. This is the internet after all and there are weirdos everywhere. (I'm looking at you @hotwords229_A )

Isn't it a comical scenario though that online we are much slower to show our face and quicker to show our skin or private bits. But in real life it's exactly the opposite, most everyone will only ever see our face and never be granted access to the sensual parts of us. It's like some sort of backwards, bizarro world.
 
Isn't it a comical scenario though that online we are much slower to show our face and quicker to show our skin or private bits. But in real life it's exactly the opposite, most everyone will only ever see our face and never be granted access to the sensual parts of us. It's like some sort of backwards, bizarro world.
We are oddly trusting of people we meet in public. When in reality, those are the ones most likely to talk behind our backs, fuck us over, and generally treat us like shit.

We’d probably be better off if we all wore masks in real life and used anonymous handles. While using face pics and real names on line.
 
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