Cock Talk

[hotwords229_A]

They know how lust pulls them apart, so it makes sense that eventually, they crave the same gaze in return - to be wanted and reduced to flesh the way they've seen women be.

This is me.

 

[Wand3rlust]

Although I’m not eager to send my Schlong to every woman on Lit, I do still understand the stimulation factor of doing it.

I don’t know, it’s weird. Maybe someday we will figure it out, until then it does seem necessary to mention not wanting dick pics in your inbox.

On the other hand, there are a few women on Lit that complain that they don’t get unsolicited dick pics and they want them. I wonder if the solution is asking for them in order to not get any?

I have very very rarely received an unsolicited dick pic. But then I don't often post pics of myself. And definitely nothing showing full nudity.

But I agree about the stimulation factor of sending a pic. That's why it gets saved for only the special people. For me, anyway.

Someone once suggested to me the way that different people think can have a factor in the sending of unasked for pics. It belies a confidence, an entitlement of your attention, that is not founded in any reality. I mean, once you see this perfect dick, how could you possibly not want to be theirs for eternity?

 

[MindYaBitness]

I have very very rarely received an unsolicited dick pic. But then I don't often post pics of myself. And definitely nothing showing full nudity.

But I agree about the stimulation factor of sending a pic. That's why it gets saved for only the special people. For me, anyway.

Someone once suggested to me the way that different people think can have a factor in the sending of unasked for pics. It belies a confidence, an entitlement of your attention, that is not founded in any reality. I mean, once you see this perfect dick, how could you possibly not want to be theirs for eternity?

Well said!

 

[Lord Pmann]

Knobjectification

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It has come to my attention that women don’t objectify men enough.

Why do you think women don’t seem as visual as men, or are they and they are just better at keeping it under wraps?

I think that this comes from girls generally wanting only to see dicks that interest them. Guys want to see tits or pussy from whomever. I mean, not me. I’m much more refined and I have standards. But most of the heathens here want to have any old pair of tits in their inbox.

Did you have a subscription to Playgirl growing up, or date someone who did?

I don’t know any girl who ever looked at a Playgirl.

Did you have a sexy poster of a guy on your wall?

N/A. I never had posters on my wall at all.

Does looking at naked men stimulate you, or is it the fantasy created by the image more than the man himself, or do you have to have feelings for the man in the image?
Is guy-on-guy hot or not?

I feel like these questions aren’t for me…

When you see an image of a hot cock, do you think “Damn!” or “Gross, a dick!”?

Gross. A dick. Unless it’s mine and it’s like a beautiful sunrise.

Do you like seeing a man cum?

No. Unless it’s me. Or in porn.

Have you gone to a male strip joint, bachelorette party, etc.? Full nude?

I have barely been to a female strip club. I totally should’ve read the prompt better.

Do you prefer an erotic image of a sexy man with a woman (romance novel style cover), or a hot naked, confident man who looks ready to fuck, or just specific body parts, or all of the above?

None

 

[hotwords229_A]

No. Unless it’s me. Or in porn.

So, yes?

 

[dawn_of_night]

So, yes?

Hio

 

[Endless_Night]

There are many different parts of the female body which are obviously beautiful, but if I had to pick only one part to see for the rest of my life, with the vulva. There is a reason Georgia O'Keefe made so many paintings based on the female genitals - it's a work of art.

So for me personally, it is absolutely about the variety and beauty.

This is well expressed. It gives me a clear picture of why the visual variety is so valued. Beauty, and beauty in the variation. I totally get it, which is something that's eluded me before.

It's interesting how my experience has led to a different perception. Much of my experience as a woman has been that of objectification. So, for me, the desire for volume -> collectables -> objectification.

Unless it's under very specific circumstances, I'm not interested in more objectification.

Viewpoint can translate action into near opposing outlooks.

 

[Endless_Night]

Someone once suggested to me the way that different people think can have a factor in the sending of unasked for pics. It belies a confidence, an entitlement of your attention, that is not founded in any reality. I mean, once you see this perfect dick, how could you possibly not want to be theirs for eternity?

This is brilliant.

Too, sometimes it seems as though men are so single-minded in the adoration of their own appendage that it is unfathomable to them that women might not feel the same. It's as though it genuinely doesn't occur to them there are scads of other appendages hanging about to choose from, or that women might have their own entirely different focus.

 

[Endless_Night]

I believe it mirrors the way some men long to experience things they never quite will, like being desired for more than just what they can offer. Maybe even like child rearing, in a twisted kind of empathy.

They know how lust pulls them apart, so it makes sense that eventually, they crave the same gaze in return - to be wanted and reduced to flesh the way they've seen women be.

And for some, that flips into a kind of panic. The idea that anyone isn't thinking the way they do feels impossible, so they behave in… bizarre ways.

Maybe they just want to feel wanted and their dicks got there first

Lovely.

I seemed to have missed a lot. Step away from one minute.

 

[MindYaBitness]

Coming back to this, let’s say Playgirl was completely run by women—publishers, writers, photographers, etc. What would be different about it?

Just focusing on the picture spreads, what would you expect would be different?

I think there would be much more of a tease, less blatant dick, and more titillation. Back when the Dick-Pic Judging Thread was going, I noticed that the most common question about a pic was "does this make me want to see more of him?". A good pic is like meeting a new guy at a bar, in that it's likely his laugh, or a joke he tells, that makes you want to see more of him.

I recall a documentary about how Playboy started, and Hugh Hefner said that in the beginning they tried to trigger the fantasy that the woman was waiting for you, by doing things like having two glasses of wine in the shot, or a bed with just her side rumpled. He tapped into the male fantasy. Now, figure out how to translate to a print that the sexiest mother fucker on earth is the guy doing the dishes, and remembering Mother's day, and you'll be a millionaire.

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

This is well expressed. It gives me a clear picture of why the visual variety is so valued. Beauty, and beauty in the variation. I totally get it, which is something that's eluded me before.

I don't believe I represent the majority of men, not that I'm some altruistic guy or anything, but it's beauty and the physical part of the female form I desire most. And just as all the lovely women have stated regarding the connection, if I have a relationship with the woman attached, it is a significantly more meaningful to see.

It's interesting how my position view creates a different perception. Much of my experience as a woman has been that of objectification. So, for me, the desire for volume -> collectables -> objectification.

Yup, I totally get it. Women are ostensibly objectified at every turn and often their value is adjusted based on their physical attributes. It's wrong, and it's bullshit.

Unless it's under very specific circumstances, I'm not interested in more objectification.

Viewpoint can translate action into near opposing outlooks.

I appreciate your response!

I believe it mirrors the way some men long to experience things they never quite will, like being desired for more than just what they can offer. Maybe even like child rearing, in a twisted kind of empathy.
They know how lust pulls them apart, so it makes sense that eventually, they crave the same gaze in return - to be wanted and reduced to flesh the way they've seen women be.

This resonated with me a bit. It's twisted, but my worth has always been based on what I can do and provide for others. I want to be physically desired. I want to be objectified because I want to feel desired. I know it's not necessarily a healthy mindset, but I want to be more than a workhorse and ATM.

And for some, that flips into a kind of panic. The idea that anyone isn't thinking the way they do feels impossible, so they behave in… bizarre ways.

Maybe they just want to feel wanted and their dicks got there first

 

[morelikeasong]

It has come to my attention that women don’t objectify men enough.

I do think I do my fair share, but I’ll admit, some of the other ladies are slacking

Why do you think women don’t seem as visual as men, or are they and they are just better at keeping it under wraps?

I think a lot of women are very visual but not usually primarily visual. So some other element has to be triggered, aroused, intrigued, before the visual element kicks in.

Did you have a subscription to Playgirl growing up, or date someone who did?

Don’t think I’ve ever seen a copy. I also never saw playboy, either.

Did you have a sexy poster of a guy on your wall?

So many. Men and women. All over my walls. A giant shrine to music, angst, and sexual appeal.

Does looking at naked men stimulate you, or is it the fantasy created by the image more than the man himself, or do you have to have feelings for the man in the image?

It doesn’t stimulate me sexually in and of itself. If there’s more to the image—words or another person—it’s the fantasy created by the image. If it’s just the man, I have to have some sort of more fleshed out (hehe) relationship with them. Even if that’s just friendship or more exposure to them. Seeing a one off image of a stranger isn’t going to do anything for me. I can admire it, definitely. But it isn’t going to stimulate me.

Is guy-on-guy hot or not?

Can be. Not a major fantasy of mine but there’s certain situations where I find it sexy.

When you see an image of a hot cock, do you think “Damn!” or “Gross, a dick!”?

If it’s someone I’m not involved with, I usually think… why is it not being spun in a circle for my enjoyment??

Do you like seeing a man cum?

If I had a hand (hehe) in the execution or inspiration.

Have you gone to a male strip joint, bachelorette party, etc.? Full nude?

I’ve never been to any type of strip club, of any gender.

Do you prefer an erotic image of a sexy man with a woman (romance novel style cover), or a hot naked, confident man who looks ready to fuck, or just specific body parts, or all of the above?

I prefer the man/woman combo I think, because it provokes more of a fantasy than a random man.

 

[Lord Pmann]

So, yes?

Correct.

I just noticed the pic in your original post. I feel like that is aimed at me.

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[summer_reine]

This sounds like the perfect beginning to an erotic story.

.... Thank you, muse

 

[hotwords229_A]

If it’s someone I’m not involved with, I usually think… why is it not being spun in a circle for my enjoyment??

Your enjoyment of the helicockter is entertaining to me.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Correct.

I just noticed the pic in your original post. I feel like that is aimed at me.

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Wouldn’t that be Naked Men Behind People in Horse Costumes?

 

[hotoldrguy]

Your enjoyment of the helicockter is entertaining to me.

It is not the easiest thing to do though

 

[hotwords229_A]

It is not the easiest thing to do though

No, it isn’t.
You need to be at just the right level of arousal without going over!

 

[hotoldrguy]

No, it isn’t.
You need to be at just the right level of arousal without going over!

I see you also have some experience at attempting this trick

 

[Wand3rlust]

 

[hotoldrguy]

No, it isn’t.
You need to be at just the right level of arousal without going over!

maybe we should splice together a vid of everyone's "outtakes"

 

[Endless_Night]

Wouldn’t that be Naked Men Behind People in Horse Costumes?

I think, in this instance, it would be the male in question *cough* Pmann *cough*

IN the horse costume.

I mean, maybe that's incorrect, but that's the way the thread read to me.

I just noticed the pic in your original post. I feel like that is aimed at me.

I certainly thought so. *nods*

Something I've always been curious about -

Pretty sure I wasn't around at that thread's inception, but I scrolled through it at some point. There's a picture of (presumably) you, in horse head, sitting in a high-backed chair reading a book. There is a small dog in your lap.

What was the dog's attitude towards your . . . costume?


Confused? Did it think it was a game? What are the crazy humans up to? Or was it all laissez-faire because you are always sitting about in horsey attire.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I think, in this instance, it would be the male in question *cough* Pmann *cough*

IN the horse costume.

I mean, maybe that's incorrect, but that's the way the thread read to me.


I certainly thought so. *nods*

Something I've always been curious about -

Pretty sure I wasn't around at that thread's inception, but I scrolled through it at some point. There's a picture of (presumably) you, in horse head, sitting in a high-backed chair reading a book. There is a small dog in your lap.

What was the dog's attitude towards your . . . costume?


Confused? Did it think it was a game? What are the crazy humans up to? Or was it all laissez-faire because you are always sitting about in horsey attire.

The dog (Duchess) was happy to be there. It wasn’t my dog, but a friend’s dog. I hadn’t been around the dog too much, so it wasn’t used to me. But my loving aura made it easy for animals to be in my presence.

 

[Wand3rlust]

The dog (Duchess) was happy to be there. It wasn’t my dog, but a friend’s dog. I hadn’t been around the dog too much, so it wasn’t used to me. But my loving aura* made it easy for animals to be in my presence.

*pocket full of kibble.

 

[AngelicaS1780]

Knobjectification
It has come to my attention that women don’t objectify men enough.

While I don't subscribe to/watch the Rampant Poles of Pleasure, Man Meat Monday, or Show Me The Soft Cock threads, I do subscribe to the Sexy Men of Literotica thread and @morelikeasong's helicockters thread. I'm at least trying to do my part.

Why do you think women don’t seem as visual as men, or are they and they are just better at keeping it under wraps?

I think that many women are just as aroused by images as men are, but are more specific about the images they choose.

Did you have a subscription to Playgirl growing up, or date someone who did?

No subscription, but did see some of the photos.

Did you have a sexy poster of a guy on your wall?

Michael Hutchence from INXS, Duran Duran, Adam Ant... lots of open shirts

Does looking at naked men stimulate you, or is it the fantasy created by the image more than the man himself, or do you have to have feelings for the man in the image?

I enjoy looking at naked men, when it is my choice to look at them. I greatly appreciate the male body overall. I’m a very visual person, so seeing a naked man who is attractive to me is often arousing. But it can depend on the situation, my mood, my experiences with the person, etc. I can acknowledge that a naked man is empirically sexy without it necessarily arousing me.

For me, I don't think it's the fantasy created by the image, more than the image itself, that I find arousing. The image inspires the fantasy and continues to play a role throughout. I don't need to have feelings for the man in the image, but if I do, that's a whole other level of arousal.

Is guy-on-guy hot or not?

It certainly can be.

When you see an image of a hot cock, do you think “Damn!” or “Gross, a dick!”?

While cocks can be very sexy and arousing to look at, a big aspect of that is how they are presented in the image. No matter how beautiful the cock, I will never be aroused by a super close up shot of just the cock of a person I don’t know. I don’t want to be that close to your cock unless I know you. A cock that is photographed by a man while he sits on the toilet will always be gross, regardless of how the cock itself looks.

Do you like seeing a man cum?

There are several circumstances in which I like/love seeing a man cum. The most arousing is when I have a connection with the person and have been involved in the process of bringing him to orgasm. Next would be having a connection with the person and having inspired the orgasm. What do I love about it? Watching how he touches himself, how his body moves and his breathing changes. Hearing his gasps and moans. I love it.

I occasionally enjoy watching someone I know, but with whom I don't necessarily have an intimate connection. It's a bit like being a voyeur, even if they have posted it for people to see. They don't know you're watching it. It feels a bit naughty and exciting. And can satisfy a certain curiosity.

Have you gone to a male strip joint, bachelorette party, etc.? Full nude?

The opportunity has never presented itself. I wouldn't be opposed to it, but it's not something I'm seeking out.

Do you prefer an erotic image of a sexy man with a woman (romance novel style cover), or a hot naked, confident man who looks ready to fuck, or just specific body parts, or all of the above?

I'm a big fan of images of naked men who are comfortable and confident in their nudity. I prefer more of a complete picture, as opposed to specific body parts. The idea of a romance novel cover style pose is not so appealing. If he's with a woman, I'd rather have a shot from her POV.