Cheating wife?

Does she still cheat?

I’ve found that a lot of men are into hearing about past sexual escapades, but those same men love the thought of their wife cheating in the present day
I definitely enjoy hearing about any past sexual escapades from my wife, but it is she that is reluctant to reveal them. Do i want her to cheat now? Nah. She stepped out on my one night away on a work trip and got caught. Much less fun than stories of her prior to our marriage. If she did cheat, I would like it to be less public than last time, and I’d need to hear about it in detail. Maybe we could work it in to current fantasies if we werent dealing with all her friends and coworkers knowing about it.
 
I definitely enjoy hearing about any past sexual escapades from my wife, but it is she that is reluctant to reveal them. Do i want her to cheat now? Nah. She stepped out on my one night away on a work trip and got caught. Much less fun than stories of her prior to our marriage. If she did cheat, I would like it to be less public than last time, and I’d need to hear about it in detail. Maybe we could work it in to current fantasies if we werent dealing with all her friends and coworkers knowing about it.
What’s wrong with her friends knowing?
That’s what’s wrong with society today
 
What’s wrong with her friends knowing?
That’s what’s wrong with society today
Caused a big scene at work, eventually she was let go, I didn’t love being the unwilling cuck in the situation either. I was young. Would behave differently now, I’m quite sure. It was very public and a mess. I just think discretion isn’t the worst.
 
Like I said before I will say it again: You can call it whatever you wanna call it. Justify it anyway you wanna justify it. Cheating is cheating 😡. No matter if you both agree on it. I'm done talking about this with you so called married couples. You gonna do whatever you wanna do anyway. Like I said before: You do what you feel is right and I will do what I know is right.

I get that you’re here largely to troll or be controversial on this topic, for whatever reason, but cheating is doing something against the rules.

As the couples set their own rules within their respective relationships, sleeping with other partners isn’t cheating if it that’s allowed with the rules they set each other.

I’ve no skin in this game, but that’s the reality of it BiggDog, as much as you might see it differently.
 
First of all I'm not a troll, I keep it real no matter what 💯. I was done talking about this. I feel I have to say this, and then I'm done. Do you know what cheating really is? Cheating is fornication. Fornication is when a person is married and they have sex outside of marriage. I have facts to back up what I'm talking about.
This is a porn site. Find someone somewhere else who gives a damn.
 
First of all I'm not a troll, I keep it real no matter what 💯. I was done talking about this. I feel I have to say this, and then I'm done. Do you know what cheating really is? Cheating is fornication. Fornication is when a person is married and they have sex outside of marriage. I have facts to back up what I'm talking about.

Your ‘facts’ are wrong though BiggDog

Fornication is sex between people who are not married, it doesn’t mean they’re married elsewhere as that would be adultery.

Cheating is breaking the rules of the activity you’re partaking in (playing cards, taking an exam, your relationship boundaries, or whatever). So, in a marriage, the partners in that marriage set the rules.

You have your own definitions you want to apply to those words, which aren’t the real definition I’m afraid.
 
Does she still cheat?

I’ve found that a lot of men are into hearing about past sexual escapades, but those same men love the thought of their wife cheating in the present day
She agreed not to cheat anymore when I gave her a hall pass to continue fucking her hung colleague. Now she comes home and tells me every dirty detail. He has no idea I found out, still thinks she's cheating.
 
Marriage needs a cultural re-thinking. Why? Because half of marriages end in divorce and many of those that don't aren't particularly healthy or happy.

I absolutely LOVE being married - indeed, I have been happily married for over 30 years. That said, I do believe that as people live longer, there needs to be greater tolerance of a partner having occasional sex outside of the marriage, especially if a very wide desire discrepancy has grown within the relationship - which can happen through no fault of either partner. I believe this even though I have never had, nor intend to have, an affair myself.

For some, having regular sex, even quite late in life, is essential to their happiness and well-being and they shouldn't be expected to go without it because their partner no longer or seldom desires it. Likewise, a partner who now finds sex to be an unpleasant toil shouldn’t feel they are obligated to provide it.

Marriage is a commitment to put that one other person at the center of your life. To love and to care for them no matter what. But it is NOT a promise to ignore your own needs and happiness.

For many, life without some kind of physical intimacy is like life without laughter.
 
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Marriage needs a cultural re-thinking. Why? Because half of marriages end in divorce and many of those that don't aren't particularly healthy or happy.

I absolutely LOVE being married - indeed, I have been happily married for over 30 years. That said, I do believe that as people live longer, there needs to be greater tolerance of a partner pursuing occasional sex outside of the marriage, especially if a very wide desire discrepancy has grown within the relationship - which can happen through no fault of either partner. I believe this even though I have never had, nor intend to have, an affair myself.

For some, having regular sex, even quite late in life, is essential to their happiness and well-being and they shouldn't be expected to go without it because their partner no longer or seldom desires it. Likewise, a partner who now finds sex to be an unpleasant toil shouldn’t feel they are obligated to provide it.

Marriage is a commitment to put that one other person at the center of your life. To love and to care for them no matter what. But it is NOT a promise to ignore your own needs and happiness.

For many, life without some kind of physical intimacy is like life without laughter.
I was done talking about this but I have to say this. I have a lot to say about what I believe. Since this is a erotic site and you so called married couples wouldn't like that, 😭 I'm just going to leave it at that.
 
Marriage needs a cultural re-thinking. Why? Because half of marriages end in divorce and many of those that don't aren't particularly healthy or happy.

I absolutely LOVE being married - indeed, I have been happily married for over 30 years. That said, I do believe that as people live longer, there needs to be greater tolerance of a partner pursuing occasional sex outside of the marriage, especially if a very wide desire discrepancy has grown within the relationship - which can happen through no fault of either partner. I believe this even though I have never had, nor intend to have, an affair myself.

For some, having regular sex, even quite late in life, is essential to their happiness and well-being and they shouldn't be expected to go without it because their partner no longer or seldom desires it. Likewise, a partner who now finds sex to be an unpleasant toil shouldn’t feel they are obligated to provide it.

Marriage is a commitment to put that one other person at the center of your life. To love and to care for them no matter what. But it is NOT a promise to ignore your own needs and happiness.

For many, life without some kind of physical intimacy is like life without laughter.
Thank you!
 
Marriage needs a cultural re-thinking. Why? Because half of marriages end in divorce and many of those that don't aren't particularly healthy or happy.

I absolutely LOVE being married - indeed, I have been happily married for over 30 years. That said, I do believe that as people live longer, there needs to be greater tolerance of a partner pursuing occasional sex outside of the marriage, especially if a very wide desire discrepancy has grown within the relationship - which can happen through no fault of either partner. I believe this even though I have never had, nor intend to have, an affair myself.

For some, having regular sex, even quite late in life, is essential to their happiness and well-being and they shouldn't be expected to go without it because their partner no longer or seldom desires it. Likewise, a partner who now finds sex to be an unpleasant toil shouldn’t feel they are obligated to provide it.

Marriage is a commitment to put that one other person at the center of your life. To love and to care for them no matter what. But it is NOT a promise to ignore your own needs and happiness.

For many, life without some kind of physical intimacy is like life without laughter.
Very well said
 
Gets me rock hard when I think of my wife taking a big dildo and pretends its a guy we know and cums almost instantly!She will keep cummin over and over again if she says his name to fuck her.Sometimes I almost cum just from seeing her that turned on
 
I was done talking about this but I have to say this. I have a lot to say about what I believe. Since this is a erotic site and you so called married couples wouldn't like that, 😭 I'm just going to leave it at that.
Why are you on a porn site? It's pretty evident you are trolling. You said several times you were done and keep coming back and judging others.
 
You know, the whole fucking amazing thing is that you guys keep dragging him back into the conversation by quoting his posts long after he's stopped! If you truly want him to go away, quit inviting him back! You're giving him what he wants, which is forum space for his opinion.

Just stop it already!
 
So I know a lot of guys on here fantasize about their gf or wife cheating on them.
But a lot of these guys are straight.
What’s the thrill of your girl cheating on you? Is it the humiliation? The sexy personal porn? Or something else entirely?
Hotwifing, cuckolding, and other words are also thrown around
I wouldn't really call what my wife does as cheating since I am fully aware and was the one that actually wanted her to enjoy other men. I was the only man she had ever been with, but I had been with many women. I thought she deserved other experiences since I had them in my past. I didn't know how much I'd love watching her.

My wife has an amazing body and is very sexual. So part of it is the personal in person porn. It's hot to watch her being made to cum by another man or see how much she is loving sucking another dick. I stay rock hard the whole time.

The humiliation is also a turn on, but mainly when the two are talking dirty to each other and/or me. It's a huge turn on when the other man says my wife belongs to him or if she says it. I'm not sure why, but its hot.

So basically I wanted her to have sex with other men at least a few times for the experience, but we both ended up loving it. Sometimes I "reclaim" her when the other man is done. Other times I jerk off while watching. And I also sometimes join. It depends what she and/or her lover are in the mood for. My favorite thing to see is a man totally dominate and use my wife like his fucktoy.
 
You have a very exciting wife. For me its always been the personal porn, the "confessions" and the reclamations. But she was slutty long before I met her. PM if you like
 
I wouldn't really call what my wife does as cheating since I am fully aware and was the one that actually wanted her to enjoy other men. I was the only man she had ever been with, but I had been with many women. I thought she deserved other experiences since I had them in my past. I didn't know how much I'd love watching her.

My wife has an amazing body and is very sexual. So part of it is the personal in person porn. It's hot to watch her being made to cum by another man or see how much she is loving sucking another dick. I stay rock hard the whole time.

The humiliation is also a turn on, but mainly when the two are talking dirty to each other and/or me. It's a huge turn on when the other man says my wife belongs to him or if she says it. I'm not sure why, but its hot.

So basically I wanted her to have sex with other men at least a few times for the experience, but we both ended up loving it. Sometimes I "reclaim" her when the other man is done. Other times I jerk off while watching. And I also sometimes join. It depends what she and/or her lover are in the mood for. My favorite thing to see is a man totally dominate and use my wife like his fucktoy.
I’ve definitely taken a big dick in my pussy and squealed that the other man owned me while my boyfriend at the time masturbated while watching. It was hot and sweaty. My armpits smelled really bad after that one!
 
I think a hundred years from now, having sex outside of one's primary relationship will be viewed as just a normal, healthy activity - one that helps people maintain better physical and mental health and one that may actually help to keep the primary relationship secure.

Why not sooner? Because "fidelity" needs to be redefined and that will take generations to achieve. "No sex with others - ever!" needs to evolve into "Sex with someone else is fine, if..." and what follows will be sensible rules that minimize the risk it poses to the primary relationship. For example, having a one-night stand with someone you'll never see again will no longer be considered cheating. But forming attachments and conspiring to grow a relationship with someone other than your spouse will be continue to be considered cheating.

If you think I'm crazy, think again... Think of how homosexuality, bi-sexuality, transgenderism were perceived 100 years ago. Thankfully, we've evolved and come to realize that these are normal, healthy people who are living their lives as authentically and happily as they can. I think the same will happen with non-monogamy.
 
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I’ve definitely taken a big dick in my pussy and squealed that the other man owned me while my boyfriend at the time masturbated while watching. It was hot and sweaty. My armpits smelled really bad after that one!
mmm...I love when my wife moans that her pussy belongs to her lover while being properly fucked.
 
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