Do your fetishes change over time?

[Martin_M]

What certainly has changed is having somewhere to talk about our levels of perversion

 

[EmmAgain]

No, not in my case. My ‘fetish’ in my earlier years was being with multiple guys - particularly DP. Almost 11 years to the day after my first one (Halloween 2014), it’s still the only fetish that I’m aware of.

 

[WhO2]

Yeah, mine have changed, but as most people said, they have mostly expanded. When I watched my first porn flicks in college. I had to look away when the guys came. Now, I love watching it. I never knew I had a lactation fetish until I drank my wife's milk. I didn't realize i had a foot fetish until I got married. The last one is more of a curiosity than a fetish. I love watching couples suck dick together but not just guys doing it to each other. I'd love to talk her into doing it but have zero desire to try it alone. Is that strange?

 

[NancyPan]

I wonder if anyone else has fetishes that change over time? When I was younger I used to have a panty fetish. Sniff my wife's panties while masterbating or eating her our with her panties on or even having sex while wearing her panties. Would rather see my wife in her panties then naked especially if she was wearing stockings. Stopped for years when I used one of her panties to masterbate and told her the next day I loved her new panties. Found out she had bought them for my step daughter who just turned 15. Wasn't until my daughters moved out that I ever thought about panties....lol. From then I have gone through periods where pubic sex or exhibition turned me on. Period where loved JOI porn and like to masterbate while wife watched. Then a period where fucking my wife while she was on the phone turned me on. And of course threesomes appeared there for a year or two. Now I like to think about eating my wife out after I came in her pussy or even eat her out with another guys creampie in her. Never happened, but I can fantasize. I even fantasize about her using a strap on dildo on me.

This is an interesting question. I, like you, have a number of fetishes, including panties and FemDom. Most of all, I am addicted to the scent and taste of pussy. My wife knows these things and “uses” this knowledge to reward and control me. We have been in an FLR for many years now, so she manages my orgasms and strictly forbids masturbation (although I am not caged).

IMO, sexual fetishes are like any other “addiction” or “hobby” where what was once satisfying, in the beginning, needs to be ramped up over time to deliver the same level of pleasure. This is seen with gamblers who were initially thrilled with five dollar bets, but over time bet larger and larger amounts. Rock climbers take on more challenging climbs. Fisherman keep going after “the big one” and, no longer satisfied with fishing on their local lake, book fly-in trips to Canada. We look for new thrills. Etc., etc…..

That being said, I am still very aroused by my wife, in part because she plays on my fetishes and in part because she keeps me denied and therefore in a continued state of arousal. But, as a teenager, I got an erection simply from the act of putting on a pair of women’s panties or sniffing soiled panties. Now I need a bit more (in part because I’ve worn panties 24/7/365 for so many years), but I generally need her scent/taste or erotic humiliation to get hard.

I’ve often been thankful that I’m not a gambler. I’d be playing with $500. chips.

 

[Junglejane44]

my fetishes change every few months. sometimes I just add more fetishes and sometimes I replace some and push them to the back burner for a bit..

 

[SavannaT]

The sex has become less consensual in my fetishism and the focus of their lust has drifted more to my tits lol