Do your fetishes change over time?

[Martin_M]

What certainly has changed is having somewhere to talk about our levels of perversion

 

[EmmAgain]

No, not in my case. My ‘fetish’ in my earlier years was being with multiple guys - particularly DP. Almost 11 years to the day after my first one (Halloween 2014), it’s still the only fetish that I’m aware of.

 

[WhO2]

Yeah, mine have changed, but as most people said, they have mostly expanded. When I watched my first porn flicks in college. I had to look away when the guys came. Now, I love watching it. I never knew I had a lactation fetish until I drank my wife's milk. I didn't realize i had a foot fetish until I got married. The last one is more of a curiosity than a fetish. I love watching couples suck dick together but not just guys doing it to each other. I'd love to talk her into doing it but have zero desire to try it alone. Is that strange?

 

[NancyPan]

I wonder if anyone else has fetishes that change over time? When I was younger I used to have a panty fetish. Sniff my wife's panties while masterbating or eating her our with her panties on or even having sex while wearing her panties. Would rather see my wife in her panties then naked especially if she was wearing stockings. Stopped for years when I used one of her panties to masterbate and told her the next day I loved her new panties. Found out she had bought them for my step daughter who just turned 15. Wasn't until my daughters moved out that I ever thought about panties....lol. From then I have gone through periods where pubic sex or exhibition turned me on. Period where loved JOI porn and like to masterbate while wife watched. Then a period where fucking my wife while she was on the phone turned me on. And of course threesomes appeared there for a year or two. Now I like to think about eating my wife out after I came in her pussy or even eat her out with another guys creampie in her. Never happened, but I can fantasize. I even fantasize about her using a strap on dildo on me.

This is an interesting question. I, like you, have a number of fetishes, including panties and FemDom. Most of all, I am addicted to the scent and taste of pussy. My wife knows these things and “uses” this knowledge to reward and control me. We have been in an FLR for many years now, so she manages my orgasms and strictly forbids masturbation (although I am not caged).

IMO, sexual fetishes are like any other “addiction” or “hobby” where what was once satisfying, in the beginning, needs to be ramped up over time to deliver the same level of pleasure. This is seen with gamblers who were initially thrilled with five dollar bets, but over time bet larger and larger amounts. Rock climbers take on more challenging climbs. Fisherman keep going after “the big one” and, no longer satisfied with fishing on their local lake, book fly-in trips to Canada. We look for new thrills. Etc., etc…..

That being said, I am still very aroused by my wife, in part because she plays on my fetishes and in part because she keeps me denied and therefore in a continued state of arousal. But, as a teenager, I got an erection simply from the act of putting on a pair of women’s panties or sniffing soiled panties. Now I need a bit more (in part because I’ve worn panties 24/7/365 for so many years), but I generally need her scent/taste or erotic humiliation to get hard.

I’ve often been thankful that I’m not a gambler. I’d be playing with $500. chips.

 

[Junglejane44]

my fetishes change every few months. sometimes I just add more fetishes and sometimes I replace some and push them to the back burner for a bit..

 

[SavannaT]

The sex has become less consensual in my fetishism and the focus of their lust has drifted more to my tits lol

 

[Darty20]

What certainly has changed is having somewhere to talk about our levels of perversion

Like ur thinking

 

[BrasileiroXXX77]

Mine definitely change periodically. Most things taboo and kinky are fair game on my wheel of fetish fortune.

 

[Italianstud59]

I used to be a big breast lover, the bigger the better ( one ex was H cup). Now I prefer smaller, nothing bigger,or better,than an A or B cup girl

 

[Crownvic]

Yes, you get more of them..

 

[12gone]

Mine don't really go away, but any time I have a partner that's got a big kink, they generally get added to the list. The only one that didn't was anal. I can't stand the thought of dookie dick.

 

[silky52]

I think I have rediscovered mine. Although I was never aware as a younger person that I had any, and I was so conditioned that I had been corrupted by men that I thought it was wrong, wrong, wrong for a long, long time. So, now I am beginning to enjoy who I am.

 

[Jcam1980s]

My main one is pregnant ladies. Just so sexy.

 

[FoxtrotJulietRomeo]

Mine don't change but their 'prominence' seems to rotate.

I have a bunch of things I like to see/watch but they take turns to come to the top of the pile and how long they stay there has no particular formula.

Whatever I'm particularly into in any particular spell, I suppose that perhaps I'll see something from another 'category' which then takes me more towards that one for a while.

 

[trevorness]

I guess they drift around, depending on what I come across. Some stay pretty constant, like short hair and shaving. A hot blog (back in the day) could throw my mind down a different direction.

 

[live4thebj]

I think it more evolved. But I didn’t realize
my fetish is what it is. Here let me explain. Grew up reading porn mags. No Internet back then. I was aroused by mothers and teachers and woman at church. All older woman. Then one day unintentional I read an incest story. Been hooked ever since.

 

[wildp]

Yes evolve and diminish both

 

[Crownvic]

They get stronger the older you get..IMO..

 

[Trubbycat]

I’ve added a few along the way.

 

[Take1]

It used to be MFF and now it is MMF.

 

[Crownvic]

MFF for me..

 

[Hugo_Agogo_UK]

I have had a wonderful time discovering mutual pleasures which cross over into kinky territory at every twist and turn.
M likes being fucked without taking off her pretty lacy teddy. And there I am, having a wonderful time. Can’t believe it. I want to push all kinds of things into her pussy and she obliges me. We play this game all night.
O sends me a porn clip that makes her absolutely wet and crazy - woken up and fucked by an older, hung, dominant guy. All of a sudden I am aching to fuck her like this… obsessed.
H wants me to come to her apartment, fuck her, cum all over her and message me about it and all kinds of naughtiness. She wants to stand naked at her window while I’m in the street below. I’m so hooked I go crazy with it.

 

[Himileage]

I think my kinks and perversions have become more intense as I age

 

[Mrmphilll2]

No same here if any

 

[lauramilf]

i think its only natural for them to change and grow over time as we do. Some remain others are replaced or just forgotten about in a fleeting moment of desire.