Do your fetishes change over time?

[jassybb]

Yes, over the years as i got older and discovered more about myself & my partner. I think it's natural progression.

 

[LisaMayTurner]

Some come and some go, some get boring and some get more and more exciting...and some become new!

 

[Darty20]

Some come and some go, some get boring and some get more and more exciting...and some become new!

That’s a true statement , I would go with that

 

[Fantasyzone]

Deffinatly change, but quite often come and go.

 

[Music123]

Deffinatly change, but quite often come and go.

Yes I agree some may fade only to return again.

 

[Darty20]

Yes I agree some may fade only to return again.

Agree on that

 

[hiker283]

Michael my loving neighbour revealed himself as a crossdresser. I love him more for it. What do you mean by expansion

I am more willing to be out and about dressed. Just exploring some of what it feels like to be a woman.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Yes, over the years as i got older and discovered more about myself & my partner. I think it's natural progression.

Age has changed mine, but it the opposite direction from what most have said. But then, I think I've aged a lot more than the other posters on this thread.
When I was working full time and under a lot of stress, I had very strong submissive fantasies and urges which I acted out as best I could. Being spanked. Kneeling and worshipping a woman. Being tied up, blindfolded and controlled. Pegging. Serving her as best I could.

When I stopped working and putting pressure on myself, these urges eased substantially. I still enjoy taking a passive role and women who are confident and like to take control. JOI is great. But its different and less intense, I would say.
Also, I can't kneel because of pain in my knees.

 

[Oshkosh60]

I think if you have a chance to scratch an itch, sooner or later you find yourself itching in other places.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

I think if you have a chance to scratch an itch, sooner or later you find yourself itching in other places.

You're not talking about poison ivy, I hope.

 

[RadioRoja]

They got stronger, but have not changed.

 

[Dreamer110]

They got stronger, but have not changed.

Pretty much the same

 

[RadioRoja]

Pretty much the same

I agree, which in a way is so much tastier and better

 

[Oshkosh60]

You're not talking about poison ivy, I hope.

No.... but I think there are some that can fade to the background if we have the opportunity to experience them..... some continue for a lifetime though.

 

[Dreamer110]

I agree, which in a way is so much tastier and better

Tried a few but the others are stronger.

 

[RadioRoja]

Tried a few but the others are stronger.

Which ones got stronger and which ones you tired?

 

[Dreamer110]

Don't think this is the place.

 

[Baztrachian]

My first wife triggered my dominance because she just didn't want sex as much as I did. My penchant for dominance has stuck with me ever since.

My second wife when we first fucked was unprotected and we were already naked with her grinding on me when she wanted to stop for a condom. I did not care to interrupt what we were doing and a few months later she was pregnant with our eldest.

That stuck with me, too. Never to change.

 

[KinkStevens]

I wonder if anyone else has fetishes that change over time? When I was younger I used to have a panty fetish. Sniff my wife's panties while masterbating or eating her our with her panties on or even having sex while wearing her panties. Would rather see my wife in her panties then naked especially if she was wearing stockings. Stopped for years when I used one of her panties to masterbate and told her the next day I loved her new panties. Found out she had bought them for my step daughter who just turned 15. Wasn't until my daughters moved out that I ever thought about panties....lol. From then I have gone through periods where pubic sex or exhibition turned me on. Period where loved JOI porn and like to masterbate while wife watched. Then a period where fucking my wife while she was on the phone turned me on. And of course threesomes appeared there for a year or two. Now I like to think about eating my wife out after I came in her pussy or even eat her out with another guys creampie in her. Never happened, but I can fantasize. I even fantasize about her using a strap on dildo on me.

Yes, they change over time. From mild to wild and back to mild

 

[StrongMaster7]

As I have learned more, the list has expanded, but I haven’t stopped having any fetishes.

I still want an older, busty woman to breastfeed, suck, and fuck me.

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

Sometimes you learn new things

 

[Husband55]

Over time have been attracted to various acts that start as a fantasy, then act on. Become a favourite for awhile. Then added to the go there again when mood takes. Yes, definitely things have changed over time in my thoughts attitudes and ideas.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I don’t think they ever really change. They get more or less prevalent. Plus I might develop new ones…

 

[Erosfan]

I think the changes have been in the desire/intensity. When I was younger, I was too shy to really open up about my desires. I would hint and try or hope she would pick up on my wants. That was not a good means of conveying my needs and wants.
Later in life, I found someone I could be open with and she was so receptive and helped me to experience my deepest held fantasies and fetishes. Being able to have open and honest discussions led to some amazing experiences.
The main drive in my fetishes has only gotten stronger. My desires and wants have not changed.

 

[Martin_M]

What certainly has changed is having somewhere to talk about our levels of perversion