Do your fetishes change over time?

[Samantha47]

I have changed fetishes but public is a continuous one especially oral at the pub loo

You sound perfect

 

[Pad_Foot]

I have added kinks and fetishes over the years here at Lit often when someone expresses how much they enjoy something I had not considered previously

 

[kathyisgr65]

Definitely as I explore and evolve my fetishes and kinks evolve and grow

 

[Darty20]

Definitely as I explore and evolve my fetishes and kinks evolve and grow

Sounds good to me

 

[shrek100]

Mrs Shrek here.
I would say 100% yes, the things we engage in now. When i was 20 i wouldn't dreamt of.
I think as i get very close to the big 5...0...
I am aware my body is changing and I don't really care as much so have come around to Hubbies view "if it feels good - go for it"

 

[Samantha47]

I agree, which in a way is so much tastier and better

Oh yes

 

[RadioRoja]

Oh yes

I have included getting high so the pleasure of indulging is overwhelming

 

[stargame]

I think i've added exhibitionism to my kinks.

 

[SusanHoward]

Yes. Thanks to you guys!

 

[jimmyturtleman]

Mrs Shrek here.
I would say 100% yes, the things we engage in now. When i was 20 i wouldn't dreamt of.
I think as i get very close to the big 5...0...
I am aware my body is changing and I don't really care as much so have come around to Hubbies view "if it feels good - go for it"

Having just read your post, I couldn't help but think back, close to 25 years ago, sitting in our living room watching a movie, enjoying a glass of wine with my wife, who like you was approaching the big 5..0. What she said was exactly your sentiment, although she started out with, "You're right, if it feels good, we should do it." I thought I might be having some sort of hallucination, and had to ask her to repeat what she just said, you know the part about me, the hubby being right...

 

[shrek100]

Having just read your post, I couldn't help but think back, close to 25 years ago, sitting in our living room watching a movie, enjoying a glass of wine with my wife, who like you was approaching the big 5..0. What she said was exactly your sentiment, although she started out with, "You're right, if it feels good, we should do it." I thought I might be having some sort of hallucination, and had to ask her to repeat what she just said, you know the part about me, the hubby being right...

Having just read your post, I couldn't help but think back, close to 25 years ago, sitting in our living room watching a movie, enjoying a glass of wine with my wife, who like you was approaching the big 5..0. What she said was exactly your sentiment, although she started out with, "You're right, if it feels good, we should do it." I thought I might be having some sort of hallucination, and had to ask her to repeat what she just said, you know the part about me, the hubby being right...

I would never admit Hubby is right
So what sort of thing did this lead to?

 

[jimmyturtleman]

I would never admit Hubby is right
So what sort of thing did this lead to?

It led to a very honest, open discussion about our sexual fantasies, needs, and desires, and what we wanted more, or less of. Being a gentleman, most of the time, I agreed to give her suggestions immediate attention. Within a very short time, we were engaged in anal sex, on a blanket, on our living room floor.

Your hubby must have been right, at least once, when he married you.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Yes, I have had all kinds of kinks and fetishes over the years... Depending on my socializing and who I'm interested in..

I'm in my early 50s, so I've had some time to explore most of what I like over the years.

Right now I haven't got any fetishes, other than penis worshipping of cock!!!

 

[WeWeeOui]

My fetishes have stayed the same since I was young enough to get a hard on.

The only thing I'd like to add to that is Bi sex...... with a Couple or just an understanding guy. Prefer to find someone like me, who is trying it out later in life.

 

[Erosfan]

They get stronger the older you get..IMO..

This is my experience as well. Mine have grown and become more important to maintain a healthy sex life. I am way more open to talking about my kinks than I have ever been.