Cheating wife?

What a major sexual rush to both of you must have had special you and she's telling it in your hearing All the kinky dirty details
 
It's complicated, lol. I think it started as the idea of seeing her have the ultimate pleasure. Like, if it would turn her on more to play with two dicks, that's what I want for her. Or if I can make her cum like this, how much more intense would her orgasm be if she had two inside of her (any sort of DP)? Or wondering how crazy it must feel to get fucked and licked at the same time.

So for me, it's really about I want her to cum as hard as possible (because that makes me cum harder).

But honestly it evolved a bit. I do kinda like the idea of her just wanting some variety and, on her way home, stopping at the third's house and getting fucked. Or having him over and I watch. Seeing her react to another man, draining his balls, all that makes her sexier to me.

We'd never actually done any of this. It was a fantasy and we'd dirty talk about it during sex and it turned me on a lot. But she was generally pretty prude, and I never suggested we take it further.

Then I found out she actually cheated on me. This was (kinda) unrelated to any of the dirty talk. Just her being disloyal. Funny thing, had she gone about it the right way, I'd have been open to him as a third.

And I'm disgusted at the thought of it now. I've told her to not dirty talk me in that way, it's a turn off, literally makes me go soft. It's hard to even be horny around her now.
I’m the same way. When we were dating she had an affair and she actually fucked a few other guys too. She confessed to it all. To me it’s about knowing the difference between love and lust and separating the two. If you love someone then you need to trust them and be honest with them. It’s an emotional connection.

But lust is entirely different. A carnal desire, you just want the physical pleasure of fucking someone. No emotions involved. Woman can have that just as much as men.

By confessing and showing regret, she demonstrated the emotional connection. And I understand we all have physical desires. And if she came to me and wanted a threesome, I’d be all for it. But if she did it behind my back, that’s a breach of our mutual trust. And trust is a hard thing to regain.
 
I agree that this will evolve and that it’s more prominent than most people realize, particularly with older married couples where the kids have left the nest. Rules vary from couple to couple. The reason it’s under the radar is that discretion is practiced for most to maintain reputations among family, friends and work colleagues.

Very true. But you later find out that these family, friends and work colleagues want the same and many are in the lifestyle.

As long as nobody gets hurt or it has an adverse effect on an already steady relationship or marriage. I do not see any harm in this and only lots of pleasure for those involved.
 
I’ve been married a long time and things get repetitive
We have a pact
We don’t cheat but we do share each other
It is definitely not cheating if both people agree
Get off your high horse
It's the lies, trickery and sneaking is what makes it cheating.
 
It's complicated, lol. I think it started as the idea of seeing her have the ultimate pleasure. Like, if it would turn her on more to play with two dicks, that's what I want for her. Or if I can make her cum like this, how much more intense would her orgasm be if she had two inside of her (any sort of DP)? Or wondering how crazy it must feel to get fucked and licked at the same time.

So for me, it's really about I want her to cum as hard as possible (because that makes me cum harder).

But honestly it evolved a bit. I do kinda like the idea of her just wanting some variety and, on her way home, stopping at the third's house and getting fucked. Or having him over and I watch. Seeing her react to another man, draining his balls, all that makes her sexier to me.

We'd never actually done any of this. It was a fantasy and we'd dirty talk about it during sex and it turned me on a lot. But she was generally pretty prude, and I never suggested we take it further.

Then I found out she actually cheated on me. This was (kinda) unrelated to any of the dirty talk. Just her being disloyal. Funny thing, had she gone about it the right way, I'd have been open to him as a third.

And I'm disgusted at the thought of it now. I've told her to not dirty talk me in that way, it's a turn off, literally makes me go soft. It's hard to even be horny around her now.
So true about if they had let you know. But the sneaking and trickery is plain insulting. Sorry to hear it went bad for you.
 
So true about if they had let you know. But the sneaking and trickery is plain insulting. Sorry to hear it went bad for you.
The thing is she cheated about a year into the relationship. And being the cliche that she is, it was with her trainer. She then lied and gaslit me for the next SEVEN YEARS about me being "insecure" while refusing to stop "working out" with this guy.

I didn't open up about this kind of fantasy until about year 5.

I felt like a complete clown. And today I just feel like a shell of myself.
 
So I know a lot of guys on here fantasize about their gf or wife cheating on them.
But a lot of these guys are straight.
What’s the thrill of your girl cheating on you? Is it the humiliation? The sexy personal porn? Or something else entirely?
Hotwifing, cuckolding, and other words are also thrown around
My ex-wife and I were a hotwife couple. It was the most intense sexual experience of my life. I can't really explain the thrill, which is very complex. But I also know I don't need to understand it. It just is.
 
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