Women of Lit: A Safe Place To Share

[genzsub]

omg, I had to share this
if women behaved like men in bars

OMG, that was amazing!

 

[JennyCapricorn]

omg, I had to share this
if women behaved like men in bars

“Stop it. Just stop it.”

 

[Scareltt]

omg, I had to share this
if women behaved like men in bars

I shouldn’t like this but it made me laugh.

 

[stickygirl]

Geo-location is a real thing and AI is going to make it easier. If the outfit you're wearing can be matched against a retailer, region, age group then AI is also going to look at the furniture, carpets ...
My sister had a stalker in her teens and we got advice from a very savvy police intelligence adviser. That was 15 years ago, but one thing he said was never post pictures of yourself online - period. I've never had a facebook and get quite shitty if friends photograph me without asking. There will always be creeps out there, so don't aid them.
/sermon
sorry - pet rant

That police intelligence officer was right - here's an appalling case from Australia about AI porn fakery. While the story is bad enough, the article is full of pictures of the victim, but only one of the criminal, which leaves me convinced the BBC is staffed by fucking morons.

 

[JennyCapricorn]

That police intelligence officer was right - here's an appalling case from Australia about AI porn fakery. While the story is bad enough, the article is full of pictures of the victim, but only one of the criminal, which leaves me convinced the BBC is staffed by fucking morons.

Jesus Fuck. This is horrific

 

[Zrosey]

That police intelligence officer was right - here's an appalling case from Australia about AI porn fakery. While the story is bad enough, the article is full of pictures of the victim, but only one of the criminal, which leaves me convinced the BBC is staffed by fucking morons.

Like so many, I had a FB....some time back I closed and deleted everything on there but I can't say I really trust meta to have removed everything.
Once upon a time, at least for me, the internet was a fun place to meet others and share stuff....but dang seeing so many others getting swatted is totally scary!

 

[stickygirl]

This is a silver half crown coin found in Perthshire, dating from 1910 from the Suffragettes movement. The crown on the other side had been defaced.
Only saying but Pro Choice on quarters?

 

[genzsub]

 

[Zrosey]

 

[stickygirl]

I heard someone explain that mansplaining was correctile dysfunction

 

[Zrosey]

this is a crosspost from the GLBT daily vibe II, if that's not cool I'll happily delete this!
from today's foray out into the frozen north. hardcore crust made for wicked skiing, still fun, and the sunshine rocks!

wearing: woolies & fleecy feathery stuff, a girl's gotta stay warm!
mood: bouncy
listening to: bjork

 

[velona]

Hello ladies! I have no idea if this is an ok place to post this as I am very new to the community side of this site but I am a 45F and saw that this is a women's only thread and I need some advice. If anyone would be willing to lend me an ear, please let me know and I'm PM you. Even better if you are or have been in a DDlg online relationship. If I'm screwing up the etiquette by posting here, please let me know that too!

 

[stickygirl]

Hello ladies! I have no idea if this is an ok place to post this as I am very new to the community side of this site but I am a 45F and saw that this is a women's only thread and I need some advice. If anyone would be willing to lend me an ear, please let me know and I'm PM you. Even better if you are or have been in a DDlg online relationship. If I'm screwing up the etiquette by posting here, please let me know that too!

Hi there, I happened to pop in but I confess I had to google ddlg! There are a couple of women I know at Lit who I think have a similar relationship status. You'll understand that Lit and this thread in particular means that people who have only just arrived are treated with some caution, so you might have to be patient. I'd guess that the Fetish or BDSM forums might be productive for you.

 

[velona]

Thanks, I appreciate the response. I didn't want to post on one of those because I don't want a man coming in trying to be like "I'll be your daddy" and whatever. Totally understand caution about new arrivals.

 

[stickygirl]

Thanks, I appreciate the response. I didn't want to post on one of those because I don't want a man coming in trying to be like "I'll be your daddy" and whatever. Totally understand caution about new arrivals.

But you may find some ( genuine ) women if you read-only and not post.

 

[Strixaluco]

Hello ladies! I have no idea if this is an ok place to post this as I am very new to the community side of this site but I am a 45F and saw that this is a women's only thread and I need some advice. If anyone would be willing to lend me an ear, please let me know and I'm PM you. Even better if you are or have been in a DDlg online relationship. If I'm screwing up the etiquette by posting here, please let me know that too!

You might want to know that there's a DDlg thread here too - and while it is not women or littles only, it is a safe haven for littles. Plenty of overlap with people frequenting these 2 threads, but yet far from total.

Look up "Daddy's Little Girl" in the search. It's the 4th version already.

If I was in a little better mental place, I'd offer my DM's to be used, but unfortunately I'm sliding to needing support myself (not due to my relationship but despite it.)

 

[Strixaluco]

Thanks, I appreciate the response. I didn't want to post on one of those because I don't want a man coming in trying to be like "I'll be your daddy" and whatever. Totally understand caution about new arrivals.

The Daddy's Little Girl thread doesn't allow that type of behaviour. We chase the hungry type away.

 

[velona]

Thank you! I have been reading and there are a few people who seem like they might be good to reach out to but I didn't know if it would be rude to just message someone. Will check out the thread you mentioned!

 

[R_Clairmont]

I’ve been thinking about @velona and her request. How much easier and less scary it would have been if I had had some woman to woman guidance when started out.

There are multiple threads that I found over time that have helped guide me a lot.

My favorite is the one in the Playground that talks about responding to personals and curating your own experience. Good and empowering advice even when you are a sub.

 

[Sol41]

Thus far Ive had a pretty good experience with the men here
Admittedly I havent been here long. I think Im good at filtering out the creeps and cretins.

 

[Strixaluco]

Thank you! I have been reading and there are a few people who seem like they might be good to reach out to but I didn't know if it would be rude to just message someone. Will check out the thread you mentioned!

Generally speaking people will respond better, if they already know you from the public threads. That's not specific to Lit but works on most platforms.

 

[velona]

An awesome very kind person reached out privately and gave me some great advice so I think I’m all set.

If I had known that there was a side of Lit that included this type of community I’d have made an account ages ago. I’m still likely to be more follower than poster but from what I’ve read so far there is a lot of wisdom and kindness in these threads!

Hope you are doing well, you mentioned above that you are going through some things and may not be in the best place.

 

[JennyCapricorn]

An awesome very kind person reached out privately and gave me some great advice so I think I’m all set.

Just logging in after a few days and I’m so happy Velona was able to get some guidance! Go team lit ladies!

 

[stickygirl]

Thus far Ive had a pretty good experience with the men here
Admittedly I havent been here long. I think Im good at filtering out the creeps and cretins.

Use the Ignore button liberally. The management do not welcome extreme/illegal views so there's a report button too. There aren't many Mods so it's up to us to police the crazies by highlighting them.

 

[Sol41]

Use the Ignore button liberally. The management do not welcome extreme/illegal views so there's a report button too. There aren't many Mods so it's up to us to police the crazies by highlighting them.

Gotcha, thanks for the heads up.