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How many of you like being called degrading or kinky names?

Belong2Her said:
Not that time. i have been naked in the car in the evening when She takes us for a drive, but that particular day, She just reached over, put her hand on my chest and said, "unbuckle your pants, pull them and your panties down and jerk off till you cum on your panties. After i was done, She made me pull them up and wear them that way till W/we got home. (W/we even stoped at the drug store and She made me get out and shop with Her.
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On another note, I love being naked in the car. It hasn't happened that much. My biggest desire was for my wife to make me leave the house naked, at night, with nothing to cover up and her take me driving around. We discussed it many times and we almost did it, but she was the smarter one and said it was too risky. I guess she was right.
 
Erosfan said:
On another note, I love being naked in the car. It hasn't happened that much. My biggest desire was for my wife to make me leave the house naked, at night, with nothing to cover up and her take me driving around. We discussed it many times and we almost did it, but she was the smarter one and said it was too risky. I guess she was right.
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W/we had a similar experience, but we were in an isolated area at the time, it was short drive, but the fear and excitement of being seen or almost caught was overwhelming. i hope you will one day get to experience e it.
 
cascadiabound said:
For me - I think part of why I like it/turns me on is the transgression nature of it. And also because it trips on all the contradictions between my brain and my submissive needs/desires.

If someone called me a cunt/whore/cocksucker/slut etc. in any context outside of an intimate consenting relationship, I would find it completely unacceptable and my feelings about that person would be imprinted on me in a negative way and I would want them to feel the consequences of their unacceptable words in whatever way I could.

The contradiction of the way it makes me feel in a sexually submissive setting is a huge part of why it seems to deepen my submission, pulls me into that subby headspace with all the feels, quivers, tremors, physical arousal. The fact that my physical response to degrading talk is undeniable is kind of a mind fuck. And then serves as an amplifier of the entire experience. So utterly transgressive. Yes.


I'm less sure about this point. However, if I didn't feel confident in his desire for me and that he finds me beautiful etc, it would not be okay to be called names etc. Also - I would not be able to tolerate being called ugly, worthless, or other things like that. I'm sure that would pull me right out of my submissive headspace and I would walk away and never turn back.

Being objectified for him/for his pleasure is part of what gets me off at least sometimes. I couldn't tolerate it as a 24/7 condition. But there is something very freeing about just giving in to whatever he wants - relinquishing responsibility for what happens next. Being his fuck toy. Being required to submit to his pleasure, his desire to inflict pain, giving him control over what kind of pleasure/pain I get to experience. And having him use all kinds of nasty words as he orders me/tells me/directs me... and yes, having to repeat back to him those same nasty words. It is humiliating on some level. But it is also another way of confirming his domination and my willing compliance. Idk - it sometimes feels like he's peeling me layer by layer like an onion, revealing me to myself and to him. The physical exposure, the emotional and physical vulnerability, the depth to which he is able to reveal my submission and the levels to which I crave and need it. I think the words he uses to pull me into submission to him creates this tension of being so naughty, so different from my public presentation that it provides new openings into the depths of my submissiveness. The revelations that expose my depravity, things I didn't think I wanted, but turns out I do, seem to come out in all these verbalizations. He says it, describes who I am in my submission, and to have to admit it out loud in response- it is a mind fuck. It exposes truths. Evolves and deepens submission in ways that surprise.

Yes. Definitely this.

I am more of a masochist than I am able to readily admit. I think I especially like the contradiction and the mind fuck of it. I think especially if he is playing with other mind fuck/control elements.

For me the name calling seems to reinforce in me the fact that I AM pleasing him.

Absofuckinglutely.

Both together is weirdly delicious. And using such taboo words does have this quality of humiliation/degradation/contradiction that my subby brains loves, even though my intellectual self cannot explain it, is offended by it. The mind fuck is addictive though.
Part of the mental aspect that is deeply effective for me is when he whispers nasty degrading things in my ear in public. When he tells me that he loves showing off his personal whore as we walk into a restaurant or party together. When he leans over and asks me something naughty/nasty/taboo and I wonder if he was overheard and I feel my face flush and my pussy spasms and my tummy flutters and I start falling into subspace right there. I become so maleable and compliant as he calls me his subby slut etc. My brain melts and I will pretty much do whatever he wants.

It's so weird. I don't *think* I like degradation, but my pussy definitely does. Another layer of these degrading words that is powerful for me is having them written on my body. Wearing such words under my clothes. It is a claiming of powerful taboo words into a loving/control dynamic, but also feeling elements of the degradation and getting off on being less than/only/objectified. It's definitely in the continuum of objectification toys- collar, leash, bondage, pet cages, CMnf, human furniture etc. The words flow into all these other things that I have such mixed intellectual responses to, and yet must admit that they are all things I want/need/crave and serve to heighten my sexual experience, deepen my submission and wrap me further into his control.

Obviously I can only speak for myself, but maybe my thoughts are helpful to you as a writer? Or to others who are trying to figure this stuff out.

Also...there is something humiliating about the physical reaction I have to being called taboo names. My body responds. My pussy gushes, my nipples harden, I become more sexually needy/willing etc. It's like a hard wired connection where my body betrays my intellectual feminist self and reveals me to be incontrovertably a subby slut and so much more. Back to the onion metaphor.
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I find it very interesting to read about how name calling connects you to the sub headspace I also liked hearing about your physical reaction the thought of making you react like that is a big turn on
 
Absolutely love it yes!!! I am sub hubby who is bi and love to see my wife get fucked by hung guy(s) who i would thank for using my wife. Id fetch them drinks and nibbles whilst wearing my wifes lingerie with my tiny floppy cock hanging pathetically out of my wifes panties while her bull would be fucking her.
Id love it if my wife told me how huge her lovers cock was and how i could never fuck her ever like him or a real man.
Id love to suck her bull hard and clean her creampie out after and then id make them a meal...make sure he had my wifes number...taxi him home and if lucky my wife could tell me how amazing a lover her bull was and how she belonged to him.
Id also love to be spat on whilst they were fucking and told what a sissy faggot i was
 
jimmynich said:
Absolutely love it yes!!! I am sub hubby who is bi and love to see my wife get fucked by hung guy(s) who i would thank for using my wife. Id fetch them drinks and nibbles whilst wearing my wifes lingerie with my tiny floppy cock hanging pathetically out of my wifes panties while her bull would be fucking her.
Id love it if my wife told me how huge her lovers cock was and how i could never fuck her ever like him or a real man.
Id love to suck her bull hard and clean her creampie out after and then id make them a meal...make sure he had my wifes number...taxi him home and if lucky my wife could tell me how amazing a lover her bull was and how she belonged to him.
Id also love to be spat on whilst they were fucking and told what a sissy faggot i was
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Sounds like you deserve all the humiliation you get! 😈
 
apom said:
Bitch, slut, skag, skank, whore, cow, sow, jugs, dogface, stupid, retard, cunt, hole... Thinking isn't my best thing and I live to please, so honestly, whichever you want it to be.
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You easy skank. It’s hard to resist.
 
apom said:
Bitch, slut, skag, skank, whore, cow, sow, jugs, dogface, stupid, retard, cunt, hole... Thinking isn't my best thing and I live to please, so honestly, whichever you want it to be.
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I love a fuck toy that is ready and willing to please
 
I love to be called Motherfucker, Swine, Bastard, Fucker, Asshole, Jackass by my females

To my females, I love addressing them as: slut, whore, hoe, bitch, rascal, fuckmeat, fuckpet.

I call them these while I am pounding the fuckkk out of their holes, accompanied by hard, rough slaps all over their yummy bodies.
 
lowcollar said:
As a male submissive, I have found that I find it really erotic to be called names like slut, cunt, toy, cumslut etc. How many of you like being called names and what do you really love?
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I love it when the top is fucking me and using all of those words to describe how he feels about what he is doing to me
 
Being verbally humiliated while being dominated sexually acknowledgment that I am submissive and that I am serving my purpose for the top.
 
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