Female masochists?

[R34D]

In my opinion, most women who say they enjoy being slapped, choked, and spanked like the idea of it. Or, a very mild and controlled version of it. The intoxication of finding a woman who actually submits (and enjoys) to the sensations of various types of pain is truly electrifying.

 

[R34D]

I love it! But I want everything to work afterwards. I can be sore but I don’t want to have to visit my doctor because of a session.

Also, the more I like a person the more I want it. If I’m into them I’ll beg for it.

I think the humiliation of having to go to the doctor after that is extremely arousing.

Obviously we don’t want you really injured.

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

feeling hurt for the pleasure of someone else can be so powerful. Giving into it, submitting to it.... for me it's wrapped up in humiliation and the mental part of submission that is so powerful.

I've been hurt by partners who were just abusive before. It's not the same experience, it doesn't give me pleasure or the sensation.

Well put. There's a major difference between feeling pain (both physical and psychological) as a normal part of BDSM play, as opposed to the pain from abuse. The former is consensual and generally gives both partners pleasure, whereas the latter is often non consensual and only satisfying to the one doing the hurting. Sorry about your abusive partner experiences -- hopefully there will be more of the pleasurable kind going forward.

 

[apom]

I'm a huge pussy girl when it comes to pain. Pain hurts, but for me that's kind of the point. I like not liking it. If you like hurting me I love being hurt. I'm naturally submissive and crave subjugation, sacrificing myself for your fun, and suffering for others' pleasure just happens to be the most complete offering of servitude I can make. I can't guarantee you that I won't whine when things don't feel nice. In fact I can pretty much guarantee you that I will. But what I will also do is ask you up front to please ignore me when I scream and beg you to stop. Does that make me a masochist?

 

[Cruelsmile5]

I'm a huge pussy girl when it comes to pain. Pain hurts, but for me that's kind of the point. I like not liking it. If you like hurting me I love being hurt. I'm naturally submissive and crave subjugation, sacrificing myself for your fun, and suffering for others' pleasure just happens to be the most complete offering of servitude I can make. I can't guarantee you that I won't whine when things don't feel nice. In fact I can pretty much guarantee you that I will. But what I will also do is ask you up front to please ignore me when I scream and beg you to stop. Does that make me a masochist?

I think so-because you’re accepting it. Perhaps not embracing the pain, but embracing the surrender of yourself that the subjugation brings.

 

[PleasureDaddy]

I dated a fairly extreme masochist. I tried to always give her what she wanted without causing injury. If she wanted bruises I tried to make them where they could be covered. She was also an exhibitionist and liked the idea of people see marks on her. I’ve always been attracted to extreme personality women.

 

[Older_Pervert]

I'm a huge pussy girl when it comes to pain. Pain hurts, but for me that's kind of the point. I like not liking it. If you like hurting me I love being hurt. I'm naturally submissive and crave subjugation, sacrificing myself for your fun, and suffering for others' pleasure just happens to be the most complete offering of servitude I can make. I can't guarantee you that I won't whine when things don't feel nice. In fact I can pretty much guarantee you that I will. But what I will also do is ask you up front to please ignore me when I scream and beg you to stop. Does that make me a masochist?

Both physical and emotional, I would say

 

[DpropertyofR]

In my opinion, most women who say they enjoy being slapped, choked, and spanked like the idea of it. Or, a very mild and controlled version of it. The intoxication of finding a woman who actually submits (and enjoys) to the sensations of various types of pain is truly electrifying.

My Master said something similar. He encountered a few women who liked the idea of BDSM but noped out when it came down to actually having a session. If it was just a matter of them not liking pain, he would be okay with that. He can create sessions around teasing/edging/orgasm denial/forced orgasms that are equally fun. He sort of blamed this phenomenon on the popularity of “50 Shades”, but I have no doubt that there have always been individuals who simply don’t know what the Hell they want.

 

[Husband55]

I had a conversation with my Master not too long ago, and he told me that in all the years he has been in the lifestyle, I am the first woman he has met who really enjoys pain. He said most of the women he played with previously might be okay with a little bit of spanking, but not too hard or for very long. Others were okay with domination, but did not want to experience pain at all. I’ve come across posts from quite a few masochistic male subs here on Lit. Any masochistic female subs here besides me?

Was dating a woman very much like this. She still was visiting a guy to give her rough sessions.

 

[subbyclarajane]

I had a conversation with my Master not too long ago, and he told me that in all the years he has been in the lifestyle, I am the first woman he has met who really enjoys pain. He said most of the women he played with previously might be okay with a little bit of spanking, but not too hard or for very long. Others were okay with domination, but did not want to experience pain at all. I’ve come across posts from quite a few masochistic male subs here on Lit. Any masochistic female subs here besides me?

My girlfriend (AFAB) likes to be bruised for a week, spanking, biting, pinching, crushing, scratching, choking, shocking, binding, pumping, flogging, hair yanking… she doesn’t like painal (I don’t either so we never tried). And she doesn’t like gagging.

I was never into until I started to study more, and my body became much more sensitive. Then I started liking it, too. Especially approaching overstim of erogenous zones, so my circuitry gets confused and pain becomes pleasure.

 

[sluttymood]

embracing the surrender of yourself that the subjugation brings.

thats what makes it so intoxicating for me

 

[HarleyQuim]

I had a conversation with my Master not too long ago, and he told me that in all the years he has been in the lifestyle, I am the first woman he has met who really enjoys pain. He said most of the women he played with previously might be okay with a little bit of spanking, but not too hard or for very long. Others were okay with domination, but did not want to experience pain at all. I’ve come across posts from quite a few masochistic male subs here on Lit. Any masochistic female subs here besides me?

I love it! Giving and receiving! Safe, sane and consensual pain when done appropriately with quality foreplay and warm up with aftercare is wonderful!

It’s really important to understand the difference between fun pain and physical trauma. People in sub space can get carried away and embrace things that will require medical care or harm parts of your body you want functioning properly (anal enthusiasts take note). So it’s important to educate yourself on how do engage in pain play safely but even safe pain fun can leave you in blissful agony.

 

[PleasureDaddy]

I have dated three women that I would say at least had masochistic tendencies. It can be very hot sexually but I always let them set the tone. I know the first time I was asked to be rough (hard belt spanking) during sex, I didn’t know what was too little and what was too much. But I learned to read her body language. Sometimes less is more and creates the desire for even more. (This eventually led to body slapping which was amazingly hot).

 

[apom]

In my opinion, most women who say they enjoy being slapped, choked, and spanked like the idea of it. Or, a very mild and controlled version of it. The intoxication of finding a woman who actually submits (and enjoys) to the sensations of various types of pain is truly electrifying.

Does she have to enjoy the pain? What if she doesn't. It's just about you and if her pain pleases you, she'll eagerly endure?

 

[kellyt1994]

I had a conversation with my Master not too long ago, and he told me that in all the years he has been in the lifestyle, I am the first woman he has met who really enjoys pain. He said most of the women he played with previously might be okay with a little bit of spanking, but not too hard or for very long. Others were okay with domination, but did not want to experience pain at all. I’ve come across posts from quite a few masochistic male subs here on Lit. Any masochistic female subs here besides me?

I don't exactly like pain but I love, love, love knowing that someone has that power over me. And an empty threat loses it's edge quickly.

 

[SirSparky]

I like to give pain and it excites me even more if the pain excites her just as much