Kink(s) your partner caught you doing and liked it………

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Hello fellow Litarians! I am curious to find whether anyone else had a kink or fetish that they kept secret from a partner, something you did alone but were caught doing by a partner but instead of being angry or disgusted they actually found it arousing and allow you to bring it in to the bedroom, so to speak.

Since I acquired a couple of Glamour porn magazines when I was a young teen I’ve been fascinated, fixated by ladies hosiery. Stockings and garter (suspender) belt, thigh high (holdups) and pantyhose (tights). The ‘models’ in the magazines all wore them and I masturbated over them for hours. As I got older, I dated girls / women that wore them to feed my growing habit which had become a fetish.

My now ex-wife wore the full repertoire. Pantyhose and thigh highs for work and stockings and a belt for the bedroom. We both worked and I often came home after her. She had this habit of tossing her wore pantyhose or stockings in to the bath to wash. I would often help with the washing, soaping up her hose while masturbating with them in the shower.

One day my ex had gone to work and it was my day off and she’d left a note reminding me to empty the bins and put them out for the next morning’s collection. I forgot to do them until early evening and hurried around empty the house bins. I picked up the bathroom bin and found a pair of discarded pantyhose which she’d obviously snagged. I couldn’t resist slipping in to them and masturbating, making a hole for my long, proud cock to go through. I was happily wanking away when my ex unexpectedly walked in to the bedroom. She’d caught me wanking several times and went ape about it saying I was doing it over other women so I expected the worst but when she saw me and my bigger than usual proud cock (8”+) a dirty smile lit up her face and she hitched her dress up moved her panties and rode the fuck out of me for half an hour, her thigh high rubbing against the pantyhose I was wearing. It became part of our sexual routine. She’d leave me a pair and I’d put them on lying in bed and she’d come in to bed wearing pantyhose too and we’d fuck for hours, sliding nylon on nylon until we were both satisfied.

We got divorced after issues but I still seek women that wear hosiery and hope they don’t mind me slipping in to a pair of sheer pantyhose for great kinky sex!
 
In my hetero marriage, my husband has never caught me at anything, 1st because I'm fairly vanilla, but also because I'm honest with him. For example, he knows... I masturbate, often more than 1x per day... what toys I have... that I take nude pictures of myself (sometimes I send to him)... that I'm on Lit & sexting with horny guys.
However, I'm considering getting a butt plug, for him (I think he might enjoy it). But maybe I'll say its for me, or let him catch me with it. I'm not sure he'll immediately warm up to the idea of a butt plug. But he does enjoy a little anal, with just my index finger, minimal movement, & no deeper than to reach his prostate. I let him do whatever movement he wants & push further down on my finger if he wants it. It took some years before I introduced him to anal stimulation, but now its a fairly common part of our sex & I can feel his contractions from it.
 
I think the kink that my husband caught me with years ago was my desire for porn and in particular, lesbian porn. While he knew I was bisexual, he really did not realize how much I love watching two or more women get it on , on screen, until catching me in a furious masturbation session watching porn legend Tiffany Mynxx who was in her younger years then in an all out, hardcore lesbian orgy.
 
few yrs ago over at my son house. He was away, his gf was at work I thought. So I was in playing with her panties an she came in an stood at the bedroom door watching me with her panties. She smiled and walked away. Later that night she ask me how I liked her panties. I said I liked them very much. She smiled, she didn't tell me not to play with them so when she be at work I played with her panties an bra's. I miss her so much.
 
Not so much caught, but we discovered that we both love breastfeeding
Van, your so lucky to breastfeed an she likes to too. My wife had her kids before I married her. I never got to try breast feeding.
 
Everything is simple for me. My boyfriend, my future husband, once came across an image in my photo collection where I was naked in the company of my grandmother's guests in our backyard. I had to confess my "addictions" to him. After that, if I get another stupid idea in my head, he's always ready to help me with it. And I don't mind if he asks me to do it himself. Well, for example, to do something at a friend's party. There is a question here on the forum. What did you do naked last time? I will answer here. I didn't do anything. Last week, after taking a shower, I did not get dressed and joined my husband. This is despite the fact that this evening we had contractors for my husband's business. They were discussing some projects. I was introduced to them, and I was among them for a while. The night after that was divine with my husband.
 
In my hetero marriage, my husband has never caught me at anything, 1st because I'm fairly vanilla, but also because I'm honest with him. For example, he knows... I masturbate, often more than 1x per day... what toys I have... that I take nude pictures of myself (sometimes I send to him)... that I'm on Lit & sexting with horny guys.
However, I'm considering getting a butt plug, for him (I think he might enjoy it). But maybe I'll say its for me, or let him catch me with it. I'm not sure he'll immediately warm up to the idea of a butt plug. But he does enjoy a little anal, with just my index finger, minimal movement, & no deeper than to reach his prostate. I let him do whatever movement he wants & push further down on my finger if he wants it. It took some years before I introduced him to anal stimulation, but now its a fairly common part of our sex & I can feel his contractions from it.
Tell us more about how you’re vanilla!
 
In my hetero marriage, my husband has never caught me at anything, 1st because I'm fairly vanilla, but also because I'm honest with him. For example, he knows... I masturbate, often more than 1x per day... what toys I have... that I take nude pictures of myself (sometimes I send to him)... that I'm on Lit & sexting with horny guys.
However, I'm considering getting a butt plug, for him (I think he might enjoy it). But maybe I'll say its for me, or let him catch me with it. I'm not sure he'll immediately warm up to the idea of a butt plug. But he does enjoy a little anal, with just my index finger, minimal movement, & no deeper than to reach his prostate. I let him do whatever movement he wants & push further down on my finger if he wants it. It took some years before I introduced him to anal stimulation, but now its a fairly common part of our sex & I can feel his contractions from it.
The finger was a good start - my wife did it for me! She built it up by giving me a hand job and pushing in deeper as I got close. I was surprised at how stimulating it was as it pushed me over the edge. :D Later she used her small dildo in the same way. She found something in me I didn't know I enjoyed, so it is worth trying. He can only say no. 😁 I didn't! Even when we split up after 10 years, she remembered and bought me a squirting dildo and a couple of anal magazines for my birthday!!! Best present ever... until I wore it out. :D
 
The finger was a good start - my wife did it for me! She built it up by giving me a hand job and pushing in deeper as I got close. I was surprised at how stimulating it was as it pushed me over the edge. :D Later she used her small dildo in the same way. She found something in me I didn't know I enjoyed, so it is worth trying. He can only say no. 😁 I didn't! Even when we split up after 10 years, she remembered and bought me a squirting dildo and a couple of anal magazines for my birthday!!! Best present ever... until I wore it out. :D
I failed to mention, the times I give him a little anal with a finger, is when I'm also giving him a bj.
 
An ex caught me sniffing a pair of her knickers while I was wearing another pair wanking, turns out she loved it, ended up with my cock in her mouth and a vibrator in my ass. After that she would buy pairs she wanted to see me in and would leave her dirty ones in my work bag
 
I don't think I've ever been caught enjoying a kink have a partner enjoy it. But I will say that the partner that I have now has enjoyed my kinks when I tell her, and gives me the space I need to discover what I like. I think it's important to give your partner the love and space they need for self exploration without judgement. Sex should be fun and enjoyable, and the kinks just add a special spice to it.
 
I don't think I've ever been caught enjoying a kink have a partner enjoy it. But I will say that the partner that I have now has enjoyed my kinks when I tell her, and gives me the space I need to discover what I like. I think it's important to give your partner the love and space they need for self exploration without judgement. Sex should be fun and enjoyable, and the kinks just add a special spice to it.
My husband & I recently discovered he likes being blindfolded... that's about as far as we've gotten, LOL. Not long ago, I also attached straps (& long scarves) to the bed in the guest bedroom. I'm pretty sure I eventually told him about the straps. And that I'd like him to use on me, but no such luck. (The straps are all releasable by me, I don't want to be truly tied up... I describe this a very mild bondage, LOL.)
 
In my hetero marriage, my husband has never caught me at anything, 1st because I'm fairly vanilla, but also because I'm honest with him. For example, he knows... I masturbate, often more than 1x per day... what toys I have... that I take nude pictures of myself (sometimes I send to him)... that I'm on Lit & sexting with horny guys.
However, I'm considering getting a butt plug, for him (I think he might enjoy it). But maybe I'll say its for me, or let him catch me with it. I'm not sure he'll immediately warm up to the idea of a butt plug. But he does enjoy a little anal, with just my index finger, minimal movement, & no deeper than to reach his prostate. I let him do whatever movement he wants & push further down on my finger if he wants it. It took some years before I introduced him to anal stimulation, but now its a fairly common part of our sex & I can feel his contractions from it.
Wow, you sound like an incredible wife. Love the openness. #jealous
 
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