Would you mind if your husband sucks cock?

[Valendon]

Depends. Quite honestly to "find out" means he hid it from me. In that case.....yes. It would bother me a lot. For several reasons. I want him to trust me enough to let me share in his sexual fantasies and desires. IF he hid it from me and went out and gave guys blowjobs, then it would actually piss me off. For starters he cheated. Period. Second he put ME at risk for a disease. Oh he gave a blowjob with the other dude wearing a condom? Doubt it. So my point is involve me in it. A threesome like that could be beyond wild. Having a guy that can admit that he is sexual beyond the norms is wonderful but do not sneak around and suck off guys and think I'm gonna do cartwheels over it. Do it the right way.

Amen to that-sucking cock and sneaking around to do it are two entirely separate issues!

I’m not married, but my SO has grown to appreciate mmf with me, and it’s white hot exciting!

I’ll add that I made it clear to him from the beginning I don’t have issues with mm play.

 

[melimelissa]

A husband so greedy for cock
Can come to be rather a shock,
So, it's best to know
Your boy's a cock-ho
Before all the rings and whatnot...

Méli

 

[haventdonethat]

My wife offered my cock to my BFF. He was also her good friend. She said it was one of the hottest things she had ever seen and rode herself to completion on a vibrator while watching.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I agree with your perspective, but I find it interesting that the comment right after yours stated that it isn't something she would even want to think about.

Women can be every bit as judgmental as men, just about different things. In my cynical observation women will talk a big game about being accepting of all people but expect their man to be the definition of heterosexuality. Just like they'll slag a guy for not being attracted to their ugly girlfriends yet treat any guy who isn't up to their standards like he is spoiled fruit.

This isn't like raising the idea of a threesome which might get shot down but won't end the relationship. A LOT of women would drop a guy like yesterday's news at the mere mention that he might be slightly bi-curious. That makes it prey difficult to broach the subject.

I just happened upon this thread and the above response is from a long time ago (2015), but I agree that this is still generally the case that a woman wants (demands) her man to be completely heterosexual. "Remarking" about how sexy another woman is, is pretty acceptable, but, I'd never make a comment about another guy's sex appeal. Aside from the relatively small group of very sexually-minded and -liberated women here on Lit, I believe that most women would strongly disapprove of their husband sucking cock.

Many women will "forgive" (but not forget) when their partner has a fling with another woman, BUT, if it was with another man, that would end it.

Many years ago my wife found my stash of hetero porn, and she "knows" that I now surf the internet for porn, but if she knew that I get off on male bi and gay porn, she would probably divorce me.

 

[Cardinal]

I just happened upon this thread and the above response is from a long time ago (2015), but I agree that this is still generally the case that a woman wants (demands) her man to be completely heterosexual. "Remarking" about how sexy another woman is, is pretty acceptable, but, I'd never make a comment about another guy's sex appeal. Aside from the relatively small group of very sexually-minded and -liberated women here on Lit, I believe that most women would strongly disapprove of their husband sucking cock.

Many women will "forgive" (but not forget) when their partner has a fling with another woman, BUT, if it was with another man, that would end it.

Many years ago my wife found my stash of hetero porn, and she "knows" that I now surf the internet for porn, but if she knew that I get off on male bi and gay porn, she would probably divorce me.

Spot on