White men that like Black women

WOW ! All very good points. I hesitated to comment on this thread because I have a few opinions on this. I am hoping WSM98 is a woman, if so her opinion is much more appreciated. Women and men come in a variety of shapes each to one's liking. The fact that we judge because some are darker or lighter well sucks,,,If you don't have chemistry with that someone it doesn't matter what color they are. Just enjoy each other. Thats what really matters.
Hey, never hesitate to say the right thing, even if no one backs you up and yes, even if it's just on an internet thread. Multiple people expressing the same idea doesn't make it correct.

And thank you!
 
Well I am a white guy who has pretty much exclusively been with black women. I grew up on the Southside of Chicago in a neighborhood that was 95+% black (I was usually the only white kid - or 1 of 2 white kids- in my class until I got to High School). So my first girlfriend (first almost everything) was black. And I dated only black women when I was single - then married a black woman.

I just think black women are awesome all the way around, plus I felt more comfortable with black women culturally based on my own experiences as a child and teenager in a black community.
 
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As for the comments about dick size, I never had any complaints from any of my lovers (most of the women I dated, I was their first white guy). And as WSM98 pointed out, dick size varies from guy to guy, not race to race (saying most black women have probably had lots of large dicks is a complete stereotype and kind of racist TBH).

I'd also like to cosign what WSM98 said - having "sex with a black woman" (or any race) is on your bucket list is not cool. You're just fetishizing their race. I'd say it's better to be open to being with other races if the opportunity presents itself. (I didn't necessarily only look to date black women, it just worked out that those were the women I clicked with)
 
As for the comments about dick size, I never had any complaints from any of my lovers (most of the women I dated, I was their first white guy). And as WSM98 pointed out, dick size varies from guy to guy, not race to race (saying most black women have probably had lots of large dicks is a complete stereotype and kind of racist TBH).

I'd also like to cosign what WSM98 said - having "sex with a black woman" (or any race) is on your bucket list is not cool. You're just fetishizing their race. I'd say it's better to be open to being with other races if the opportunity presents itself. (I didn't necessarily only look to date black women, it just worked out that those were the women I clicked with)
I agree with you but I also think there's nothing wrong with tending to find women (or men) from a particular background more attractive, based simply on the fact that a certain look pushes your buttons more than another look. I'm white and have mostly been with non-white women (middle eastern, black, Indian etc.) and look, I just like what I like. It's a pretty wide range, starting with Mediterranean European. I agree fetishizing and objectifying is a real danger (and also, someone who's just flat-out racist could use something like I said to say why they particularly like white women over others for example.) But for me, am I much more likely to find a Greek, or Persian, or Indian, or Latina, or Black woman attractive? Simply because of the way they look, and not because of some idea about what their ethnicity means? Yup. I don't think it's any different than preferring a certain body type or hair color. But I also acknowledge, like I said, that everything I've said here could so easily be abused/misused by someone who is either engaging in racist exclusion or racist fetishization. But that danger of objectification goes beyond race too.
 
I have a smaller cock. I decided long ago I wasn't going to let my size stop me from being an excellent lover. There are women no matter what their race who will bypass a guy who is smaller. Just as there are women no matter their race who like smaller cocks. Lets be honest. More women would prefer a guy who is larger. What is most important for most women is an attentive lover and a guy with confidence.

Why be in denial? Sooner or later she'll see it and hopefully she'll touch it. Why not just be upfront and honest about it. Part of being honest about it is accepting the fact you'll never have a big dick. Now what? Know what positions work better. Work on stamina. Be great at foreplay. I'd say if you are big or small be good at foreplay. Learn to enjoy foreplay if you don't like it. Give a doubting woman, no matter what their race, a reason to enjoy you and your small cock. Don't worry about the women who will never have sex with you because of your small penis. Show the ones who will have sex with you a reason to return.

I believe these are the mistakes small cocked guys make. 1. being in denial of their size. Don't pretend its bigger. It is what it is. Now learn how to use what you have. 2. worrying about the women who won't like you because of your size 3. being embarressed with a lover, if she breaks it off with you after seeing it, she wasn't the one for you 4. being dishonest about your size. 5. Trying to hide it. Why not tell her upfront before you have sex (don't be an asshole about it) 6. Don't be a terrible lover because of it 7. don't be bitter and angry because of it

Be the best lover you can be with what you have.

One of the best lovers I ever had was Ebony. We had awesome sex. Even though I have a small penis she returned.
 
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Why does it look like she is ready to bust out laughing ?
Lets go with it. Lets say she does. Lets say she ends up giving him oral sex. Lets say they end up having great sex and she returns. Who lost? I actually had an ebony woman "snicker" and give it a name. You know what? She returned and we had many awesome encounters.
 
Lets go with it. Lets say she does. Lets say she ends up giving him oral sex. Lets say they end up having great sex and she returns. Who lost?
Its Not about winning or losing. It's about enjoying each other. On a side note she looks exactly like a woman I know. She always had that look when she was trying not to laugh. That's why I mentioned it
 
I always see videos of white girls with black men. Are there other white men who prefer black women?
My black girlfriend is the best I have ever had
I have only dated black women for many years. Just find them most beautiful...not that other women aren't, but for me, once I got a taste of big black booty I was hooked. For me it definitely was "once you go black..."
 
I'm not sure why Lit doesn't allow you to simply dislike a post vs being "angry" or "sad."

Sir, it sounds like you're projecting your personal insecurity and advising others to worry about something that you've chosen to be a big deal. No, dick size is not something you should keep in mind when being with a black woman because guess what - she's still a woman. Meaning, this isn't something you need to use as a caveat for pursing a woman of a specific race. Further, some black men have small dicks & some white men have big dicks. I choose not to allow stereotypes and overgeneralizations to influence how I interact with other races.


Hmm, I understand the sentiment being expressed, I do. But having a threesome is a bucket list item. Being with a specific race feels very dangerous to consider as a "thing to check off my list."
It's more like, you'd like the honor of having sex/a relationship with a black woman.
Well said. As I age and think about what I could have experienced in my pre-marriage days, having sex with a woman who is into feeling good and satisfied both sexually and emotionally is more of a criteria in what I find exciting and satisfying to me. I don't care about age, race or body type anymore. Porn has gotten too commercial, and I love seeing someone truly turned on and in the moment.
 
In my single days I was involved with three Black women. One was my girlfriend for a year or so and probably the most exciting sex I ever had, with semi public blowjobs, fucking in front of windows that neighbors could see into, and regular threesomes with a coworker. The other two were casual hookups, including one woman I met online who liked to drive around the Loop and Lakeshore Drive while I masturbated in the passenger seat, then would go back to her hotel room for anal sex. The third was a young woman who would text when she wanted her pussy eaten, which I always accommodated and enjoyed. I think of all of them every day.
First wife was black and very good looking From South America. Met her when we were students. We were both virgins so we learnt on the job. After two children we divorced and my first serious post marriage relationship was with a little stunner from the Caribbean. She gave great blowjobs. I still have an on off non physical relationship with her.

I then went out with a mature Sri Lankan. She had a really silky vagina but I was never good enough for her. Sex was a chore for her…Met another lass from the Caribbean. Single mum of two daughters. In all the time we were together she never once climaxed despite my best efforts. I remember she had a coil fitted that would sometimes tear the condom…she gave me my first anal…

Had a five year relationship with an Indian girl who I would have married but her background (parents) went against the idea. She had full knowledge of the Karma Sutra! Nothing was off the agenda. She was a fan of water sports.

In between I worked in Thailand so I had numerous Thai girlfriends. Great sex but they can see you as a walking ATM…

My current squeeze is also from the Caribbean. She’s a squirter. Her orgasm record is twelve with her favourite vibrator while I poked her ass…

So, all black and beautiful. Never had the pleasure of a lady of the fair colour so I don’t know if I’m missing anything. Although I came close to it with a young nun, believe it or not, who was keen to experience carnal pleasure. I did finger her once or twice and she gave me a blow job but we never actually did the deed…my Irish Catholic upbringing saw to that…The nun escapade is a whole new story…
 
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I never liked that aphorism. It isn't true and it ascribes some kind of magic to people who are just people like anyone else.

The best interpretation of that I can imagine is that it means "If you think of Black people as something 'other' than you, hopefully you'll get your shit straight if you actually learn to know someone who is Black."
I know many black people that use it, it's usually used more for fun and as a joke, and true for some people perhaps. It's certainly not a derogatory statement.

Most black people I know strongly do think of themselves as other than others because of societies history of treating them that way.
So I'm not sure it's fair to judge other people for noticing that difference in society.
I understand and respect your sentiment for a utopian society that doesn't see race or skin tone difference.
Hopefully we evolve to towards that more and more.
 
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