One of the side effect of TURP surhery is that when you have sex and ejaculate, your semen goes up into your bladder. So everything feels like normal but literally you shoot nothing. I really miss it...of course, not having the surgery would have been very bad. I didnt think it would bother me and I can deal with this as I would rather be able to have my prostate problems fixed. If you are facing this surgery, be mindful as even though the doctors tell you. its still a bit of a shock!