Trans F Who Top

[Renee1967]

The images that we see in porn are not representative of real life. Guys want to see trans actresses who top so that's what they get.

When I was searching for my little unicorn I was curious about how many trans women were tops, versatile or bottoms. Some of the dating sites don't contain that information except in a users profile text but some of the dating sites DID collect that information.

From my data queries I found that top trans women were about 5%, versatile were about 55% and bottoms were 40%. I was very surprised at the number of versatile women but in talking with some of the women themselves, I found that many of them were bottoms but they put versatile in the hope of appealing to a wider audience of men.

Interestingly enough when I queried the data on men interested in trans women, I found 5% of them were bottoms while the numbers for versatile and top were 55% and 40% respectively.

So there was about a nice match between the men and women in percentages of top, versatile and bottom.

The other thing I noticed in chatting with literally hundreds of women was how vocal many bottom transgender women were about bottom guys. In their profiles they would routinely say "No bottom guys!" or "Real men only - no bottoms!". Bottom transgender women hate bottom men and they are not too happy with the small percentage of trans women who are tops seeing them as less feminine because they top.

My girlfriend NEVER discloses the fact that she is a top to even her closest gay and trans friends. She does not want to be judged for her orientation and she knows that she would be.

The only people that she shares this fact with are the trans hookers that we have chatted with (they are fun to talk to!). They are non judgmental and some of them even high five her and congratulate her when they discover she is a top. "You go girl!" or "Get it, girl" is a common response.

The images that we see in porn are not representative of real life. Guys want to see trans actresses who top so that's what they get.

When I was searching for my little unicorn I was curious about how many trans women were tops, versatile or bottoms. Some of the dating sites don't contain that information except in a users profile text but some of the dating sites DID collect that information.

From my data queries I found that top trans women were about 5%, versatile were about 55% and bottoms were 40%. I was very surprised at the number of versatile women but in talking with some of the women themselves, I found that many of them were bottoms but they put versatile in the hope of appealing to a wider audience of men.

Interestingly enough when I queried the data on men interested in trans women, I found 5% of them were bottoms while the numbers for versatile and top were 55% and 40% respectively.

So there was about a nice match between the men and women in percentages of top, versatile and bottom.

The other thing I noticed in chatting with literally hundreds of women was how vocal many bottom transgender women were about bottom guys. In their profiles they would routinely say "No bottom guys!" or "Real men only - no bottoms!". Bottom transgender women hate bottom men and they are not too happy with the small percentage of trans women who are tops seeing them as less feminine because they top.

My girlfriend NEVER discloses the fact that she is a top to even her closest gay and trans friends. She does not want to be judged for her orientation and she knows that she would be.

The only people that she shares this fact with are the trans hookers that we have chatted with (they are fun to talk to!). They are non judgmental and some of them even high five her and congratulate her when they discover she is a top. "You go girl!" or "Get it, girl" is a common response.

My personal experience mirrors this: gonna have to scream "no bottom guys" in my profile too

 

[ZacharyFagg]

My personal experience mirrors this: gonna have to scream "no bottom guys" in my profile too

A friend of mine recently deleted all of her accounts because all she got was messages from men wanting her "bbc." She wants to be treated as a female, but these guys talked to her like she was a top Daddy.
The sad thing is, she is more than happy to participate in mutual fun, if a person comes correct. But she is not at all into just fucking some random dude, because he wants to try something he saw in porn.
I'm not trans, I am a feminine male who only bottoms. But I've always had to put "no bottoms" on my profile.

 

[Escierto]

A friend of mine recently deleted all of her accounts because all she got was messages from men wanting her "bbc." She wants to be treated as a female, but these guys talked to her like she was a top Daddy.
The sad thing is, she is more than happy to participate in mutual fun, if a person comes correct. But she is not at all into just fucking some random dude, because he wants to try something he saw in porn.
I'm not trans, I am a feminine male who only bottoms. But I've always had to put "no bottoms" on my profile.

True. No one (or very few people) want to be an item checked off someone else's bucket list. I think the best compliment my girlfriend ever gave me was saying that I made her feel like a woman like no one ever had.

 

[Renee1967]

I call BS. There a PLENTY of trans girls who love to top. I know first hand. Don’t let one person’s preference fuck up your fantasy. As a matter of fact I’ve met more that are verse. or like to top, then exclusive bottoms.

you may be just having sex with crossdressers; but don't fuck up your fantasy

 

[KinkStevens]

you may be just having sex with crossdressers; but don't fuck up your fantasy

I’m not. Xdressers can’t speak for transsexuals so you wouldn’t know what they prefer.

 

[Renee1967]

I’m not. Xdressers can’t speak for transsexuals so you wouldn’t know what they prefer.

fair enough; I do know who is who, so I have insights

 

[richdon03]

Tgirl day at the bathhouse? What is that all about? You really make me curious!

That happens twice per month at a local bath house.

 

[Escierto]

That happens twice per month at a local bath house.

That's gotta be a couple of beautiful days!

 

[Nekidinaz]

They have themed days at the local saunas/bathouses tgirl days, bears & daddies, nude, twink that kind of thing, they’re usually a lot of fun, let’s people who are looking for certain fetishes explore their desires.

I've never been to a bathhouse but have fantasized about going some time...I'd be certain to go if I were going with someone who had experience with bathhouse etiquette...would love to chat with someone who has frequented a bathhouse

 

[Nekidinaz]

True. No one (or very few people) want to be an item checked off someone else's bucket list. I think the best compliment my girlfriend ever gave me was saying that I made her feel like a woman like no one ever had.

Every female deserves to be treated with respect...trans or not, if you can't respect a person, any person, then maybe you should move on unless you connect with that rare someone who enjoys be "disrespected"...

 

[load69]

semen and precum, want some?

I will take all that you have to spare

 

[SweetBaybeeGirl]

My personal experience mirrors this: gonna have to scream "no bottom guys" in my profile too

What about bottom girls?

 

[eroticbum]

If I were to be lucky enough to be with a trans woman I would treat her like a person. She's not a blowup doll. Foreplay, kissing, exploring each other's body. I'm sure her body language will tell me what she wants.

 

[kccasey]

Funny you should ask this, I noticed this happened the last time I topped. I don’t top usually, I’m pure bottom but occasionally when I’m at the sauna/bathhouse for tgirl day there’s a beautiful girl who I just need to fuck. The last time it happened we were both wearing lingerie, she fucked me first but I needed to have her, there was just something about her that really turned me on so much, really pushed me over the edge

T girl day at the bathhouse? Is this a thing? I need a membership.

 

[Escierto]

T girl day at the bathhouse? Is this a thing? I need a membership.

Did you read the whole thread? People talked a little about it but it still left me with questions. Like where and when!

 

[richdon03]

Tgirl day at the bathhouse? What is that all about? You really make me curious!

There is a bath house, here, that has that, twice per month.

 

[Escierto]

There is a bath house, here, that has that, twice per month.

Do you go on those days? Do you see any trans girls?

 

[richdon03]

Do you go on those days? Do you see any trans girls?

I've been once. I was there, briefly, and saw only elderly cross-dressers. I suppose if I had stuck around I would have seen more. That bath house is local and this is a small state, so I got nervous and left. I tend to prefer to do my dirty deeds a little farther from home. I do know a couple of young and attractive trans people, from fet, who go there, from time-to-time.

 

[Escierto]

I've been once. I was there, briefly, and saw only elderly cross-dressers. I suppose if I had stuck around I would have seen more. That bath house is local and this is a small state, so I got nervous and left. I tend to prefer to do my dirty deeds a little farther from home. I do know a couple of young and attractive trans people, from fet, who go there, from time-to-time.

Wow. That's amazing. To my knowledge I have never encountered a transgender woman in North America.

 

[richdon03]

Wow. That's amazing. To my knowledge I have never encountered a transgender woman in North America.

In the northeast, (and, oddly, in the Midwest) they're visible.

 

[Escierto]

In the northeast, (and, oddly, in the Midwest) they're visible.

I lived in eastern Canada for 20 years and later various parts of the US for almost 50 years. Of course these last 20 years I have been in Texas and any transgender person should know enough to stay clear of Texas.

 

[richdon03]

I lived in eastern Canada for 20 years and later various parts of the US for almost 50 years. Of course these last 20 years I have been in Texas and any transgender person should know enough to stay clear of Texas.

I grew up in Texas. I agree.

 

[drobert44]

I grew up in Texas. I agree.

Kansas not much better...........they dont know I am gay.