emme8
Very confusing
- Joined
- Sep 26, 2015
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I have been accused of ghosting people.
Sorry y'all, but I don't think I was totally in the wrong.
One man I feel worst about was because I didn't have the time to devote enough attention to him. I told him that flat out.
I liked him, but with my other higher priorities, I could not have a thing with him. I would chat if we were both on at the same time. But he wanted a little more from me.
There was another that I really did block and intentionally ghost. I flirted and chatted. I told him up front I didn't get turned on by his lingerie. It was nice and enjoyed some chats with him. I had to remind him several times I wasn't interested in seeing pictures of him in lingerie. The last straw was when he sent me a picture of another woman. I knew he took the picture as a voyer without her consent. I called him out on it. Twice. He didn't remove it from the Skype feed. Even after I asked.
So I blocked him.
I continued to get messages on other forums asking why did you ghost me. And I didn't bother to respond. He didn't listen before. He would not in the future.
Sorry y'all, but I don't think I was totally in the wrong.
One man I feel worst about was because I didn't have the time to devote enough attention to him. I told him that flat out.
I liked him, but with my other higher priorities, I could not have a thing with him. I would chat if we were both on at the same time. But he wanted a little more from me.
There was another that I really did block and intentionally ghost. I flirted and chatted. I told him up front I didn't get turned on by his lingerie. It was nice and enjoyed some chats with him. I had to remind him several times I wasn't interested in seeing pictures of him in lingerie. The last straw was when he sent me a picture of another woman. I knew he took the picture as a voyer without her consent. I called him out on it. Twice. He didn't remove it from the Skype feed. Even after I asked.
So I blocked him.
I continued to get messages on other forums asking why did you ghost me. And I didn't bother to respond. He didn't listen before. He would not in the future.