Strap-on experiences
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New here also...
but not new to being obsessed with a Domme wearing a strap-on! My experiences with then have ranged from amazingly erotic to awkwardly painful. i think it really depends on the expeertise of the Domme and the set up... (lubrication and experience tends to make it a smoother*ahem* experience) It really is very psychological but also the physical experience of being penetrated forces me to accept submission unlike almost any other single act.
That's probably why it figures so prominently in my writing!
but not new to being obsessed with a Domme wearing a strap-on! My experiences with then have ranged from amazingly erotic to awkwardly painful. i think it really depends on the expeertise of the Domme and the set up... (lubrication and experience tends to make it a smoother*ahem* experience) It really is very psychological but also the physical experience of being penetrated forces me to accept submission unlike almost any other single act.
That's probably why it figures so prominently in my writing!
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Lucky.
Yeah, I was engaged to a woman once and she LOVED my Lucky.
Lucky was the name of the strap on we bought from the sex shop. Funny the rutial that has evolved involving between two people and the sex toys they need (or enjoy using). First the trip to aquire this toy (the aukward look I give the person eyeing me down at the register when I put it on the counter because she was has social anxiety and was too shy to walk up and purchase it)
Next comes using it, every last memory is my favorite when it was inside her. Washing it is a memory that makes me smile even to this day **remembers the creamy beige color of the smooth soft plastic, the fake veins raised and creeping to the realistic head, the way the water looked on it, so shiny and how it would bead up on the clean plastic**
I named it Lucky because I felt lucky when I thought about her, I also thought about getting lucky... She loves penatration, I don't. I never liked the artificial feeling of the cool plastic. I did it for her...I loved to make her moan and I got off on fucking her, every time she screamed and pushed back against it pushing it into her deeper. She liked to be fucked, and I gave it to her proper. *smiles fondly*
She especially liked it from behind, and I like to please... regaurdless. I can't say I liked wearing it, it didn't fit well and never got tight enough, I fucked her so much it eventually broke so I took off the dildo and would do it by hand while I licked her clit, or I'd put the end that would have been connected to my body up against me while it was deep in her and play with her clit or her nipples while I had her on all fours.
She loved Lucky... and that was fine and good untill we broke up, I thought she used it with someone else, and I tripped out and cut Luckys head off... she was sad, but no way was my dick getting used by or on someone else and I felt like it was something exclusive to us that had to be destroyed, like our trust. I haven't ever told a soul about this and am glad to remember it.
My favorite porn is Sylvia Saint and her glass dildo, I am thinking these two things are related because using a dildo on a girl, and seeing through the dildo you are using on her are very diffrent expiriences, I like them both.
Great topic Andreina... Feeling the memories flood my mind again has been nice...
*daydreaming of past sex and lovers lost*
Yeah, I was engaged to a woman once and she LOVED my Lucky.
Lucky was the name of the strap on we bought from the sex shop. Funny the rutial that has evolved involving between two people and the sex toys they need (or enjoy using). First the trip to aquire this toy (the aukward look I give the person eyeing me down at the register when I put it on the counter because she was has social anxiety and was too shy to walk up and purchase it)
Next comes using it, every last memory is my favorite when it was inside her. Washing it is a memory that makes me smile even to this day **remembers the creamy beige color of the smooth soft plastic, the fake veins raised and creeping to the realistic head, the way the water looked on it, so shiny and how it would bead up on the clean plastic**
I named it Lucky because I felt lucky when I thought about her, I also thought about getting lucky... She loves penatration, I don't. I never liked the artificial feeling of the cool plastic. I did it for her...I loved to make her moan and I got off on fucking her, every time she screamed and pushed back against it pushing it into her deeper. She liked to be fucked, and I gave it to her proper. *smiles fondly*
She especially liked it from behind, and I like to please... regaurdless. I can't say I liked wearing it, it didn't fit well and never got tight enough, I fucked her so much it eventually broke so I took off the dildo and would do it by hand while I licked her clit, or I'd put the end that would have been connected to my body up against me while it was deep in her and play with her clit or her nipples while I had her on all fours.
She loved Lucky... and that was fine and good untill we broke up, I thought she used it with someone else, and I tripped out and cut Luckys head off... she was sad, but no way was my dick getting used by or on someone else and I felt like it was something exclusive to us that had to be destroyed, like our trust. I haven't ever told a soul about this and am glad to remember it.
My favorite porn is Sylvia Saint and her glass dildo, I am thinking these two things are related because using a dildo on a girl, and seeing through the dildo you are using on her are very diffrent expiriences, I like them both.
Great topic Andreina... Feeling the memories flood my mind again has been nice...
*daydreaming of past sex and lovers lost*
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im from venus too... what's going on here?
I have never told that story and hope you liked it... I enjoyed it...
It felt good to tell it, I happen to be smiling now in fact...
It said to share strapon expiriences, and that counts... jeeze tough crowd...
I have never told that story and hope you liked it... I enjoyed it...
It felt good to tell it, I happen to be smiling now in fact...
It said to share strapon expiriences, and that counts... jeeze tough crowd...
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And YOU just made me smile Venusvenus_can said:Smiles are always nice... They make a person more beautiful!
Venus
I've missed you girl. I thought you had disappeared. You weren't down there in the Bahama's with David Copperfield too were you? 
Glad to see you again....stop by sometime and have some coffee, some tea, or ME.
"Heels"
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venus...
Hey, *smile*, I got a million smiles... lol...
I like to smile a lot in RL... I need to get a picture of myself on Lit so people won't think I am a man, I probably would get better responses...
Hey, *smile*, I got a million smiles... lol...
I like to smile a lot in RL... I need to get a picture of myself on Lit so people won't think I am a man, I probably would get better responses...
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I will always remember my first experience with a strap-on.
I was 18 years old had been dating my gf for about a year and well, i was slightly bicurious at the time and she used to get off on the fact that i gave one of our pals a handjob when we where younger.
One day we met up after college and had this strange glint in her eye, carrying a anne summers bag, further enquiring didnt get me any nearer to discovering what was hidden away.
Back in her room we where getting down and dirty when she asks me to close my eyes. Slowly she starts stroking my balls and sliding her finger further backwards until she was gently rubbing my ass. I must admit i was tense as i'd never done anal fun with anyone before.
After a few minutes play she grabs my hand and puts it towards her crotch where i could feel a plastic dick hanging stiffly. I felt turned on straight away and slowly started wanking and, eventually, sucking it. She was loving it, saying things like "Oooh suck my big dick" etc.
She manouvered me so i was on my stomach and, slipping open a jar of vaseline, started massaging my ass. Eventually she pulled me back and i could feel the cold hard tip of the penis pushing at my hole. Slowly but surely i got the tip inside and felt the most intense pleasure in my life. As she speeded up i was getting more and more inside my ass until it was up to the balls.
The feeling was so good and my gf was like an animal, pulling at my hair and calling me a dirty girl (!) which i loved.
After a few minutes my balls where aching and i was dying to cum. Pulling it out of my ass she started rubbing my dick onto it, asking me to cum all over her big dick.
When i did eventually come it was the most amazing feeling ever and half way through i bent down and sucked all my cum off, looking her straight in the eyes.
Magic!
I was 18 years old had been dating my gf for about a year and well, i was slightly bicurious at the time and she used to get off on the fact that i gave one of our pals a handjob when we where younger.
One day we met up after college and had this strange glint in her eye, carrying a anne summers bag, further enquiring didnt get me any nearer to discovering what was hidden away.
Back in her room we where getting down and dirty when she asks me to close my eyes. Slowly she starts stroking my balls and sliding her finger further backwards until she was gently rubbing my ass. I must admit i was tense as i'd never done anal fun with anyone before.
After a few minutes play she grabs my hand and puts it towards her crotch where i could feel a plastic dick hanging stiffly. I felt turned on straight away and slowly started wanking and, eventually, sucking it. She was loving it, saying things like "Oooh suck my big dick" etc.
She manouvered me so i was on my stomach and, slipping open a jar of vaseline, started massaging my ass. Eventually she pulled me back and i could feel the cold hard tip of the penis pushing at my hole. Slowly but surely i got the tip inside and felt the most intense pleasure in my life. As she speeded up i was getting more and more inside my ass until it was up to the balls.
The feeling was so good and my gf was like an animal, pulling at my hair and calling me a dirty girl (!) which i loved.
After a few minutes my balls where aching and i was dying to cum. Pulling it out of my ass she started rubbing my dick onto it, asking me to cum all over her big dick.
When i did eventually come it was the most amazing feeling ever and half way through i bent down and sucked all my cum off, looking her straight in the eyes.
Magic!
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Hmmm... what a tempting offercchheels said:And YOU just made me smile Venus
Glad to see you again....stop by sometime and have some coffee, some tea, or ME.
"Heels"
It has to be YOU 
Venus
Nexus has two plugs now??
Oh... I will have to go search for this..... not that I could use it. The feeldoe (and the original Nexus) have that added possibility of the man using it. Hmmm wait.. I guess it would maybe still be possible... I'll look.
xfrank said:whitch strap on is better? 4xmpl: nexus with 2 plugs or feeldoe?
plz share your experiences
Oh... I will have to go search for this..... not that I could use it. The feeldoe (and the original Nexus) have that added possibility of the man using it. Hmmm wait.. I guess it would maybe still be possible... I'll look.
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xfrank said:whitch strap on is better? 4xmpl: nexus with 2 plugs or feeldoe?
plz share your experiences
Unsure what 4xmpl is exactly - I never liked the feeldoe (angle is off and bulb shape does nothing for me). I have owned 2 nexus which were fine until they broke in half (again did not use them in a strap on due to angling issues). Again personally, I don't think these are truly made for strap on play but more appropriate for your basic double penetration, hands free play. I am all for the solid 4 strap leather harness and whatever size of dildo my partner wants (which is currently size queen status)- having the flexibility of changing out the O rings for a larger or smaller cock is always handy. I think it depends on if your partner in play wants penetration or not. I hate penetration while strapped up but I know most typical women do enjoy it (not every chick can orgasm without actual stimulation).
If you are considering purchasing with your partner, I would really explore what her expectations or needs are from the use.
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A very wise choice my dear......very wisevenus_can said:Hmmm... what a tempting offer
Venus
Stop in sometime and check out all the photos....would love to have your interaction again.
"Heels"{{{psssst....I've got the strap on, just need someone to strap it on. Come on over sometime.}}}
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my 2 cents
I personally prefer the vac-u-lock system for it's interchangability of attachments. They seem to begin at a really managable size for beginners (5.5"!!). I have two harnesses made by them, as well as several different sized attachments, one is an open crotch system implemented into a panty type harness. My other one I have is leather strap system with two removable plugs for the female driver to insert. All of my different sized cock attachments work on either harness system.
I find this to be very practical as well, especially if you have a tight budget, you don't have to buy a whole (harness and attachment) new product with each purchase.
It seems that whenever I've actually had the experience to use either harness (perhaps it's the age of men that I happen to deal with that cause this to happen) it seems that I made the mistake of letting the strap on activity take upper hand and hadn't really gotten my own satisfaction from the encounter. The man cums and then the whole sex issue is done. Never knowing if or when I'd see him again or if we'd do that again, I end up thinking, "was that it?!".
The second harness sytem, for me, is better as I do get a lil something from it.
I believe that a situation where emotional connection makes the entire encounter all the much better. Perhaps that is why we can sense the intensity from the marrieds/long time partners that post here about their sessions.
Good luck
xfrank said:whitch strap on is better? 4xmpl: nexus with 2 plugs or feeldoe?
plz share your experiences
I personally prefer the vac-u-lock system for it's interchangability of attachments. They seem to begin at a really managable size for beginners (5.5"!!). I have two harnesses made by them, as well as several different sized attachments, one is an open crotch system implemented into a panty type harness. My other one I have is leather strap system with two removable plugs for the female driver to insert. All of my different sized cock attachments work on either harness system.
I find this to be very practical as well, especially if you have a tight budget, you don't have to buy a whole (harness and attachment) new product with each purchase.
It seems that whenever I've actually had the experience to use either harness (perhaps it's the age of men that I happen to deal with that cause this to happen) it seems that I made the mistake of letting the strap on activity take upper hand and hadn't really gotten my own satisfaction from the encounter. The man cums and then the whole sex issue is done. Never knowing if or when I'd see him again or if we'd do that again, I end up thinking, "was that it?!".
The second harness sytem, for me, is better as I do get a lil something from it.
I believe that a situation where emotional connection makes the entire encounter all the much better. Perhaps that is why we can sense the intensity from the marrieds/long time partners that post here about their sessions.
Good luck
who was that woman??
Hello stranger!! You definitely need a system that delivers pleasure to YOU... don't let him determine when things finish.
I guess that other "system" didn't work out.
Are you having any fun these days? Or is this just memories?
MissIntrigue said:
Hello stranger!! You definitely need a system that delivers pleasure to YOU... don't let him determine when things finish.
I guess that other "system" didn't work out.
Are you having any fun these days? Or is this just memories?
I enjoyed giving anal to girls and got fantasising about about being fucked myself. I started by using my gfs dildo, which hurt for a while, I bought a but plug to help open my ass, then I slowly dropped in on conversations with my gf and eventually the big day came and she fucked my ass, it was really hot, made me cum loads. We did this a lot with a strap on and also with her holding the dildo and thrusting it in and out of my ass. Like everything once you've tried one thing you want more and go further. the one thing i felt was missing was the feeling my gf has when I fuck her ass, which is the feeling of spunk filling her when i climax. So although I dont class myself as gay, this is the feeling I wanted. I discussed i twith my gf, who was understanding because she is bisexual and we have shared girls together, and she suggested we have a 3some, us with one of her gay friends and I could fuck her while he fucked my ass so I could enjoy her and also the feeling of a cock and cum filling me. To my surprise he came with his bf and while i fucked my gf i had 2 guys take turns fuck my ass for a good hour and both filled my ass with hot cum. A day to remember!!!! And I'm still not gay!!!
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nicefun,
Getting your ass fucked has nothing to do with being gay or not gay...."getting your ass filled with cum by 2 guys" is playing russian roulette with your health. Glad you had fun and enjoyed the experience but next time consider safe sex.
Getting your ass fucked has nothing to do with being gay or not gay...."getting your ass filled with cum by 2 guys" is playing russian roulette with your health. Glad you had fun and enjoyed the experience but next time consider safe sex.
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uptoplay2 said:
Well, let's just say that things are not much better. The memory is about worn out, and I'm beginning to wonder what my role is here. I've so many ideas- so many things I want to try...including my feeldoe, and here I am wasting. Poo!
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Hey, I'll share.
I have had a number of strap-on experiences.
Most recently I visited a masseuse in Manhattan who put me in a pair of panties and strapped-on before giving me a hot stone massage.
She was this very sexy Asian girl who would sensually place the stones and warm water on my naked body. While she did this the strap-on dildo would periodically brush against my back,legs and ass.
When it would touch my ass I would arch my back up and push my butt up in the air and practically beg for it.
After about 30 minutes of this, she finally turned me over and slid the panties down and pushed the strap-on up my ass. Propping herself up with one hand and jerking me off with the other, she only fucked me for a few minutes before I exploded all over my stomach, chest and face.
Needless to say, I'll be visiting her again!
Hey, I'll share.
I have had a number of strap-on experiences.
Most recently I visited a masseuse in Manhattan who put me in a pair of panties and strapped-on before giving me a hot stone massage.
She was this very sexy Asian girl who would sensually place the stones and warm water on my naked body. While she did this the strap-on dildo would periodically brush against my back,legs and ass.
When it would touch my ass I would arch my back up and push my butt up in the air and practically beg for it.
After about 30 minutes of this, she finally turned me over and slid the panties down and pushed the strap-on up my ass. Propping herself up with one hand and jerking me off with the other, she only fucked me for a few minutes before I exploded all over my stomach, chest and face.
Needless to say, I'll be visiting her again!
Wow, great story! Gave me a boner!! Thanks.
