Strap-on experiences

[CBM514]

Many women haven't thought of it before but quickly come to enjoy it!

 

[doowopdoowop]

Not an experience, yet....

I have these friends, lesbians, dating.... And I've recently had this naughty idea about being treated like "one of the girls." They have me tape my cock to my belly or thigh, have me join in their bedroom games. I'm there to eat and get fucked, and hey, maybe they even let me wear the strap on and do them with it. But of course, I'm not allowed to acknowledge my actual cock, only the strap on. It's a new favorite fantasy of mine.

 

[spawnofdavey]

It doesn't make you gay! If you were only interested in male on male sex= that makes you gay.

I'm sorry to hear that yet another married man tries to reveal an interest in this act where the wife shoots his idea down and not only that, ridicules him while doing so. I'm sorry for that in your marriage.

This is why I haven't told my wife about my fantasy... I already know from other discussions what her reaction will be.

 

[CBM514]

This is why I haven't told my wife about my fantasy... I already know from other discussions what her reaction will be.

I think some of it is a matter of acceptance and openness from your partner and some of it is approach...men who suddenly blurt out of the blue, "honey please fuck my ass" in an otherwise "vanilla" relationship will likely get a strong reaction, but those who lead up it slowly over time may have a different experience...approach and timing mean a lot ...

 

[Dyslexicea]

I have these friends, lesbians, dating.... And I've recently had this naughty idea about being treated like "one of the girls." They have me tape my cock to my belly or thigh, have me join in their bedroom games. I'm there to eat and get fucked, and hey, maybe they even let me wear the strap on and do them with it. But of course, I'm not allowed to acknowledge my actual cock, only the strap on. It's a new favorite fantasy of mine.

I just hate to burst your bobble but your fantasy would be a nightmare to those of us who are lesbian.

 

[doowopdoowop]

I just hate to burst your bobble but your fantasy would be a nightmare to those of us who are lesbian.

Much like rape fantasy and incest... Just a fantasy, it doesn't have to make sense. Tenticle porn, too.

 

[Dyslexicea]

Much like rape fantasy and incest... Just a fantasy, it doesn't have to make sense. Tenticle porn, too.

By the way guys, since it seems like only you guys post on this thread, if you want to give your wife or girlfriend more than a couple minutes of fucking strap it on yourself but if you do her from behind(doggie, a term I hate but my favorite position) turn the dildo upside down, curve goes down down.

Just trying to be helpful.

 

[CBM514]

By the way guys, since it seems like only you guys post on this thread, if you want to give your wife or girlfriend more than a couple minutes of fucking strap it on yourself but if you do her from behind(doggie, a term I hate but my favorite position) turn the dildo upside down, curve goes down down.

Just trying to be helpful.

Good advice for those who may need it...not all guys are two minute wonders though...

 

[Dyslexicea]

Good advice for those who may need it...not all guys are two minute wonders though...

It used to be thought seven to eight minutes was the average for men, it's been revised down to between three to four minute, although not two minute wonders, in my opinion four minutes doesn't seem worth the bother.

 

[Backdoorwhore]

I never even thought I would enjoy sexual activities with a strap on. I couldn't see what pleasure a woman got out of it. Now, I sometimes would prefer fucking my boyfriends ass over actual penis to vagina penetration. I LOVE IT! It's the mental thing of "yeah, you're mine and I am going to do what I want with you" and the orgasm is amazing too!

 

[gman2691]

By the way guys, since it seems like only you guys post on this thread, if you want to give your wife or girlfriend more than a couple minutes of fucking strap it on yourself but if you do her from behind(doggie, a term I hate but my favorite position) turn the dildo upside down, curve goes down down.

Just trying to be helpful.

Thanks Doggie at my house is princess position! lol

 

[Rigger287]

I too would love to experience this but as my wife considers any touching of her or my anus to be perverted and disgusting I suppose that I will never experience this. I do enjoy solo anal play when she is away, but would love it if she was not so sexually repressed (and has been ever since we met - I thought I might have been able to help her loose her inhibitions but even try to get her to talk about her sexual hang-ups brands me as a "filthy, disgusting pervert."

 

[CBM514]

I too would love to experience this but as my wife considers any touching of her or my anus to be perverted and disgusting I suppose that I will never experience this. I do enjoy solo anal play when she is away, but would love it if she was not so sexually repressed (and has been ever since we met - I thought I might have been able to help her loose her inhibitions but even try to get her to talk about her sexual hang-ups brands me as a "filthy, disgusting pervert."

It's not for everyone, sorry she doesn't see it as a good thing though...

 

[doowopdoowop]

I too would love to experience this but as my wife considers any touching of her or my anus to be perverted and disgusting I suppose that I will never experience this. I do enjoy solo anal play when she is away, but would love it if she was not so sexually repressed (and has been ever since we met - I thought I might have been able to help her loose her inhibitions but even try to get her to talk about her sexual hang-ups brands me as a "filthy, disgusting pervert."

I guess ya just gotta figure out an understanding, but I get it, I'm in the same kinda situation. Ya wonder who has the problem, you or her. Do you just keep your mouth shut so you don't fuck things up even more, or do you try and forge a deeper connection? More connection is key, IMO, but really scary sometimes.

 

[CBM514]

I guess ya just gotta figure out an understanding, but I get it, I'm in the same kinda situation. Ya wonder who has the problem, you or her. Do you just keep your mouth shut so you don't fuck things up even more, or do you try and forge a deeper connection? More connection is key, IMO, but really scary sometimes.

Conversation, understanding and openness is a large part of exploration, but at the same time respecting out partners boundaries is equally important in a relationship...I guess you have to ask your self, "how important is it to me to have 'X' and is it 'worth' it to push for"...if it's a nice to have kinda thing or something you wanna experiment with but she doesn't then maybe you let it go and accept that from them...remember, one persons kink is another's vanilla...

 

[kegsy]

I would love to experience this, a woman fucking me with a strapon is one of my ultimate fantasies.

If any women in Scotland are up for it just drop me a pm

 

[jackson65412]

I bet you are fucking good at it too aren't you

 

[Woolmohair]

I never even thought I would enjoy sexual activities with a strap on. I couldn't see what pleasure a woman got out of it. Now, I sometimes would prefer fucking my boyfriends ass over actual penis to vagina penetration. I LOVE IT! It's the mental thing of "yeah, you're mine and I am going to do what I want with you" and the orgasm is amazing too!

That's nice to hear. I often wonder what pleasure it gives a woman when she's taking his anus with a dildo. I want a woman who is passionate about taking ownership and enjoying it.

 

[Felix_Jones]

I think a lot of guys just don't know how to word it as a direct question. And I think a lot of guys are just not sure how to bring it up for fear of her rejection about it.

It isn't the easiest thing to talk about, I know.

Some women go off the deep end and start accusing the guy of turning gay over the desire to have it! How close minded!

Yeah, that's happened. *le sigh*

 

[Berwyn]

I'm sorry to hear that yet another married man tries to reveal an interest in this act where the wife shoots his idea down and not only that, ridicules him while doing so. I'm sorry for that in your marriage.

This was the reaction I got as well...I gave her a few articles about it from the women's point of view. She says she read them and is absolutely disgusted by the idea.
So I just put the idea away.

 

[MissIntrigue]

This was the reaction I got as well...I gave her a few articles about it from the women's point of view. She says she read them and is absolutely disgusted by the idea.
So I just put the idea away.

I'm sorry guys!

 

[MissIntrigue]

That's nice to hear. I often wonder what pleasure it gives a woman when she's taking his anus with a dildo. I want a woman who is passionate about taking ownership and enjoying it.

When involved in a relationship...the power exchange can be an intense experience. The orgasms that are involved with this act are off the charts...but that depends on each persons relationship of course.

For me, I like when he's so comfortable with me that he asks for it, lets me dry hump his ass anytime I feel like it (this makes for some pretty H.O.T. foreplay!) and bends over for THAT too, helps me get strapped up...pushes himself back on my strap on when inserting-showing his deep need for NOW...

Any of those, combinations of and all of those...lead to orgasm for me!

 

[just4friends]

Just one orgasm?

.....
For me, I like when he's so comfortable with me that he asks for it, lets me dry hump his ass anytime I feel like it (this makes for some pretty H.O.T. foreplay!) and bends over for THAT too, helps me get strapped up...pushes himself back on my strap on when inserting-showing his deep need for NOW...

Any of those, combinations of and all of those...lead to orgasm for me!

Hopefully you don't stop with one!!

 

[BBottom]

When involved in a relationship...the power exchange can be an intense experience. The orgasms that are involved with this act are off the charts...but that depends on each persons relationship of course.

For me, I like when he's so comfortable with me that he asks for it, lets me dry hump his ass anytime I feel like it (this makes for some pretty H.O.T. foreplay!) and bends over for THAT too, helps me get strapped up...pushes himself back on my strap on when inserting-showing his deep need for NOW...

Any of those, combinations of and all of those...lead to orgasm for me!

This is so arousing!
It's amazing to meet such a woman, and amazing to get to be so open and free about your desires and wishes.

 

[MissIntrigue]

Hopefully you don't stop with one!!

Never!
As a producer of multiple orgasm, I'm a greedy girl when it comes to taking mine. I will go and go and go! With that said in reference to strap on....lol I like to get mine before I give to any 'him' that I'm with.