NightOfPassion2
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So sorry. To not take care of himself and then demand...ugg.The depression is real. And what i hear is "why are you crying? Are you depressed again?"
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So sorry. To not take care of himself and then demand...ugg.The depression is real. And what i hear is "why are you crying? Are you depressed again?"
I feel for you. That is a real tough situation.I don't know what to do anymore. The prospect of living like this for the rest of my life is very depressing.
I have that problem too let's talkAnyone else with this problem?
I have a high sex drive and the wife doesn't.
Looking for others with this problem, and possibly helping fill our needs.
YeppThe last time I remember having actual sex with my wife was pre COVID... There's been the occasional dalliance but that's typically only me getting her off with a toy / fingers / mouth / etc before she rolls over and I go to my computer and check out Chatropolis for someone to chat with.
Not sexually compatible, as well as lack of sex drive from her due to PCOS, or at least, partly so.
So yes, here we all are, huh...
Indeedit’s really very tedious.
No, you're not alone by any stretch.I'm.so glad it is just not me lately has started to get really down. Been 8 years now
Dude, props to you. This sounds very similar to me. I just started my journey last week. I decided to stop feeling sorrow for myself and get off the couch. At this point I just work out at home but any pointers or things to watch out for in my journey would be appreciated.Heading to the gym. Working out helps me deal with the frustrations at home. Have a great day friends.
Good for you! It all starts with one step, one lift, one mile. I found a very supportive community at my gym. After a year, I lost 60lbs. It’s a journey so be kind to yourself.Dude, props to you. This sounds very similar to me. I just started my journey last week. I decided to stop feeling sorrow for myself and get off the couch. At this point I just work out at home but any pointers or things to watch out for in my journey would be appreciated.
Yes, it is isn't it.it’s really very tedious.
I get no physical attention and try get a hug and she goes stop itMine is sexless because he refused to take care of diabetes when it first happened. Now he's been impotent for over 10 years but it's not just that. I got tired of asking for a hug, some not sexual touch other than when he wants a hj or bj. Even though it is a disease there's a lot of contained rage because he could have taken care of himself. Sex consists of giving him start he wants, then turns around a goes to sleep and i take care of myself when I'm alone. It's a lonely life.
I am very hopeful. Soon I'll have the money for the divorce and I can finally get out of this ridiculous, sexless marriage. I can't wait to lay down with someone who has something to offerChecking in with all the people with whom this thread reasonates. Sexless and lonely. How has your March started?
Anyone making meaningful connections on Lit?
With Spring coming soon, hope springs forth.
Hang in there peeps!
Did you find an outletIn the same boat, been mostly sexless marriage for the last 7 years, completely for the last 2. I'm 40 and she is 34. At one point she suggested opening the marriage up and things improved greatly for about 6 months before she got jealous and I had to close everything back up, so back to trying to find a connection with someone who is only online so as to appease her and still have some outlet for myself that she isn't interested in. I don't understand why she cares if she isn't interested in sex, but no matter the conversation she has never really given me an explanation that clicks for me. I hope everyone is having a wonderful day.
Good luck with your battleSame crud. The depression is a constant battle.
I recently asked her if what she wanted was actually a platonic marriage (since, by way of refusal, that's what she's actually forcing on ME). She sputtered, said she wasn't saying anything like that...but then she didn't say it's NOT what she wants, either. We had some unrelated crap stir up, so it got tabled, but I'm going to press it again this weekend. Time to just put the cards on the table.
If she says yes, that's her desire, then that's my open pass to meet those needs elsewhere with no guilt. If she says no, I'm preparing some expectations. No more riding the fence.