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PornStache75 said:
Anyone else with this problem?
I have a high sex drive and the wife doesn't.
Looking for others with this problem, and possibly helping fill our needs.
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From what I can tell after being here awhile and chatting to others, we make up the majority in here!! It always amazes me how so many of us in our 40’s & 50’s eventually find ourselves in this situation 🙄

You’re in the right place!
 
Goddessglampiress said:
Been in a sexless marriage for 5 years now. Was sleeping with best girlfriend but since she'd found a man I'm out in the cold. Just me, porn, and my trusty vibrator. Quick, quiet, lonely. Sucks!
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I am surprised to see 2 women respond to this thread. I don't know any guys in their 40's or 50's who don't want sex. I quite wrongly thought this was a guy only problem. I guess you learn something new every day. Thanks for sharing.
 
DDBustyBrit said:
From what I can tell after being here awhile and chatting to others, we make up the majority in here!! It always amazes me how so many of us in our 40’s & 50’s eventually find ourselves in this situation 🙄

You’re in the right place!
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Life throws up some crap doesn't it, but finding common cause, understanding and friendship here makes a real and positive difference.
 
Beachaged said:
I am surprised to see 2 women respond to this thread. I don't know any guys in their 40's or 50's who don't want sex. I quite wrongly thought this was a guy only problem. I guess you learn something new every day. Thanks for sharing.
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I am totally in a sexless marriage and have been pretty much for a few years! We’re out there but we are a bit like unicorns 😂

I am a woman in her 50’s with the sex drive of an 18 yr old boy, that’s not normal I’ve been told by female friends the same age and male friends. I should be settling down for my old age with my hormones dying a slow death, but hell no! 😁
 
DDBustyBrit said:
I am totally in a sexless marriage and have been pretty much for a few years! We’re out there but we are a bit like unicorns 😂

I am a woman in her 50’s with the sex drive of an 18 yr old boy, that’s not normal I’ve been told by female friends the same age and male friends. I should be settling down for my old age with my hormones dying a slow death, but hell no! 😁
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I'm amazed what good friends I've become with my right hand, visits from the left don't seem to lead to fits of jealousy thankfully.
 
DDBustyBrit said:
I am totally in a sexless marriage and have been pretty much for a few years! We’re out there but we are a bit like unicorns 😂

I am a woman in her 50’s with the sex drive of an 18 yr old boy, that’s not normal I’ve been told by female friends the same age and male friends. I should be settling down for my old age with my hormones dying a slow death, but hell no! 😁
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I too have a strong sex drive. I don't know if this is normal or not. Some people keep a strong sex drive well into their 60's and some totally lose interest in sex in their 50's. Odd how these things happen.
 
Sex surge

The thing you’re referring to in relation to women in their 40s and 50s is termed the Sex Surge - you should google it. I was on another chat site frequented by women and there were a considerable number of women commenting about it. My own marriage has been sexless over 7 years and now I find it extremely difficult. I wouldn’t say my behaviour has been entirely exemplary for the last year but I’m finding it hard to feel bad about it.
 
Spiritedlady said:
The thing you’re referring to in relation to women in their 40s and 50s is termed the Sex Surge - you should google it. I was on another chat site frequented by women and there were a considerable number of women commenting about it. My own marriage has been sexless over 7 years and now I find it extremely difficult. I wouldn’t say my behaviour has been entirely exemplary for the last year but I’m finding it hard to feel bad about it.
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Good for you! We gotta take care of us too!
 
Spiritedlady said:
The thing you’re referring to in relation to women in their 40s and 50s is termed the Sex Surge - you should google it. I was on another chat site frequented by women and there were a considerable number of women commenting about it. My own marriage has been sexless over 7 years and now I find it extremely difficult. I wouldn’t say my behaviour has been entirely exemplary for the last year but I’m finding it hard to feel bad about it.
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It is sad that we should even think it necessary or possible to feel bad, for just being true to oneself.
 
Spiritedlady said:
The thing you’re referring to in relation to women in their 40s and 50s is termed the Sex Surge - you should google it. I was on another chat site frequented by women and there were a considerable number of women commenting about it. My own marriage has been sexless over 7 years and now I find it extremely difficult. I wouldn’t say my behaviour has been entirely exemplary for the last year but I’m finding it hard to feel bad about it.
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Doesn't that go both ways. I believe just as many menopausal women lose interest in sex and those who experience sex surge.
 
Beachaged said:
Doesn't that go both ways. I believe just as many menopausal women lose interest in sex and those who experience sex surge.
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We are ever changing aren't we, not mechanically remaining the same through all the stages of life.
In my case it is illness in my wife that had removed sex and intimacy. In other respects we remain friends.
 
Yep. Same situation over this way. Husband has t been intimate (not even hugs or kisses) for a bit over six years when he told me he’s now asexual.

I’ll go with others and say that while I abstained and behaved for six years... not so good a behavior as of this year. I have needs and not ready to live a life without sex.

VIVA LA SURGE!
 
15 years

I was in a sexless marriage for over 15 years due to work, illness, loss of libido, etc. I recently had a discussion with her and we are trying to change things. Spent a nude weekend at a remote cabin a month ago - really worked. We are trying to get into other activities as well to spice things up.

There's hope, but not guaranteed yet.
 
DDBustyBrit said:
😂 this may become the new hookup thread!!
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I hope so! I'm willing.

My marriage was sexless throughout it's 12 year existence for several reasons. I've been divorced for 7 years and it's been difficult finding a partner. I'm up for a fun partner, if anyone is game. :D;)
 
If any of you ladies want to have someone to talk to for a deeper connection, and actually really talk, feel free to send me a message :)
 
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