Tasty_GA_Honey
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I’m interested in hearing experiences and advice from thoughtful, intelligent folks here who’ve had the opportunity to revive or reinvent their sexual intimacy with their significant other/spouse/partner.
My guy and I have been together for 12 amazing years. From the very beginning, we’ve had the most incredible chemistry physically, sexually, and emotionally. When we met, I was 29 and he was 44.
A little over five years ago, we stopped having sex suddenly because of serious health issues — medical challenges for both of us, his testosterone tanked completely, super high levels of stress for both of us due to careers and caring for our aging parents, etc. While we haven’t physically had sex (or any associated sexual exploration), we have remained just as emotionally intimate and then some. We have the most incredibly loving, caring, supportive relationship that is filled with laughter and adventure. Physical health barriers just ended the sex.
After five long years, we’ve done ALL the right things and are finally coming (pun intended) out of the other side of this problem successfully. We’ve worked with our doctors to address the health, we’ve both changed careers, and we’ve dealt with the depression issues in healthy ways (meds + therapy).
So, here we are 41 and 56. Our bodies have obviously changed, so I feel like we’re about to had sex for the first time and as virgins. (From my previous posts, I am most DEFINITELY not a virgin. lol) We’re also armed with a new prescription for Viagra that we haven’t tried yet. We’re just a couple of days and one waxing appointment away from tiptoeing back into the water together physically.
For me, I could throw him down right now and suck his cock for 24-hours straight…. But I don’t know if he’s ready for that yet. (Did I mention that my sex drive NEVER waned during the five years? Batteries and porn have kept me sane.)
Has anyone experienced this journey? If so, what did you learn from it and each other? How did you reinvent your new sex life?
My guy and I have been together for 12 amazing years. From the very beginning, we’ve had the most incredible chemistry physically, sexually, and emotionally. When we met, I was 29 and he was 44.
A little over five years ago, we stopped having sex suddenly because of serious health issues — medical challenges for both of us, his testosterone tanked completely, super high levels of stress for both of us due to careers and caring for our aging parents, etc. While we haven’t physically had sex (or any associated sexual exploration), we have remained just as emotionally intimate and then some. We have the most incredibly loving, caring, supportive relationship that is filled with laughter and adventure. Physical health barriers just ended the sex.
After five long years, we’ve done ALL the right things and are finally coming (pun intended) out of the other side of this problem successfully. We’ve worked with our doctors to address the health, we’ve both changed careers, and we’ve dealt with the depression issues in healthy ways (meds + therapy).
So, here we are 41 and 56. Our bodies have obviously changed, so I feel like we’re about to had sex for the first time and as virgins. (From my previous posts, I am most DEFINITELY not a virgin. lol) We’re also armed with a new prescription for Viagra that we haven’t tried yet. We’re just a couple of days and one waxing appointment away from tiptoeing back into the water together physically.
For me, I could throw him down right now and suck his cock for 24-hours straight…. But I don’t know if he’s ready for that yet. (Did I mention that my sex drive NEVER waned during the five years? Batteries and porn have kept me sane.)
Has anyone experienced this journey? If so, what did you learn from it and each other? How did you reinvent your new sex life?
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